Are we taking the ‘fun’ out of ‘dysfunctional?’
I have noted with interest the many discussions this week about whether one is on or off the bus. People who a few weeks ago were writing the Steelers off are commenting with great intensity on the possible scenarios by which the team could reach the playoffs, posting stats on Ben’s studliness, and generally forgetting that they ever doubted – at least until, God forbid, the next loss. Since I am quite new to this football fandom thing, I have found it all a bit bewildering.
Since the losing streak began in November, each week has revealed more clearly the attitudes toward the team under these circumstances. I classify them as The Eternal Optimists, The Realists, The Perpetual Cynics, and The Seriously Angry Ones. Many, perhaps even most of us began at some point on the left end of the spectrum and progressed towards the right as the losses became more disheartening (or maddening, according to taste.)
I guess I would characterize my own attitude as being in the Realist category. I understand that only one team can win any given game. While there are a great many factors that create differences between teams, each team is staffed with pros, all of whom are presumably hoping to excel and thereby make their reputation in the league, as well as a whole bunch of money. Therefore I find it hard to believe that a player in a good franchise would not, as a rule, play to the best of their ability in any given game. Of course, the rub lies in the phrase "to the best of their ability." Thanks to excellent posts by Blitzburgh and others on the salary cap issue, I now understand that if you are spending big money on one of the elite QBs in the league, to take a random example, then you will have a lot less to spend on, say, your secondary, or special teams. And if, because of, say, an injury or two to key players, the situation becomes more than a given player can handle, given their experience, ability, and what you might call intangibles, then they may well head down the death spiral of discouragement. None of this means that I completely exonerate the players and assume that each and every one of them is giving their utmost in every game. But I do find it difficult to believe that they are deliberately playing poorly, even if the results are, shall we say, unsatisfactory. I also find it hard to believe that the coaches are, for perverse reasons of their own, holding out players that could perform better in that spot. (And yes, I’m sure that some coaches are smarter, better judges of personnel, etc. etc., than others.)
I will say that I have been quite astonished to find that I can care so much about a game I’m not even playing. Not having been a sports fan, ever, I had no idea that it is possible to be so engaged. As a result, I can totally understand The Angry Ones. (I have a little more trouble figuring out The Perpetual Cynics. But that’s just me.) I want to assure you all that I’m not proposing to tell you how to feel. My question is more about what sort of reaction from the members of Steeler Nation is most productive. Therefore I’m not talking about how we feel, but in what manner we air our feelings in public. My question is not rhetorical – I really do want to know if there is a way that we as fans can positively impact the attitude of the team. I know that many people were offended when Ryan Clark ‘called out’ the press and fans for their negativity, but it is worth asking whether negativity from the press and the fans makes things even harder for a struggling team.
At any rate, here’s hoping for a win on Sunday. Which I fear may come down to which team is the least dinged up. I’m also hoping that we can pull together as a Nation and support this team that we love so much, even when we don’t love every play that is called, or feel full confidence in every player on the field. You never know - some of them might just surprise us. I’ll be there Sunday, whirling a towel for all of you that can’t be at Heinz Field. (My second game ever – woohoo!)
Finally, Mike Tomlin may have cancelled Christmas, but the rest of us don’t have to. Blessings to you all – I hope that your holidays are filled with family, love, and laughter.
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An addendum, for those of you that were shocked that the original post was so short : )
TheSpatulaMessiah posted a thoughtful and interesting comment several days ago that you can see in its entirety below. After being at today's game, I want to remark on the first part of his comment:
I think it's an interesting question - "is there anything we can do?" On the one hand, not so much. Part of being a professional athlete is being able to deal with fans - knowing when to acknowledge them and when to let criticism roll off.
Something happened during the fourth quarter that makes me think that this isn't entirely correct. Baltimore had the ball yet again, and as the players were lining up, whomever in the booth that is in charge of such things decided that it was time to play "Renegade." This somehow galvanized the fans, and we all stood, cheering and waving our towels. We had been making lots of (encouraging) noise throughout the game for the defense, but this was different, and you could actually feel a change in the d-line. It was as if their spines collectively stiffened. They never looked back, and although there were still some anxious moments, which appear to be the price of being a Steelers fan, then suddenly the game seemed very winnable in regulation, which of course it was. I am also convinced that the fans affect the players more than perhaps any of us would think was reasonable.
To make sense of this, I have to bring it back to my own performing experience. And I can tell you that when you walk out to perform a concert to a full hall, there is a very different feeling there. The audience is already excited - I suppose they feel that the choice they made in how to spend their entertainment dollars is validated by all the other people that chose the same thing. And there is no doubt whatsoever that the performers feed off of that excitement, and it helps us to give our "best game." Unlike the Steelers, sell-outs are not common for us, and therefore a sell-out creates its own sense of occasion. But I'm quite sure that the atmosphere that one imbibes from a pumped, supportive stadium and from an indifferent or even hostile one has to affect the way you play. We may expect that as professionals the players ignore hostility and/or criticism, but, viewed as human beings, one can see why they might not be able to do that easily.
So to those wonderful Steeler support troupes that attend the away games, HERE WE GO, STEELER FANS! Let's get it done in Miami! And to the rest of the Nation, let's send all the positive encouragement we can. We may well not make it into the playoffs, since we can't control an awful lot of things, like, say, seriously annoying coaches that sit their starters, but let's at least end the season with our heads held high!
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How about a BTSC sign for the cameras on Sunday? :-)
Very interesting post. It’s a little more complex than I expected so late, and I’ll have to read it again to fully absorb it, but overall very well laid out and thoughtful. You are clearly a woman who has great insight into the nature of we who comprise The Nation. Hard to believe you’re not a life-long fan.
Good post momma r.!
Maybe we should all send Clark and others e-mails
complimenting them! Even if Clark has stunk it up this year, I wouldn’t mind sending him an email saying that I’ll never forget his time as a Steeler and the hit he laid on wes welker
Actually,
I think that’s a great idea.
"The standard of expectation does not change." - Mike Tomlin
by Rebecca Rollett on Dec 24, 2009 10:15 AM EST up reply actions
Or the hit on Willis McGahee
Players who should be in the Hall of Fame
DIck Lebeau, Pat TIllman, Dwight White, Donnie Shell, L.C. Greenwood, Ray Guy, Steve Tasker, Greg Llyod, Andy Russel, Chris Carter and Kevin Greene
2009 Pittsburgh Steelers the Perefect Storm of Suck
Chris Henry 1983-2009 RIP
by WVPiratesfan on Dec 24, 2009 12:06 PM EST up reply actions
Appreciate the Perspective
I’ve really enjoyed your contributions to the site. It’s refreshing to have not just a feminine perspective (we DO have some of those on BTSC) but the point-of-view of a newbie fan. My wife is slowly but surely becoming a fan — if for no other reason than she simply can’t abide the funk I fall into after a loss — and it’s interesting to hear her take on things. For example, she absolutely hates endzone celebrations, over-the-top hits, and guys taking the field after suffering concussions. She also cannot understand why Ben holds onto the ball so long, thinks Casey needs to lose some weight, and thinks James Harrison is downright scary. Hmm . . . maybe she’s on to something with those last three.
by Citizen of Steeler Nation on Dec 24, 2009 10:00 AM EST reply actions
Good Lord, I must be your wife!
Or at least, we must be twins separated at birth. I’m always screaming at Ben to get rid of the ball and am miserable when somebody is first back after a concussion. (Actual, I’m miserable a lot of the time, because I’m sick with worry when Ben gets knocked around.) The violence of football is the least appealing aspect of it to me, and I think Ben could stand to lose a bit of weight as well as Big Snack. The only place I would differ is endzone celebrations – I don’t really care for the “look at me how awesome am I” type, but appropriate ones, when players hug each other, especially mentors/mentees (is that a word?,) touching ones (such as Dennis Dixon’s sending it up to his mom) and funny ones (like, gasp, some of Chad Ochocinco’s latest antics) are great. Thanks for your kind remarks, and tell your wife that we should do lunch…
"The standard of expectation does not change." - Mike Tomlin
by Rebecca Rollett on Dec 24, 2009 10:14 AM EST up reply actions
The eternal optimist
my favorite
"Now that I'm here, I don't want to just be here, I want to be here for a long time." Hines Ward, 1998 4th round draft pick.
by kick him in the head on Dec 24, 2009 10:12 AM EST reply actions
My Eternal Optimist
stamp on my forehead flashes neon colors. Guess it was all in the “home training” from childhood, Hope does indeed spring eternal! Look for positives and never, ever give up,
Yet another wonderful post, momma! Merry everything!
When the tailgate drops, the BS stops. Shut up and play!
Glass half-full and then some
Great post! I think our team deserves all the positivity we can send their way. Just look at what the team has given us over the years.(even this season) We all run into slumps in life. That seems to make success all the sweeeter. Look at the last game. The offense bailed out the D, who had a particularly rough day. But, how many times has it been the other way around. I have to chuckle at the fair-weather fans who left the stadium before that amazing last drive. They missed history in the making. And don’t forget if Ben gets rid of the ball faster that drive never happens. Opposing secondaries normally have to cover receivers for a couple of seconds. Imagine how they must hate trying to stay with ours for 10 or 15. I bet even our secondary looks good Sunday. Anyway, the koolaid sure tastes good. After all, it’s Steeler koolaid. Happy Holidays Nation!
Great post
I think it’s an interesting question – “is there anything we can do?” On the one hand, not so much. Part of being a professional athlete is being able to deal with fans – knowing when to acknowledge them and when to let criticism roll off. On an avergae individual day to day basis, there’s nothing one of us can do to impact the outcome of a game, for better or worse. But in a greater sense, what can we do? I have a few ideas.
1) Don’t make it personal
Someone may well have played a bad game. He may even be a bad player or coach or whatever. This does not mean that he has deliberately done anything to hurt you personally. He is not (necessarily) a bad human being, and under no circumstances does he deserve threats or violence. That kind of behavior is contrary to what sports are all about.
2) You’re a representative
By wearing Steelers gear or posting on Steelers forums, you’re identifying as part of a group. In a small way, you represent Steeler Nation. So try to conduct yourself accordingly. When a Steelers fan bails on her team after a few losses (I don’t mean being critical, I mean totally renouncing her loyalty), it reflects on all of us. When a Steelers fan obnoxiously picks a fight with a fan of another team without a good reason, it reflects on all of us. And when a group of Steelers fans organize a volunteer event, or become a reliable source of income for a local sports bar, that reflects on us too. Just be aware.
3) Respect diversity
Here I don’t mean physical/cultural/etc. diversity (which goes without saying) but that there are different types of fans, who react differently than you would. momma emphasized this in the original post, but it’s worth repeating. Some of us play the Perpetual Optimist more often than others; some of us more readily become Angry Ones. Accept that. Everyone hates the person who questions your fandom, or who tries to tell everyone else that there’s only one “right” way to enjoy the Steelers.
And with that, I’m done telling people the right way to enjoy the Steelers.
by TheSpatulaMessiah on Dec 24, 2009 12:55 PM EST reply actions
Great Post Momma & Well Said Messiah
as 1BlkGld says "Merry Everything!’
When You Run The Ball Good Things Happen
Great response, TSM...
I just have one question – under what circumstances would it be appropriate to pick a fight with a fan from another team? Sorry – couldn’t resist. Great comment, and happy holidays.
"The standard of expectation does not change." - Mike Tomlin
by Rebecca Rollett on Dec 24, 2009 2:38 PM EST up reply actions
I respond to jokes as if they were serious questions
Well, for instance, some of the BTSC folks seem to have developed a healthy trash-talking relationship with a few Baltimore Beatdown regulars. They’re able to bond, so to speak, over the rivalry between teams, and so they’re able to insult each other in a way that wouldn’t be appropriate with a stranger in a sports bar.
by TheSpatulaMessiah on Dec 24, 2009 3:20 PM EST up reply actions
That makes sense.
And as to the bonding, I have a sneaking suspicion that if Mr. MaLoR had to choose between being banned for life from here or from the Baltimore Beatdown, he wouldn’t be able to give us up…
"The standard of expectation does not change." - Mike Tomlin
by Rebecca Rollett on Dec 24, 2009 9:49 PM EST up reply actions
I suppose that by commenting on #2...
I’m violating the spirit of #3, but here goes. My British husband had never been to an American football game before taking me yesterday (that was my Christmas present – probably more the “him going with me” part than the buying the tickets) and when the Ravens ran back into the tunnel after the first half he was shocked to hear the nearby crowd booing them. Is this usual? I wouldn’t know. But it very much went against his “tally ho we’re all good sports” mentality. I have to say that the fans around us were great – from my standpoint, anyhow – engaged, cheering, but not obnoxious or seriously plastered. The only thing I found a bit off-putting – but maybe that’s the ‘momma’ part in my handle – is that the place was disgusting afterwards. I understand that there really isn’t anyplace to put your trash, but dropping your chicken bones on the ground for other people to slip on? That seemed a bit much to me. It was a tiny drop of irritation, however, in a sea of wonderfulness when they managed to get a W!
"The standard of expectation does not change." - Mike Tomlin
by Rebecca Rollett on Dec 28, 2009 12:22 PM EST up reply actions
Just a ...
comment on “tally ho, we’re all good sports.” 20 years ago I had the opportunity [and thrill of a lifetime] to play with the Brussels British Rugby Club. The one aspect of the whole experience that I never could come to grips with was that “tally ho” spirit. 90 minutes of folks trying to rip your face off, punch you in the nose under cover of the scrum, etc and then you were supposed to go to the clubhouse with your opponents, drink beer, sing songs, etc as if everyone were buds. It was certainly different.
I told my husband about your comment
and he said “Yes of course, that’s how it works” as if we were all crazy. Maybe the Englishmen, like the mad dogs, went out too many times in the midday sun…
"The standard of expectation does not change." - Mike Tomlin
by Rebecca Rollett on Dec 29, 2009 11:36 AM EST up reply actions
I think it's partly the intensity of a rivalry
At my favorite Steelers bar, fans of other teams are normally welcome, and no one gives them a hard time. I’ve been in Browns hangouts (with my friend, who’s a fan) and had good football conversations with people there, including the ones wearing anti-Steelers gear. But as games become more important, passions get more intense. The AFC Championship last year was unreal, with a much larger group than usual, and there were some people were booing the moment the Ravens took the field, yelling “virgin!” whenever Flacco and Harbaugh were shown on screen, and cheering when Ravens players were injured. (But, just like at the actual stadium, it went very quiet in the bar when McGahee had to be carried off the field.)
But overall, as the importance increases, especially if there’s a rivalry, sports crowds overall get more obnoxious (with the prime example perhaps being the buildup to the World Cup, in the other “football,” where you get outright riots).
by TheSpatulaMessiah on Dec 29, 2009 8:40 AM EST up reply actions
Wow. Another wonderful, well written post.
How we’d get so many good writers and communicators? Think you can teach Who-Dey and the other one a few lessons on grammar and communicating?
One of the reasons your posts imparticular make such great reading and get such responses, is because as a self-annointed ‘newbie,’ your POV is clear and un-muddled. The rest of us???? Not so much. Certainly we have vested interests (our hearts!) that make it very hard to remain objective.
I for one, will admit to running the gauntlet of feelings above during this 5 game skid, mainly because it doesn’t happen often and it’s so very hard to make sense of. But, I am happy to say that by Wednesday/Thursday, the eternal optimist returns and I can’t wait to get the jersey back on!!!
Thanks for the Post & Best Wishes for the Holdiays!!!
Who he?
"The standard of expectation does not change." - Mike Tomlin
by Rebecca Rollett on Dec 24, 2009 3:14 PM EST up reply actions
Super Troll.
He and another Bengals fan “hi-jacked” the site two Sundays ago when Blitz was travelling and posted their garbage on every single fanpost that was made.
Some of the Nation called them out on their level of maturity and I would guess by the responses that passing the 3rd grade would be generous….
I assume that you are refering to Who-dey and that other guy can't remember his SN
Players who should be in the Hall of Fame
DIck Lebeau, Pat TIllman, Dwight White, Donnie Shell, L.C. Greenwood, Ray Guy, Steve Tasker, Greg Llyod, Andy Russel, Chris Carter and Kevin Greene
2009 Pittsburgh Steelers the Perefect Storm of Suck
Chris Henry 1983-2009 RIP
by WVPiratesfan on Dec 24, 2009 11:13 PM EST up reply actions
You got it.
The other guy has the Marvin Lewis avatar, just can’t remember the name. It’s easy, something like Bengal-Fan or somesuch.
Thats it, Bengals-Fan
Players who should be in the Hall of Fame
DIck Lebeau, Pat TIllman, Dwight White, Donnie Shell, L.C. Greenwood, Ray Guy, Steve Tasker, Greg Llyod, Andy Russel, Chris Carter and Kevin Greene
2009 Pittsburgh Steelers the Perefect Storm of Suck
Chris Henry 1983-2009 RIP
by WVPiratesfan on Dec 25, 2009 9:07 PM EST up reply actions
For those who care
I love football. Be it high school,college or pro give me a football game to watch and I’m a happy man. I generally don’t even care about the outcome of the game just like to watch it being played. That is unless the outcome affects the Steelers, then the games matter, then I care. When the Steelers lose it hurts and when they blow leads in the 4th quarter it really hurts, to the point of making me a little angry. I have not posted on this site very often (just a couple of posts after the loss to the Raiders) but I read it all the time and I can honestly understand most of the negative posts. If you’re upset about the way the team is playing where better to vent than on a blog full of people who you can share those feelings with. I agree with Momma when it comes to The Perpetual Cynics. I love the Steelers, and cannot understand how someone can call themselves a Steelers fan and continually post nothing but negative comments on the team. Don’t take me wrong they have just a much right to post here as The Eternal Optimists,The Realists and The Seriously Angry Ones, I just don’t believe they are really Steeler fans, they’re probably Browny, Bungles and Ratbird fans just trying to cause dissension in the ranks. So if you are a true Steelers fan and you need to vent after a disappointing loss, I’ll be hear reading it and sharing your pain. If you want to share the joy of a big win I’ll be here with a big smile on my face. Steeler fans are always Steeler fans win ,lose or draw and they all have a right to be heard. We just need to recognize the The Perpetual Cynics for what they are and not let their negativity affect us.
Momma
less that a ten page post, in a hurry? :)
Have a great holiday.
If you buy a foreign made product you give money to a person who will not be buying an American made produdt that you get paid to make. Think about it next time you're at the store.
That was my Christmas gift...
to my peeps here at BTSC.
I take it that you are throwing out a challenge to PixburghArn for biggest smart-aleck on the site… : )
"The standard of expectation does not change." - Mike Tomlin
by Rebecca Rollett on Dec 25, 2009 9:56 AM EST up reply actions
It's a tie
Except you are still trying…I already am. I knew I liked you from day one for a reason. :)
"A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." - Winston Churchill
My dad would disagree
but I don’t “try” to be a smart-aleck.
If you buy a foreign made product you give money to a person who will not be buying an American made produdt that you get paid to make. Think about it next time you're at the store.
We
wouldn’t want to take the fun out of it, by just giving Arn that title.
"You have to make it happen." Joe Greene
by LongTimeSteelersFan on Dec 26, 2009 3:18 PM EST up reply actions
Trust me it's not work
"A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." - Winston Churchill
your ass is just naturally smart, isn't it
Players who should be in the Hall of Fame
DIck Lebeau, Pat TIllman, Dwight White, Donnie Shell, L.C. Greenwood, Ray Guy, Steve Tasker, Greg Llyod, Andy Russel, Chris Carter and Kevin Greene
2009 Pittsburgh Steelers the Perefect Storm of Suck
Chris Henry 1983-2009 RIP
by WVPiratesfan on Dec 27, 2009 12:01 AM EST up reply actions
I can fart straight "A's"
"A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." - Winston Churchill
by PixburghArn on Dec 30, 2009 10:56 AM EST up reply actions 2 recs
thats impressive
by the way when are we getting a driveby report
Players who should be in the Hall of Fame
DIck Lebeau, Pat TIllman, Dwight White, Donnie Shell, L.C. Greenwood, Ray Guy, Steve Tasker, Greg Llyod, Andy Russel, Chris Carter and Kevin Greene
2009 Pittsburgh Steelers the Perefect Storm of Suck
Chris Henry 1983-2009 RIP
by WVPiratesfan on Dec 30, 2009 12:40 PM EST up reply actions
I wasn't going to do one
but I guess I can.
"A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." - Winston Churchill
Lucky for us...
that we aren’t Colts fans. We would just roll over and let Arn run riot over the entire site.
"The standard of expectation does not change." - Mike Tomlin
by Rebecca Rollett on Dec 29, 2009 10:04 AM EST up reply actions
Good things happen, when Arn runs. :)
"You have to make it happen." Joe Greene
by LongTimeSteelersFan on Dec 29, 2009 12:07 PM EST up reply actions
…for OC
"Now that I'm here, I don't want to just be here, I want to be here for a long time." Hines Ward, 1998 4th round draft pick.
by kick him in the head on Dec 30, 2009 9:00 AM EST up reply actions
Just give me Arians' number and I'll call him during the game
I’ll tell him when to run!
"A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." - Winston Churchill
by PixburghArn on Dec 30, 2009 10:58 AM EST up reply actions
I'd bet there's a 666 chain in it
I guess just try to plug that in with the “few” possible 10 digit combinations, and eventually you’ll get him. Throw in a flea flicker for me
"Now that I'm here, I don't want to just be here, I want to be here for a long time." Hines Ward, 1998 4th round draft pick.
by kick him in the head on Dec 30, 2009 1:13 PM EST up reply actions
Nothing has been fixed yet.
I liked the way the Steelers’ offense hung in there against the Pack, but I’m not under any illusions that this team is going anywhere. Even if we’re lucky enough to back into the playoffs (which I doubt), our defensive backfield is bound to kill us. As a fan, though, I’m still hoping they win their last two games.
Will Tomlin be fired after this year? I mean, with that onside kick and lack of team trust and everything..Really shows he hates 1/2 his team. Has there been any word on a defensive walk out? I hear Harrison is faking an injury to show Tomlin up and prove a point. Think they will fight with frying pans or something?
No, they'll just settle for beating the Ravens to a pulp.
When the tailgate drops, the BS stops. Shut up and play!
Kidding?
I don’t think his action shows that he hates the Defense, he’s simply showing that he can accurately assess the Defense’s performance and potential. Last night watching Da Bears almost lose to the Vikes via a pourous defense was like watching the Steelers. I think the Steelers D needs to look in the mirror [which I’m sure has alread been accomplished] and say “we’ve got issues that need fixing and that was the right call.”
Addedum to the addendum
Being there at the stadium does make a difference, although more as a group than as individuals. Performing for a live audience does incorporate the character of said audience. When I said that we couldn’t do much, I was talking more about out of town fans (although having Steeler Nation members living everywhere that has an NFL stadium is very significant for road games).
Glad to hear that “Renegade” still works sometimes. That’s been in doubt for the last three home games.
by TheSpatulaMessiah on Dec 29, 2009 8:45 AM EST reply actions
Maybe it wasn't "Renegade" -
maybe it was me. acrollet pointed out that we rolletts are 3 for 3 – he and I were at the Browns game last December, he was at the Broncos game this fall, and of course I was at the Ravens game Sunday. Perhaps the Rooneys should consider flying us to Miami? I’m definitely willing to sacrifice my time, and I expect that acrollet would be willing as well. Although if there is someone out there in NFL land who always causes the Jets to lose, flying them to NY might be money even better spent. ; )
"The standard of expectation does not change." - Mike Tomlin
by Rebecca Rollett on Dec 29, 2009 10:10 AM EST up reply actions
I'll be contributing in FL on Sunday
I’m freakin excited, to say the least
"Now that I'm here, I don't want to just be here, I want to be here for a long time." Hines Ward, 1998 4th round draft pick.
by kick him in the head on Dec 30, 2009 9:01 AM EST up reply actions
Sweet!
Scream some for me too!
"The standard of expectation does not change." - Mike Tomlin
by Rebecca Rollett on Dec 30, 2009 1:45 PM EST up reply actions

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