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BTSC Take on Ben Roethlisberger's Civil Suit is that There is No Take.

Pittsburgh Steelers quarterback Ben Roethlisberger has been identified as one of nine individuals who were listed as defendants in a Washoe County (Nevada) online court document.  A lawsuit, filed by Andrea McNulty, an employee of Harrah's Casino, claims Roethlisberger sexually assaulted her.

There is one thing and only one thing that we know for certain.  That is, Andrea McNulty had $200 to spend.  That is the cost of filing a civil suit, regardless of whether there is a shred of truth to it.  If one wanted to get $200 worth of jollies, you can file a civil suit against George Bush, then sit back and watch the media.

While I insist that my bias for the Pittsburgh Steelers will not shade my reaction to this, there are two things quite curious.  First, it has taken more than a year for this to come to fruition.  Second, it is important to note that while civil complaints were filed, there has not been any criminal complaint or any criminal investigation, which seems quite strange to me.

Atlanta-based attorney David Cornwell denied Roethlisberger sexually assaulted McNulty. "This weekend Andrea McNulty served Ben Roethlisberger with a civil complaint accusing him of sexually assaulting her in July 2008. Ben has never sexually assaulted anyone; especially Andrea McNulty. The timing of the lawsuit and the absence of a criminal complaint and a criminal investigation are the most compelling evidence of the absence of any criminal conduct. If an investigation is commenced, Ben will cooperate fully and Ben will be fully exonerated," Cornwell said.

My bottom line is I feel absolutely nothing now about this matter.  I do not feel any inclination to rush to Ben's defense because I am a Steelers fan; nor do I feel any inclination to believe some woman who at this point simply had $200 at her disposal.

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Well I will be the first to say that if this were true I would be totally appalled. I was also shocked that someone like Ben Roethlisberger would do something like this.

 Indeed, I think as a young man we can expect him to pursue women, but certainly not like this. I am a big fan of Big Ben and to me he has never come across as someone crass and irresponsible with people. Certainly himself and his motorcycling accident(but a young man flush with cash and on top of the world…things like this can happen). Also, I know there are pictures with him and drunk girls…but I got pictures to with myself. Lol.

However, there is some more information that may indeed shed light on what happened, and who we are dealing with.

Here is SOME INFORMATION:
There is also the question of the psychiatric care the accuser is under.

Sources connected with the case say that a former co-worker of McNulty’s at Harrah’s came forward with the story that around the time McNulty hooked up with Roethlisberger, she was allegedly involved with a married man.

One who never existed.

The man’s wife created an email account, posing as a U.S. soldier in Iraq. The wife began corresponding with Andrea McNulty to gain information.

Her co-worker McNulty fell in love with this fictitious soldier and began telling people they were engaged. When the correspondence stopped, Andrea McNulty then began telling people the soldier was killed in action.

According to TMZ, McNulty told at least one co-worker she began seeing a psychiatrist because of the phantom soldier and not because of Ben.

Is this info legit…no one knows. What we do know is that this will come out in the open in the near future.

Also, here’s the full link:
http://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/2009/07/andrea-mcnulty-ben-roethlisberger-sexual-assault-lawsuit-details-emerge/

by surag238 on Jul 21, 2009 3:03 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

sorry, the phrase I wrote above
Is this info legit…no one knows. What we do know is that this will come out in the open in the near future.

Is entirely MINE.

by surag238 on Jul 21, 2009 3:04 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

I hope he goes to court

I dont want him to settle out of court cause then we’ll just have Ravens fans calling our QB a rapist.

I’d like to see this go quickly. Get in court, get proven innocent ideally, and get out. Fast. And move right along with life. And then countersue this chick for slander.

by Mechem on Jul 21, 2009 3:18 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

We may never know, though...

Because the case is civil, not criminal, the outcome won’t prove what happened in the hotel room. Even if Ben settles and pays her a sum of money, that wouldn’t mean he was guilty.

Regardless, the acts accounted for by McNulty are pretty grotesque. FanHouse has a copy of the lawsuit PDF, which reveals some pretty appalling details. They also do a pretty good job of explaining what this means for Ben going forward.

What is Goodell gonna do?

by M. Katz on Jul 21, 2009 4:59 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Most important question to football

Agreed thats what we should probably focus on given that this is a football forum.

I personally think, since its not a criminal indictment, he’ll let it play out and then see what happens. I dont see a suspension coming out of it unless a court truly rules him guilty of the actions.

I also dont forsee a suspension until the court is over, like they are doing with Burress, because again there is no Criminal proceedings going on.

by Mechem on Jul 21, 2009 5:10 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

As a Ravens Fan...

As a ravens fan, I won’t call Big Ben a rapist. I can’t stand the man on the field (just because he always beats us) but I have always seen him as a class act. I’m truly sorry if this is true and I hope for the NFL’s sake as well as the fans sake that it’s not. However I do have to add that he does make some dumb decisions i.e. the motorcycle incident. That does not make this any more true or believable though. And everyone does at least one thing stupid and if that’s his, then that’s not too bad haha and this article that was written is not biased and I enjoy reading behindthesteelcurtain articles. That being said “Go Ravens” and I hope we don’t get beaten 3 times again this year haha but those were all VERY good CLOSE games!

by NgataChance!! on Jul 21, 2009 5:21 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

karma

for all the times I called Ray Ray a murderer and Jamal a coke head

watchkalibrun.com

by Zak Woods on Jul 22, 2009 9:27 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

As a vikings fan...

I do not see any bias in your post, Rothlisberger is known as a class act, except don’t ride a motorcycle with him…
Sorry, had to say it…

by Vikingsfan17 on Jul 21, 2009 3:20 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

A no win potential

Considering all the co-defenants (other than Ben) are former co-employees of the plaintiff suggests the plaintiff will claim they 1) exerted pressure on her to not file charges against a valued customer, or 2) they conspired to cover up the event by destoying evidence (videos), or 3) they somehow colluding against her to undermine her claims.

On the surface, such a "they’re all out to get me" claim depicts the plaintiff as being mental. On the other hand, A civil complaint against so many defendents pertaining to a single event must involve so many verifiable details that make the truth of the plaintiff’s claims manifest, or the whole thing falls apart. Therefore this woman is either very foolish, an artful schemer, or exactly what she claims to be.

Also considering the number of defendants and their connection to Harrahs, I suspect she told her co-workers that Ben raped her (whether they had sex, and whether the sex was consentual was known only to themselves). Therefore she may be able to develop a case of harrassment and/or conspiracy against her co-workers to suppress her accusations, but that would prove nothing concerning what may have transpired between her and Ben.

If he acted as she claims in her suit, he deserves to be exposed and to pay accordingly (because after all, the point of a civil suit is money). If he did nothing sexually improper – but the case against her co-workers cannot be shown to be groundless – Ben’s character may remain besmirched in the eyes or the public.

by workingon7 on Jul 21, 2009 3:22 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Latest from P-G

http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/09202/985312-66.stm

As I said in HSSteeler’s thread on this topic, my BSmeter is pegged. Too many things don’t add up.

My heros have always been Steelers...

by wozzle on Jul 21, 2009 3:23 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Excellent journalistic integrity MR...

I am 100% with you on this one. Let’s hope that one way or another justice is done here. Either this woman is publicly acknowledged as a liar, or if Ben is guilty, my hope is he’ll be treated like any regular person who did this. I also have doubts to her claims, but will not write them off either. When the evidence is shown, the facts will be clear, and at that the truth will be uncovered.

by NYSteelersFan4 on Jul 21, 2009 3:27 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

no win revisited

If the plaintiff fails to show a clear connection between the actions of the other defendants and her claims about Ben, her accusations against him would seem even weaker.

by workingon7 on Jul 21, 2009 3:30 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

It's bogus

Really, I have seen pictures of the chick and she is a Skank.

by vin2k on Jul 21, 2009 3:36 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Great input...

This really helps everyone involved. Stay classy.

by NYSteelersFan4 on Jul 21, 2009 3:38 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

My take:

If the “Sexual assault/rape” wasn’t so bad that you couldn’t call the cops immediately afterwards (or at all), then it wasn’t bad enough to award you millions of dollars…and that’s coming from someone who hates Pittsburgh and Ben!!!

E-A-G-L-E-S EAGLES!!!

by Joe_D on Jul 21, 2009 3:38 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Say what?

So maybe we have to start rating sexual assuat into categories of severity:

“Tell us, Ms So and So, on a scale of 1 to 5, how would you rate the severity your rape”

Come on .. .. ..

There is no spoon

by chewiesteeler on Jul 21, 2009 3:42 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Why not go for a criminal case then?

If it was SO bad shouldnt Ben be off the streets where he’s a danger to other women? Or is it just some crazy girl who wants some cash?

E-A-G-L-E-S EAGLES!!!

by Joe_D on Jul 21, 2009 3:47 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I was reacting to your comment

on the “severity of the assault” as that statement is ridiculous. I do not presume to know any of the facts behind the actual events as I was not there, nor were you. I believe that was the point of maryrose’s post in the first place.

There is no spoon

by chewiesteeler on Jul 21, 2009 3:53 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I guess you have not read much around the topic

On the other thread . A guy explains that in order to have a criminal suit you have to have substantially more evidence than she must have.

Although it is weird there was no criminal complaint/investigation ever made or filed.

by Johnny_S on Jul 21, 2009 3:53 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I have read all of it

Maybe you misunderstand my reply to Joe_D. I think his statement insinuating that maybe she was only mildly sexually assaulted is a ludicrous statement.

There is no spoon

by chewiesteeler on Jul 21, 2009 3:58 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Dig it

There is no spoon

by chewiesteeler on Jul 21, 2009 4:00 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Yeah that makes sense

Obviously sexual assault is pretty much assault. Unless there is battery involved. But thats why that is a separate charge.

Anyway I do agree with the main point of Mr. Iggles fan there, that if it was a crime then why not put it in a criminal court. Answer: Because it probably didnt happen.

by Mechem on Jul 21, 2009 4:39 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Isn't that backwards thinking?

Usually the sexual assault/rape is that bad that it prevents the woman from calling the cops because of a perceived shame or embarrassment. I’m not saying she is right/wrong, but its not that unbelievable to wait this long.

by Johnny_S on Jul 21, 2009 3:51 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

That is pretty awful

but what would you expect from an Eagles fan

by quincyyyyy on Jul 21, 2009 3:54 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Nip this in the bud...

This is an article about Ben’s life off the field, please save the trash talk for stories about on-field incidents. That can get awfully ugly for no reason, the topic itself is ugly enough.

We welcome your comments, but no reason to start a senseless arguement on someone elses page.

by NYSteelersFan4 on Jul 21, 2009 3:59 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I also find it odd that she took a year to come forward with this. Why so long? What happened?

Also, there are claims that she had psychiatric issues.

Another thing…why does Ben need to rape a woman? This guy can get all the hookers he needs. Also, people tend to forget that rape isn’t something thats particularly attractive to majority of men. Vast majority who are rapists specifically get off on the power of taking over a women against her will…its not even the sexual act.

If Ben indeed did this, there should be some evidence that other women faced this with him to a certain extent. Its also possible this is the first but I just don’t see it that way.

There’s a reason why most rapists are ‘serial’.

by surag238 on Jul 21, 2009 3:44 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Excellent point there. Large Benjamin likely has very little need to coerce somebody.

And thats why when I hear these celeb rape stories, I typically immediately defend the celeb in question. Because it probably started as a consentual act and she’s manipulating it.

I think Kobe was innocent too for the record. I think none of these guys would ever do something so foolish like this when they dont need to.

by Mechem on Jul 21, 2009 4:41 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Some victims feel if they come out and say something they’ll be publicly ridiculed and called a liar (or worse) by everyone who hears it. I wonder how they would get that impression?

by NYSteelersFan4 on Jul 21, 2009 3:49 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Some victims feel if they come out and say something they’ll be publicly ridiculed and called a liar (or worse) by everyone who hears it.

======

Well, how can you help people with THAT logic?

E-A-G-L-E-S EAGLES!!!

by Joe_D on Jul 21, 2009 4:16 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Maybe, just maybe...

If we didn’t accuse her of being a money grubbing wench, and other stuff like that. Maybe others who have similar experiences who have read this utter garbage wouldn’t feel like they’d receive the same treatment. Maybe.

by NYSteelersFan4 on Jul 21, 2009 4:27 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

+1

There is no spoon

by chewiesteeler on Jul 21, 2009 4:29 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Shouldnt matter

If you know you are right it shouldnt flipping matter. Its not about what people think. It should NEVER be about what other people are going to think. It should be about achieving justice and proper compensation for your pain and suffering.

If she came right out with this the day after, with some supporting evidence, maybe people would take her side instead of calling her a money grubbing wench. But she is currently following in the footsteps of all money grubbing wenches prior.

So its her fault she’s being labeled, because shes doing exactly what I’d expect of somebody who wants money.

by Mechem on Jul 21, 2009 4:43 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I agree. I can’t stand rape victims who don’t immediately go to the hospital to get evidence. The nerve!

The only managing Ben does is that he manages to win games. - chewiesteeler

by steelguy99 on Jul 21, 2009 4:44 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Well um why shouldnt she

Judging by the report, she likely had some “dna evidence” right on her.

I’m sorry I think if you are really serious about this claim you should have done it when it happened.

And again, she was not being forcefully restrained immediately after the alleged sex, so why the hell not just bolt out of there?

by Mechem on Jul 21, 2009 4:48 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

You’ve never known anyone has been raped, have you?

This, has become clear.

The only managing Ben does is that he manages to win games. - chewiesteeler

by steelguy99 on Jul 21, 2009 4:50 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Thats not very relevant. Look I just am trying to give my assessment of the situation. It may be a little less sensitive and perhaps comes off blunt. But its how I feel. I dont think this woman acted in harmony with a person who had been raped.

But as you point out, I dont know anybody who has been, but I’d like to imagine that a person who has an opportunity to “escape” her rapist would do so.

by Mechem on Jul 21, 2009 4:56 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

It is relevant (somewhat)...

Because unless you know someone who has been through this, their mentality afterwords is a complete mystery to you. Thus Steelguy judged by your comments what he did.

by NYSteelersFan4 on Jul 21, 2009 5:17 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I acknowledge I dont have a clue how somebody feels after something bad like this happens. I’ll be the first to admit that. Hell, probably even if we know somebody who has been there, we dont truly know how it feels even then.

But my point is, irregardless of how you feel, if you want something done you need to take the appropriate steps as soon as possible.

by Mechem on Jul 21, 2009 7:11 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

In this case...

Your point seems to have merit. But remember, it’s not just the very public cases that ruin the lives of those involved.

But I believe your overlooking the psychological damage something like this could have on a person. I’m not a psychologist, far from it. But this is traumatic for anyone who has had anything like this happen.

How come its widely accepted that something like 80% or more male rape victims never come forward? I guess it never happened to them.

by NYSteelersFan4 on Jul 21, 2009 4:49 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

We could play Dr. Phil all day

I’m not going to change my stance here though. Everybody should be coming forward. I cant pretend to imagine how these people feel, its probably very horrible and I hope to never truly know.

But if you want justice, you have to take that first step ASAP.

by Mechem on Jul 21, 2009 4:50 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Actually...
First, it has taken more than a year for this to come to fruition.

That is not unusual at all. There is a reason the statute of limitations for sexual assault cases is so long, that is because often the victim does not want to bring charges at first but later decides to do so. This is actually quite common among victims.

Second, it is important to note that while civil complaints were filed, there has not been any criminal complaint or any criminal investigation, which seems quite strange to me.

If she didn’t immediately go to the police, then she wasn’t given a rape kit and it would be very hard to meet the burden of proof for a criminal case. However in a civil matter the burden of proof is lower, which is why OJ was found innocent in his criminal case but lost his civil case.

But what I do think is interesting is there are 8 other defendants in this matter, which means she is not specifically targeting Ben.

Anyhow, I don’t think anyone should be surprised that a Steelers player is dirty off the field as well as on.

by quincyyyyy on Jul 21, 2009 3:52 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Anyhow, I don’t think anyone should be surprised that a Steelers player is dirty off the field as well as on.

Dude you are a cowboys fan. Pacman Jones. You lose.

by Johnny_S on Jul 21, 2009 3:57 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Is he still on the team? no. He was more of a hired gun in the first place

I didn’t like it when he was on the team, and when that video came out on outside the lines Jerry summarily cut him and didn’t wait for are legal system or Roger Goodell to make a judgment. Rooney should do the same with Ben.

by quincyyyyy on Jul 21, 2009 3:59 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

You hired him after another team had already rejected him for being a criminal!

Ben is innocent till proven guilty. He has no criminal background like your boy Pacman. You cannot kick a guy off the team because of an alleged assault. Otherwise I would take out $200 dollars out of my bank account every time the Steelers played a team and claim their QB raped me. That is just a stupid notion.

by Johnny_S on Jul 21, 2009 4:02 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

"Anyhow, I don’t think anyone should be surprised that a Steelers player is dirty off the field as well as on."

The damage is already done.

We’re gonna have to hear this BS all the time from now on about our two time SB champion QB. Pandoras box is opened. Scum like quicny are going nuts for this kind of stuff.

"It was an attrition football game and you know we like that."

by showtime on Jul 21, 2009 7:22 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

He told HER to leave???

“She says that he then told her to leave after he realized there were cameras in the room.”

Am I out of my gourd in thinking the person getting raped is the one doing that?
So Andrea McNulty didn’t leave until Ben asked her to. What did she want to cuddle?

Sounds like the two were fooling around (as consenting adults do), and when Ben found out there were cameras, he told her to leave and don’t let the door hit her in the a$$.

As any woman would be ticked off at that, the only way she can get back at him is to sue and drag his name through the media.

Money-grubbing wench doesn’t stand a chance in this.

by count'em_six on Jul 21, 2009 3:54 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Or he was raping her then told her to leave

why is that so unbelievable?

Money-grubbing wench doesn’t stand a chance in this.

Rape victim bashing… nice.

by quincyyyyy on Jul 21, 2009 3:56 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Rape victim bashing… nice.

Alleged rape victim. He is innocent till proven guilty after all.

by Johnny_S on Jul 21, 2009 3:59 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

exactly....he's accussed

Cowboys fans…

E-A-G-L-E-S EAGLES!!!

by Joe_D on Jul 21, 2009 4:17 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I said above to him...

Save your personal attacks for eachother for your own site. Cowboys fan, Eagles fan, whoever’s fan, regardless. This is not the place to have a stupid back and forth because your on field rivals. This is off the field stuff.

by NYSteelersFan4 on Jul 21, 2009 4:24 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

She's a wench

Ok, I can imagine a rapist yelling at a girl to leave. After which that girl is gonna run a 3.9 40…not wait until he realizes there are cameras, then run.

Give me a break.

by count'em_six on Jul 21, 2009 4:14 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Actually it makes total sense.

Again, if she WAS NOT BEING HELD DOWN WHY DIDNT SHE LEAVE.

by Mechem on Jul 21, 2009 4:44 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Sometimes

if a woman tries to physically resist a rape they get beat up as well. The fact she didn’t fight a 6’ 5" 245# male doesn’t mean she wasn’t raped. All she has to do is say NO. That should be enough to make him stop.

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"Let them hate so long as they fear" - Caligula

by BabeParilli on Jul 21, 2009 7:33 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

If it were you?

Lets say somebody is about to rape you in a way you dont want. Do you think NO is enough? Legally it should be, but dont you think if its your body under the gun you are going to try a little harder? Especially seeing as the man is unarmed, and is simply a big person?

I’d still kick and scream and put up a little bit of resistance.

by Mechem on Jul 22, 2009 2:33 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

It's completely unbelievable

And you accusing Ben of rape is just as “bad” as me calling her a wench.

by count'em_six on Jul 21, 2009 3:59 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

She’s UGLY………

http://photos.tmz.com/galleries/andrea_mcnulty#47443

I'll drink your Milkshake, I'll drink it up!

by drinkyourmilkshake on Jul 21, 2009 4:03 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

-1, irrelevant.

Guns don't kill people. Lamar Woodley kills people.

by BostonWahoo on Jul 21, 2009 4:09 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

+1

it will be relevant when the case is dismissed.

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by NoCal-SteelCity on Jul 21, 2009 4:50 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Oh, please, do explain how.

Guns don't kill people. Lamar Woodley kills people.

by BostonWahoo on Jul 21, 2009 4:51 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

So is he.

"Tonight, a dynasty is born" - Ricky Proehl
"Let them hate so long as they fear" - Caligula

by BabeParilli on Jul 21, 2009 7:29 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

No Win Situation

For Ben it’s a no win situation. He is already being compared on other sites to OJ, Vick and Pac Man. He has not been charged with anything and there has been no criminal complaint. But the thread has started. There is about 4 of them here on BTSC currently.

I for one (like with Kobe) will wait until the facts come out. When they do we will find out if Ben is another OJ, if this girl is a mental case and creates fiction or if the story lies somewhere in the middle.

At any rate this is a distraction for Ben who needs to be getting ready to defend the title and a no win scenario whether Ben beats the allegations of not.

When You Run The Ball Good Things Happen

by 5020 on Jul 21, 2009 4:04 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Bingo

My sentiments exactly. You sir, are correct sir.

by King Coebra on Jul 21, 2009 6:41 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I don't know Ben

Never met him, can’t assume anything about his character. Want to believe he is a good guy, would never do such a thing, but I’m no law unto myself.
It seems like this woman needs some help, she may be mentally damaged in some way. It is possible Ben harmed her, in which case he deserves no forgiveness.
But if the woman is deranged or lying, then not only her own life is she attempting to destroy, but another person’s as well.
Rape is a very serious crime. It is as much a physical act as a mentally scarring one. And a very serious charge to throw around.
I can only hope that justice is done, and if Ben is innocent, that this does not linger and affect him, and that the woman gets the help she needs.

by vherub on Jul 21, 2009 4:10 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Pretty sad

Even if the lady is lying, the damage is done to Ben’s reputation. I can only say that it would have been great if he wouldn’t have allowed himself to get anywhere near these kind of situations, but it is what it is.

by Jeebas on Jul 21, 2009 4:16 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

How?

Is he supposed to sequester himself in his home when he is not playing football? Ben went on a golfing vacation for Jeebassake. He was in his hotel and pretty early on a Saturday night, not out at a night club making it rain.

There is no spoon

by chewiesteeler on Jul 21, 2009 4:21 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

perhaps he shouldn’t allow young women into his hotel room without a witnesses

I'll drink your Milkshake, I'll drink it up!

by drinkyourmilkshake on Jul 21, 2009 4:23 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I generally bring my friends.

by count'em_six on Jul 21, 2009 4:24 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Albert Pujols...

Won’t even get in an elevator if its just him and another woman.

by NYSteelersFan4 on Jul 21, 2009 4:25 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Yup...

Saw it on an interview he did before the All-Star game. Sometimes people make self-sacrifices to keep themselves out of potentially bad situations. It’s really sad that it has come to this for people in the spotlight. Makes you really question a lot of things.

by NYSteelersFan4 on Jul 21, 2009 4:29 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

pujols is also an exception to the stereotype. he’s a once in a lifetime athlete, and the human being off the field to match

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by NoCal-SteelCity on Jul 21, 2009 4:54 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

He was in his hotel and pretty early on a Saturday night, not out at a night club making it rain.

not yet…that whole week is a huge party up there…i’m pretty sure he intended to go out that night, and may still have.

breathe in deep feel your heart beat, just to know that life's worth livin'. feel your feet on the earth, better love it while it's still here spinnin'.

by NoCal-SteelCity on Jul 21, 2009 4:54 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

i wasn't saying that...

…but unless this lady completely made EVERYTHING detailed in the report about that night up, I wouldn’t be surprised if there were at least one gram of truth to it. Say if the bit about him luring her into the room is true, but the sex was consensual. What’s he doing luring hotel employees anyways? If you’re gonna be sleeping around, go down to the bar and have your pick of a good percentage of the women in that bar that would be more than willing to sleep with you. Yes I know that its unfortunate that that is the accepted (and to an extent – expected) behavior of some professional athletes, but it a lot of cases, it’s reality.

I’m not saying he did anything, because I, like everyone else, do not know what he did or didn’t do. But there are ways he could have avoided this entirely.

I sincerely hope that he did nothing, and that this ceases to be news in the coming weeks (but it won’t)

by Jeebas on Jul 21, 2009 10:15 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

*sigh* I hate rape accusations...

A. How exactly do you prove sexual consent? There have been plenty of women who have consented to intercourse Friday night and screamed rape Saturday morning. Rape is a very serious crime and accusing somebody of rape without substantial evidence only makes things very complicated and very messy for all parties involved.

B. If Ben didn’t rape this girl, he still has to carry the title of “rapist” for the rest of his life regardless. Once a woman accuses a man of rape, especially a man that lives his life in the public eye, he’s pretty much guilty in the court of public opinion.

C. The saddest part, to me at least, is that now this girl has now opened herself up to public scrutiny from any and every angle. Because she has no concrete proof, its officially a “he said, she said” situation, which means that now her character, her sexual history, her creditibility, etc are all going to come into question more and more the bigger this story gets.

by Mr 412 on Jul 21, 2009 4:34 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Lets address these points

A: Its a lot harder to prove a year later, and when you have admitted to standing in the room without being restrained, and never said the words NO, or never screamed for help, or never resisted the actions physically, then I think its pretty easy which side of consent this one is on.

B. Depends. People also have labeled this chick too, so its going to be divided. But its a shame.

C. Fortunately for Ben she has a pretty wacko history, and his is quite normal.

by Mechem on Jul 21, 2009 4:46 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

she said NO.

by t1mmy10 on Jul 21, 2009 10:35 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

She claims to have said no. There is a world of difference.

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by BostonWahoo on Jul 22, 2009 9:47 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

and ben will probably claim she didnt. i’m not saying she’s right and he’s wrong (being a steelers fan i’m hoping she’s wrong) but mechem said she never said “no.” which she claims she did say

by t1mmy10 on Jul 22, 2009 11:28 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

read it again

She said “you dont want to do this” or something like that. And “im not on the pill”

Thats not NO. Thats not resisting.

Perhaps I need to reread it

by Mechem on Jul 22, 2009 2:31 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

i suggest you do

from the lawsuit itself:

Plaintiff communicated her objection and lack of consent.
Plaintiff protested several times, but instead of stopping Roethlisberger (continued his assault)…
Despite additional protests, he kept going….
Plaintiff continued to protest, “You don’t want to do this.”
Panicked, Plaintiff begged, “Please don’t”…

http://www.rgj.com/assets/pdf/J7138957721.PDF

again, this is her story and are unproven claims as of now… but i dunno what dictionary you use, but that counts for saying “no”. you are correct in that she didnt physically resist.

by t1mmy10 on Jul 22, 2009 3:45 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Ok I just didnt see it exactly phrased

From what I read I never read her saying “no”

Communicating objection and lack of consent could have been a very vague phrasing, although I dont think it should matter how you phrase it.

But that last part does sound like No to me. So point taken.

Regardless I still go back to my initial feelings that you need to try harder to resist somebody.

by Mechem on Jul 22, 2009 4:40 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

i agree. IF this happened, she shouldve tried to physically resist

by t1mmy10 on Jul 22, 2009 7:49 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Hotel employees

in most hotels are committing a firing offense if they go to a guest’s room without accompaniment by another employee unless the guest is out of the room. That’s a possible reason for Ms. McNulty not to report any sexual assault at the time. But if some of the other stories are true, she has some mental issues that would trash any case she tries to bring.

The fact that eight hotel employees are also named is simply bizarre.

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by wozzle on Jul 21, 2009 4:35 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

If

there had been any sexual misconduct on Ben’s part there would be a preponderance of evidence against him. The fact that:

A. She’s waited over a year

B. Waited until just before training camp to file

C. filed NO criminal charges

and

D. is naming, specifically “employees of Harrah’s”

 Indicates that she is covering all her bases in regards to eliminating any possibility of incriminating herself as well as laying the foundations for potential big-money settlements by Ben AND Harrah’s. I’d also like to see those videos of her leaving his room- does she look like someone who’d just been attacked? Or is she smiling?

 IF she was really assaulted there would criminal charges against him, AND the other co-workers. Period. Even after this much time has passed her story should hold up to police scrutiny IF IT’S TRUE. But if she’s lying she wouldn’t want to open herself to charges of filing a false report. And- Ben should counter-sue her for libel or slander(whichever’s most applicable).

 And i wouldn’t be the least bit surprised to discover that she has immediate family in, or other ties to, the New England area…..

 BULLSH*T.

And if i’m wrong- Ben should be charged criminally, not just sued for money. But- he didn’t do anything IMHO. Sadly, this will forever be attached to his name. What a sad, sick world.

Jerome Bettis was accused of some kind of nonsense at one point too, if i recall.

by tobiathan on Jul 21, 2009 4:37 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

considering the allegations...

Unless factual evidence can somehow prove the truth of the allegations concerning Ben’s actions in his bedroom, this case may boil down to his word against hers. Therefore the details of her allegations (concerning Ben) may be crucial.

For example, prior to the purported rape, Ben supposedly had another young lady in his room for twenty minutes before walking her to the elevator. Apparently he suppressed his volcanic lust with this woman…but lost control after glimpsing the plaintiff. Thus it might be interesting if Ben’s lawyer’s (or the plaintiff’s) can produce the other woman to attest to his behavior prior to the alleged attack.

Supposedly, immediately after ridding himself of the other woman, Ben called the plaintiff repeatedly to complain about a non-existent problem with his TV, insisting that she inspect the trouble in person. These calls and his insistence could certainly be construed as odd behavior. Might not a reasonably attractive young woman in a professional setting consider taking a co-worker along before acceeding to the request? If she made no such attempt, could it be that the encounter (if one occurred) was consentual?

I do not suggest these things happened or not, or if they did, that the woman was to blame. However, in lieu of factual evidence, surmises such as these are likely to sway whomever decides the outcome of the case.

by workingon7 on Jul 21, 2009 4:39 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

McNulty = Nick Nolte??

The pics don’t lie. I think we need to turn our attention to the Cape Fear murderer…

by count'em_six on Jul 21, 2009 4:47 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

This is a very well stated comment

I would wonder why you would bring up this particular comment:

And quite frankly, the level of conversation in much of this thread is depressing. Particularly from the folk from other teams who are hoping that a scandal can accomplish what their teams were unable to do on the field. Pathetic.
And not comment on the people who are trashing the girl who came forward. I would think they are both on a pretty bad wavelenth.

It took my two years to come up with an avatar and sig
and this is the best I could come up with.

by einman77 on Jul 21, 2009 11:34 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

This story is a waste of time...

What’s the point of debating the endless unknowns? Just wait for the facts to come out…then pass your judgment…

by Ragnar808 on Jul 21, 2009 5:16 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

not bedtime reading

Here is a direct link to the civil complaint. Whether true or not, it’s sickening to read.

by Alba on Jul 21, 2009 5:26 PM EDT reply actions   1 recs

Just read this...

…it’ll be sickening IF it’s TRUE. If not, then it’s just a story…. Innocent until proven guilty…that’s how it’s done….

But as far as how believable this story is….well, I find it quite difficult to believe that BB—-a man who is well respected, would rape anyone….the guy could go out to a club and go home with a girl quite easily…to beg some girl to “fix his tv”??? I don’t believe it.

And let’s not start saying “Look, McNair was a fine fellow, and see what he did”….because just because one person we thought was a good guy screwed up, it doesn’t mean another person did….

by Ragnar808 on Jul 21, 2009 5:45 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

the guy could go out to a club and go home with a girl quite easily

That’s exactly the trap these young, rich, superstar athletes fall victim to though…society and the media build them up so much that they think they can’t fail, that they’re impervious to wrong-doing, and that because they’re a celebrity they can do as they please.

From the PDF document:

That guy (Roethlisberger) can have anyone he wants.

This is why athletes think they’re invincible, why they act like dip-shits, and ocassionally, why they make awful decisions…because society (such as these two guys with Harrah’s), generally, tell them they are invincible, and that they can do anything.

I’m not sold on the whole thing at all. But, hopefully this serves as a wake up call to young athletes…becareful where you find yourself, and who you find yourself with.

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by NoCal-SteelCity on Jul 21, 2009 6:28 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

That paints a pretty grim picture

and also explains why she took a year to come forward with it.

It took my two years to come up with an avatar and sig
and this is the best I could come up with.

by einman77 on Jul 22, 2009 12:34 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I have to comment on this again

Anyone who dismisses this right off the bat has to read this. There is one thing I can’t help but notice about the details. This girl was moving up really quickly. It states that she started in March of 2003 as the front desk manager and in 2 years was promoted twice to a spa manager and a VIP Services Manager. She kept moving up and was quite decorated as an executive in the short time she was there. Then, after the time of the alleged incident, her life completely fell apart. This doesn’t stirke me as someone who was looking for a hand out. Also, a high end hotel doesn’t put someone who you think may have some mental problems as the face of their VIP accounts, so that rumor seems like a tough pill to swallow. They don’t put someone into that position unless the person really has a great head on their shoulders.

Obviously this is her side of the story coming out first, but I don’t think she’s lying about the position she was in. Obviously the lawyers on the other side would try to tarnish her mental state or reputation, what have you. But her career alone speaks volumes. Another thing that it says to me is that she has a head on her shoulders, so this might be a tough fight for Ben even with the lawyers he and the hotel can assemble. She also must be aware of the imposing defense team that they will assemble so I would assume that she would have to have something to back this. To say she is just trying to get money is ignoring the fact that she put her career and reputation on the line to come out with this. She was already getting paid. That logic doesn’t make sense.

Another thing is that she was diagnosed with extreme post traumatic stress disorder. Now that could be caused by the supposed email relationship where the guy died… but really, who carries a practical joke that far? That seems a bit more far fetched than someone raping another person. That could also be the story she came up with to cover up what really happened for fear of a number of factors (loss of job, reputation smeared, not to mention the fact that victims often blame themselves, which she would seem likely to do being someone who seems well in control of her life). If someone played that type of prank after the incident it could have been her excuse for what was happening to her, or it could have been her trying to take hold of a new life. If there is even any truth to that of course. The funny thing is, the co worker that she stated who broke the news about her falling in love with a soldier over email happens to be the same person who she told about the incident, the chief of security, who seems like was trying to stop her from going forward with any accusations from the get go. There’s also the unauthorized removal of her computer. That could be either side trying to cover something up, but someone is trying to cover something up.

I’ll be honest, I don’t like the Steelers. However, something like this supersedes football. I am trying to be objective about this, and I can understand you guys protecting your QB. If something like this came out about Donovan I would probably want to dismiss it at first (though I hope I would be able to avoid trashing a rape victim in the process). But make no mistake about it, this girl was being fast tracked and her life just completely crumbled. Something happened. This fits. Of course this is only 1 side of the story, but it seems like a strong argument.

It took my two years to come up with an avatar and sig
and this is the best I could come up with.

by einman77 on Jul 22, 2009 9:20 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

lol
(though I hope I would be able to avoid trashing a rape victim in the process)

There hasn’t been any rape proven in a court of law yet. I wouldn’t call her a victim quite yet. (and there won’t ever be a criminal trial)

You’re doing a lot of speculation and making a lot of assumptions for someone who doesn’t want to take sides. I would say there is enough there that it could go either way, but don’t lie to yourself…you know what side you’re on.

Like a previous poster said, its just as bad to suggest that Ben is guilty BEFORE trial as it is to “trash” his accuser.

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by Jux on Jul 22, 2009 9:52 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I tried to say accuser most of the time

yes, I am on a side. That line was meant to state that if someone came forward against Donovan and the allegations turned out to be true, I hope I could look back and not have trashed a rape victim in the process of defending him. That wasn’t calling McNulty a victim.

It took my two years to come up with an avatar and sig
and this is the best I could come up with.

by einman77 on Jul 22, 2009 10:45 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Good Write Up...

That said I do not agree with her career speaking volumes. Having personal knowledge of the hotel industry I wouldnt call her on a “fast track” from a career perspective. None of the positions she held are executive level or grooming grounds for them.

Sales and Convention Services is historically where the fast track and high potential employees are placed with the Hotel GM role being the pinnacle. Spa Managers and Concierges customarily are not feeder pools for executive talent within the organziation.

Why I wonder about her looking to “get paid” is that her hospitalizations for her mental breakdowns clearly surpassed her benefits plan limits hitting her with $300K+ in medical bills. From reading the complaint she told her employer the next day (or soon thereafter the alledged event) but didnt contact or tell:

  • The Police
  • Her health care provider during hospitalization (for the level of counselling a PTSD case would receive I find it hard to believe that the treatment didnt involve working to get to the root cause…and the hospital would have been duty bound to inform law enforcement if she claimed to have been raped (unless Nevada law is different)).
  • Her family
  • Her friends

She only talked to Harrah’s security and let the matter drop? That simply doesnt track.

Add all of this to the wide ranging conspiracy she is alledging, the possibility of her claims being inaccurate are reasonable.

Sometimes people come off the rails and self destruct, it doesnt always make sense or have 1 specific incident or root cause. I feel very badly for her and I imagine that she truly believes this is what happened but there are a lot of holes here…Many red flags

I certainly hope this isnt true…if it is I will be very upset and many people will have to answer for the injustices visited up the poor woman…but if this didnt happen, it cant be taken back…she cant unring the bell or put the toothpaste back in the tube. She can go back to an anonymous life (how many people remember the name of the girl in the Kobe Bryant case?), Ben however will be tarred with this for a long time.

If true, then for good reason.

If false, then unjustly.

A shame all around.

by Mick Kraut on Jul 22, 2009 10:13 AM EDT up reply actions   1 recs

Good points

This is only her side of the story. I don’t assume,nor did I ever, that the whole thing is as clear cut as that. As for the career, it seems she was at the managerial position and was also on a team working on a $30m project. She was given one accolade and was promoted to “executive casino host”. I guess I misunderstood that label. Nevertheless, she was young and moving, though I have to agree that she probably wasn’t being fast tracked.

There are holes and red flags on both sides. The problems with her story is having light shed on it through the media. However she and her team seem to be saying nothing right now and claiming it’s a matter of the court, not the media. This is the only leak that we have to what they are bringing to the table. I just want to point out that this doesn’t quite look as open and shut as some people here want to believe.

One thing that I have to agree with you is this:

for the level of counselling a PTSD case would receive I find it hard to believe that the treatment didnt involve working to get to the root cause…and the hospital would have been duty bound to inform law enforcement if she claimed to have been raped (unless Nevada law is different)
. That is a very good point. The police and friends I can understand her not telling if she was scared of losing her job or hurting her reputation. About her family, I’ve known girls that didn’t tell their family that they were raped for years and they finally came out with it (I used to be a wilderness counselor for teens with drug and alcohol problems). I’m not sure if they can testify, but the most informative testimony would likely come from the therapist who was treating her.

Lastly, her name won’t be remembered by everyone across the country like Ben’s will, but as for everyone who knows her and likely ever will, she will be the girl who may or may not have been raped by Big Ben, while she will be a side-note to a so far phenomenal career (as much as I hate saying that). Her job prospects for any kind of position close to what she was doing before were tossed out the window the second she filed this.

This isn’t a good situation. I’m not relishing in it. After seeing this kind of thing completely tear a few people apart that were in my program, as well as one of my friends, I would just ask that people try to not disrespect this person unless it becomes clear that her story was fabricated.

It took my two years to come up with an avatar and sig
and this is the best I could come up with.

by einman77 on Jul 22, 2009 11:25 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Budget schmudget

I work on 30-million-dollar projects every day, and I’m entry level. 30 million is a lot in some businesses and not a lot in others. The casino business, I suspect, falls into the latter category.

by HitThatGuy on Jul 22, 2009 11:40 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

True that

I am just out of college working entry level and I work on projects considerably worth more than 30 million, probably upwards of 100 million. The majority of the time I am not on a team and just work alone.

by Johnny_S on Jul 22, 2009 12:18 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

where u work? any openings there :)

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by Blitzburgh on Jul 22, 2009 5:37 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Lol

I don’t make even a respectable fraction off of that money. All the lawyers and expert witnesses I work for get the money. Its a environmental and water resource company. If you are a good geologist I am sure we could definitely use some help.

by Johnny_S on Jul 22, 2009 6:50 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

You just pick one thing?

So you work on big projects. Obviously you didn’t start in a managerial position and get two promotions in the first 2 years, 3 in the first 5. She may not have been on easy street, but this was a career.

It took my two years to come up with an avatar and sig
and this is the best I could come up with.

by einman77 on Jul 22, 2009 11:00 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

hospital would have been duty bound to inform law enforcement if she claimed to have been raped

i’m pretty sure: although health professionals are supposed to highly encourage the victim to allow them to contact the police, they are not required to report sexual assault to the police. doctor/patient confidentiality. they are required to report things like gun shot wounds because there is a decent chance those patients committed a crime themselves.

by t1mmy10 on Jul 22, 2009 11:58 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

its if the victim asks them not to report the rape, they dont have to report it.
except if the victim is underage, then they are required to report it (i’m pretty sure of that)

by t1mmy10 on Jul 22, 2009 12:00 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

That might be where the difference lies

I worked with teens. We did have to report that. If the law is different for adults that could be a big difference maker in the argument.

It took my two years to come up with an avatar and sig
and this is the best I could come up with.

by einman77 on Jul 22, 2009 10:56 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Just because

she says so….doesn’t mean it’s TRUE.

Jeez…..why are so many people so anxious to defend her? Politically-correct much? As it is, she is nothing more than an ACCUSER at this point. This girl doesn’t qualify as a victim, because she’s presented NOTHING other than a statement regarding this ALLEGED incident.

What has Ben EVER done to imply that he might be capable of this? Why would anyone here want to take her side already? Just to prove how socially-darned-conscious he is?

 Bah.

by tobiathan on Jul 21, 2009 5:35 PM EDT reply actions   1 recs

He was once a dick to me while he was in a position of power over me. Maybe I caught him on a bad day, who knows?

I am not saying that I think he is guilty of this, but to deny the possibility that this could have happened is foolish.

by PensFan024 on Jul 22, 2009 12:31 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Finally-

Anyone can file a civil suit against anyone else for anything at the low, low cost of a couple hundred bucks. It a win/win for the accuser, who gets publicity, sympathy, attention and maybe even a LOT of money(if the accusation is horrible enough) and a lose/lose for the accused, who never really lives down the suspicions that maybe they "got away with it".

Since civil suits have no penalty for false accusations i could accuse Tom Brady of licking my ass-crack without my consent six years ago, and sue him in court for seven TRILLION dollars without fear of losing the case….

This girl is a whack-job who is probably more interested in all the attention this gets her than even getting any money out of the deal- which is pretty scary, because she might be a really good liar who can cry on demand.

Anyway- she wasn’t raped, because NO amount of mere money softens the effects of rape. Only payback in the form of jail time with the possibility of cell-block-lovin’ makes it better. So- if she ain’t filing CRIMINAL charges, she lying. Period.

by tobiathan on Jul 21, 2009 5:41 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

No way this boy

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could do such a thing. This is just so hard to believe. He’s such a nice boy.

"Tonight, a dynasty is born" - Ricky Proehl
"Let them hate so long as they fear" - Caligula

by BabeParilli on Jul 21, 2009 6:21 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

nothing illegal about drinking and meeting girls. if it is, i’d be in jail.

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by NoCal-SteelCity on Jul 21, 2009 6:30 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

The fact that you aren't banned from BTSC yet is astounding

You contribute nothing but negative unintelligible comments.

by Johnny_S on Jul 21, 2009 6:49 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

No sir.

My comments are mostly intelligible. I was informed I should not say bad things about posters (though they say them about me). I can only speak to their statements. I will abide by the rules.

Right now, I’m just appalled thinking of what that poor woman had to endure at the hands of that monster Ben.

"Tonight, a dynasty is born" - Ricky Proehl
"Let them hate so long as they fear" - Caligula

by BabeParilli on Jul 21, 2009 6:59 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Why?

What did she have to endure at Ben’s hands?

by gcn on Jul 21, 2009 8:12 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Rape.

"Tonight, a dynasty is born" - Ricky Proehl
"Let them hate so long as they fear" - Caligula

by BabeParilli on Jul 21, 2009 10:33 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

What did he do to her that constitutes rape?

by gcn on Jul 21, 2009 11:38 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

As always BabeParilli

You let your hate for the Steelers and all their players and fans block your ability to make intellectual comments on our site

We get that you dont like us or our team. Thats fine, you are allowed to. But a number of different teams fans have appeared to this story and posted their thoughts in a completely unbiased manner. Please take a lesson from them and try to refrain from implying that Big Ben is guilty as sin when there is little to no evidence as to him having done so

Bleeding Black and Gold.....forever

by Steeler_ on Jul 22, 2009 4:17 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Wow...

So you know all the facts of the case or you were there? So you can clearly without a doubt say that this occurred? Maybe you should call the prosecutor and you can testify against Ben. I can see it now:

Pros – “Babe how do you know Ben sexually assaulted this woman?”
You – “I just know”
Pros – “The prosecution rests”

Open and shut case there.

You realize that jumping to conclusions makes you look unintelligible, hence why your comments are unintelligible and worthless. Why don’t you grow up and learn to reason like a mature adult?

by Johnny_S on Jul 22, 2009 8:34 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Unless you can provide some, any, proof that Ben definitely committed rape, other than that he’s a “monster” as you said before, you’re inviting the insults you’re getting.
I’m not saying Ben’s innocent, and, if he is indeed guilty, then all of my sympathy goes to this woman. However, the law in America is innocent until proven guilty, and with no evidence yet released that supports this woman’s case, you really have no right to say that Ben definitely raped her, just as others have no right to say that she’s simply trying to get money out of Ben.

by Akshay R on Jul 22, 2009 6:19 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

odd

This allegedly happened in July 08 at Lake Tahoe. On NFL.com there is a video of Big Ben reporting in from Lake Tahoe 7/16/09, and this law suit per the pdf was filed on 7/17/09.

I don’t really have an opinion on this until this unfolds through the proper channels, but it does make me feel sad. If it true I am disgusted. If it is false I am disgusted. Another person from the “Jerry Springer generation” trying to get famous and earn a quick buck.

by SteelBuckeye on Jul 21, 2009 6:25 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Not so odd.

Many women that are raped keep quiet about it. I daresay most do. That is sad. I understand their reluctance to have the pain of the experience prolonged by going to the police. But monsters like this need to be apprehended or they will just do it again.

I do not doubt that this woman’s family or friends told her over time to do something to see justice served. She finally listened.

It is natural to ask why did she wait a year. But why would she wait a year if it never happened?

"Tonight, a dynasty is born" - Ricky Proehl
"Let them hate so long as they fear" - Caligula

by BabeParilli on Jul 21, 2009 7:03 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Why 1 year?

That is the question. We all will have to wait to see what comes of this. My post was not to defend Ben. As I hope your posts are not just hater posts, this is serious ****.

by SteelBuckeye on Jul 21, 2009 7:52 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I do

hate Ben and the Steelers. But my post isn’t about that. Nor is it motivated by that.

I just was expecting him to do something like what he is alleged to have done.

This is very sad and very serious business if it is true. It is also very bad if it is not true.

"Tonight, a dynasty is born" - Ricky Proehl
"Let them hate so long as they fear" - Caligula

by BabeParilli on Jul 21, 2009 10:35 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Wait...

You were expecting Ben to be accused of rape or something like it? Really? Expecting it. On what grounds would you expect this to happen?

by NYSteelersFan4 on Jul 22, 2009 9:26 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Why one year?

Because he was back in Reno, therefore he could be charged in Nevada instead of PA. Tim Benz mentioned this in the Mark Madden Show yesterday.

by PensFan024 on Jul 22, 2009 12:35 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

*Tahoe. my bad.

by PensFan024 on Jul 22, 2009 12:47 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I’ve heard a few lawyers give that explanation over the past day. Apparently he needed to be served in Nevada.

by JasonB on Jul 22, 2009 1:18 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Huh?

What did Ben do to make himself a monster?

by gcn on Jul 21, 2009 8:13 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Rape.

"Tonight, a dynasty is born" - Ricky Proehl
"Let them hate so long as they fear" - Caligula

by BabeParilli on Jul 21, 2009 10:36 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Time for you to go away now...

Oh he did? Thank the good lord for people like you, all seeing and all knowing. Have you offered your services to law enforcement?

OK Babe, you’ve made your point and convicted Ben because you hate him. Now go away.

by Mick Kraut on Jul 21, 2009 11:28 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Again, what did Ben do to McNulty that constitutes rape?

And how do you know this to be true apart from wanting to believe McNulty out of hate for Ben?

by gcn on Jul 21, 2009 11:40 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

After reading the full complaint

This is pretty worrisome.

And to those of you saying that this can’t be true because ben can get it whenever he wants, or because she didn’t go to the police right away, you just sound like ignorant Neanderthals.

by worldtrip on Jul 21, 2009 7:33 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

"you just sound like ignorant Neanderthals"

Why don’t you and babe go and run some oklahoma drills together ok?

I understand that the mods and others need to take the “no comment” approach on this. I’m gonna type this once and then try MY BEST to be done with it.

There is a much higher chance that A) a woman is trying to get paid than B) Big Ben would be the type of person who would rape someone. It is just so much more plausible that this is a money grab. So that’s what I’ll believe.

That said, folks we really need to circle the wagons here and DO NOT FEED THE TROLLS. You see how this brings out the worst. quincy and babe in one thread? God this is the worst thread EVER on BTSC. We need to batten down the hatches.

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by showtime on Jul 21, 2009 7:50 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I stand by my comment

Which is that people who are saying her allegations are false simply because of one those two reasons do sound like ignorant neanderthals.

I never stated whether I believe they are true or not. I have no idea.

by worldtrip on Jul 21, 2009 8:20 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

You will find

no shortage of ignorant neanderthals in football fandom.

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"Let them hate so long as they fear" - Caligula

by BabeParilli on Jul 21, 2009 10:38 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

As your presence here attests to mightily.

Guns don't kill people. Lamar Woodley kills people.

by BostonWahoo on Jul 22, 2009 9:49 AM EDT up reply actions   1 recs

Rape

is a crime of violence. It is not about sex. So him being able to get sex easily is impertinent.

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"Let them hate so long as they fear" - Caligula

by BabeParilli on Jul 21, 2009 10:37 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

ARE YOU GUYS SERIOUS:?

Does anyone bother to read the ACTUAL FACTS.

to the above jerk who posted a picture of BEN AND SOME CHIC…

I have A LOT OF PICTURES of me drunk with girls. DOES THAT MAKE ME A BAD GUY? Are you serious? Dude…you really should be banned for inciting such nonsense. You’re the jerk here.

Also,

1. THERE IS ALLEGED HISTORY OF PSYCHIATRIC ISSUES WITH THIS WOMAN.

2. she decided to go up BY HERSELF. to get the tv fixed after he called because NOONE ELSE was available. SHE DECIDED TO GO BY HERSELF. He did not con her to go up there..or say hey I want you to personally come up.

3. Really…why would Ben rape her? What reasons does he have? Do any of you know what Rape is about? Why rapes occur? The vast majority are perpetrated by individuals who actually ENJOY the act of HURTING women. Not the actual sexual act.

It is possible that Ben is sooooooooo used to getting what he wants that somehow when she said no he forced himself on her and decided to rape her….thats certainly conceivable.

But seriously guys….don’t scumbag the guy or even the girl. Its not fair to anyone. And it certainly hurts all of his fans and even her familiy/her who may come across this.

by surag238 on Jul 21, 2009 8:01 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

You

should be banned for calling me a jerk. I have not insulted you or called you names.

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"Let them hate so long as they fear" - Caligula

by BabeParilli on Jul 21, 2009 10:40 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Don’t even think about asking me to be banned. Time and time again you have written inciting, hateful, and unnecessary comments. You are almost out to get Ben. I won’t be surprised if you’re just someone with absolutely no interest in the Steelers other than to anger its fans.

All of my posts have been deferential to both parties yet you specifically write as if Ben is a monster.

if anything, you need to grow up.

by surag238 on Jul 22, 2009 7:59 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

If you read a lot of his posts on BTSC or Stampede Blue

They are often ill-aimed statements with the intent on getting the fanbase of the respective team riled up.

He has never EVER said anything respectable on this blog, but i have seen him make decent contributions on StampedeBlue.

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by Steeler_ on Jul 22, 2009 8:23 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

In the complaint she states that he specifically requested that she personally come to take a look.

by PensFan024 on Jul 22, 2009 12:38 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Actually it doesnt say that. In fact, it says that he asked for his TV to be fixed. Instead she couldn’t find any one and then came up herself.

by surag238 on Jul 22, 2009 7:59 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Actually,

It does say that:

59. Plaintiff said that she would have someone look at it and he responded by asking if plaintiff would come and “take a look.”

by PensFan024 on Jul 23, 2009 1:16 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

hes not with drunk girls there with him drunk

thats what you do getting payed 28 million
i would

not

by Z-money12 on Jul 21, 2009 8:23 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Whats your point IDIOT

What the heck is your point? You still come across stupid and your english is awful.

Don’t incite people. But at the very least we all know you’re pretty stupid.

Him being in pictures with drunk girls or them being in pictures with him is meaningless…there’s nothing wrong with that.

Perhaps you and all others who find this offensive have never had the opportunity to be in the general company of women? Perhaps you don’t actually go to parties or drink? Or perhaps your the over weight 50 year old guy who can’t get to parties because he knows no one would bother talking to him.

Whatever your reasons are…there is nothing wrong with being in a party with women or being drunk or whatever we or he chooses to do.

I don’t recall anyone here condoning what Pacman did. I generally can’t say I know exactly what he did though I do know he was in the presence of a situation that led to someone’s death.

The difference between pacman and ben is that Pacman had a history of malignant and dangerous behavior that was present even before his NFL incidents. In fact, that was one of his issues during draft day.

I don’t recall Ben ever having any issues other than being exceedingly careless and irresponsible because of his motorcycle accident. Then again, no young male who is a multimillionaire with a winning game would ever act carelessly. Because of course us men are always taking care of our safety and health.

by surag238 on Jul 21, 2009 8:48 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

What is rape?

I come from a different era than most of you, but I remember the fraternity days. Guys would go to the campus bar, girls would do the same. They’d have a few drinks with their groups. Toward the end of the night some would pair off, have a couple more drinks, then end up in a frat, sorority or dorm room.

After necking or making out or whatever they call it now, the girl might mildly say “please don’t,” but her actions keep kissing. She says, “I’m not ready for this,” but her actions don’t remotely resemble getting out of the situation. She giggles, “This isn’t right, you know I’m drunk and you’re taking advantage of me.” But she keeps kissing and the boy doesn’t feel the alarm and will contnue until the alarm is clear. It’s sometimes never clear and they end up having sex.

Next day she wakes up crying, claiming a boy got her drunk, took her to a room and raped her. he swears she said “no,” and repeats all her lines from the night before. Is this rape? Of course, you can take my scenario and ratchet it up or down a notch until you are right on the fence, regardless of your definition.

I’ve heard people say when the girl says “no,” that’s the line, but what about those who say “no” and continue without physical resistance? This happened to the Kennedy boy 15 years ago, maybe Kobe? Who else? It seems to me that if I’m a girl and I don’t want sex, there are going to be marks and bruises on my body and/or the boys the next day, and these marks and bruises will tell the story. Short of that I am real leery on this subject.

Thoughtful discussion with a sense of history

by maryrose on Jul 21, 2009 9:13 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

according to the state laws of Nevada
A person who subjects another person to sexual penetration, or who forces another person to make a sexual penetration on himself or another, or on a beast, against the will of the victim or under conditions in which the perpetrator knows or should know that the victim is mentally or physically incapable of resisting or understanding the nature of his conduct, is guilty of sexual assault.

thats definition of sexual assault.

by t1mmy10 on Jul 21, 2009 10:44 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

That’s the criminal definition. That’s the standard a prosecutor must meet.

That’s what makes this case really odd. This is a civil suit. More specifically, a civil sexual harassment suit.

by JasonB on Jul 21, 2009 11:11 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

and i was answering maryrose’s question.

by t1mmy10 on Jul 21, 2009 11:34 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I know, I kind of was as well… I just think it’s an important point to illustrate. This isn’t a rape case where the standard of proof is “beyond a reasonable doubt.”

The fact that the standard of proof in a civil case is much lower is what has to make this tricky/scary for Roethlisberger.

by JasonB on Jul 22, 2009 2:54 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

dude…thats pretty weird…almost as if you dont really understand what rape and especially alcohol is about.

When you’re drunk sometimes you have no control over your actions. Just saying no can be enough. Indeed, unless you’re with a girlfriend and can be absolutely sure that her no doesnt really mean no….I would most certainly say that if a girl says no then its no.
Otherwise it is rape…

by surag238 on Jul 21, 2009 9:22 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

I dont think women always fight back as well…many times women are afraid.

Take the New Zealand Story..

Wife and husband are at a beach and go back to hotel. Man who is on every drug you can think of comes over and threatens both with knife and gun. Takes jewlery and ties up the husband. Then proceeds to rape the wife at knife point saying he’ll kill her otherwise. he then forces her to give him blowjobs/have sex/do all sorts of sordid acts. Then leaves.

I know he had a gun/knife but she had no marks…no bruises. He had none as well. What does this mean?

The same can happen if a six foot guy takes over someone who’s only 5 feet and threatens to kill her and then rapes her. No bruises necessary. The only one you might find are with a rape kit…

by surag238 on Jul 21, 2009 9:25 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Im not sure if that story was hypothetical, but Im a New Zealander and remember a similar scenario involving some European tourists a couple years ago

Nonetheless….I agree that rape does not always have to include physical harm through bruises or scratches….not everyone has a “fight back” mentality…especially when you assume a rapist is threatening the victim in one way or another

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by Steeler_ on Jul 22, 2009 6:29 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

No it was fairly recent…I only read it because it came on google news. It was pretty awful and I caught myself reading it because I was so shocked…I almost always just ignore reading rape cases. I find them so repulsive and gross that it disturbes me. usually I can’t help but think about what would happen if my girlfriend were in such a situation and then I have to stop myself from thinking about it anymore. I find these types of crimes just horrifying.

I’m probably in the minority but I would like to see serial rapists given the death penalty. i think its just as bad as murder.

by surag238 on Jul 22, 2009 9:15 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

OK, then if you think my scenario is rape, then ratchet it down a couple notches. No one’s drunk, but they had a couple beers…She says “no, don’t do this,” then proceeds to rip his shirt off…My whole point is, no matter where your line is drawn, you can paint a picture where you are right on the fence. I migfht understand more then you think. And I do know the world has changed alot. What is politically incorrect these days many times happened often back in the 60s and 70s. I don’t tell my kids all that I did, because you can’t judge yesterday’s actions by today’s standards, but I digress…

Thoughtful discussion with a sense of history

by maryrose on Jul 21, 2009 9:43 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

This is a horrible moment.

I love Ben as a QB.

That said if he is guilty I hope he goes to jail for a long time. I have friends who have been raped by star athletes, and if this is true there are no words for the level of filth that Ben Roethlisburgher is.

By the same token if this is untrue the woman accusing him is pretty crappy herself.

The amount of venom that goes against women who come out against these athletes is amazing. The ideas that permeate our culture in these instances are embarrassing if not appalling.

The sad thing is if it is true, there is very little chance of a conviction in criminal court. Too many women are so ashamed when victimized that they don’t follow the procedures needed to prosecute the case. They have to recover from the rape mentally before they can report it. Because of this the court of public opinion becomes the place where we determine innocence and guilt, the court of law can’t do it now.

What does this all mean, it means my QB, the guy who brought my beloved team back to the pinnacle of Football may be a rapist.

My love of one and absolute hatred for the other will forever be stuck to Big Ben, guilty or innocent, we likely will never know.

by Phantaskippy on Jul 21, 2009 9:40 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Very well said.

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by BabeParilli on Jul 21, 2009 10:44 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

He wont go to jail because this isnt a criminal case.

I have no animosity towards this woman and no venom…I actually feel sorry for her. She is a human being who is hurting. My empathy does not mean I believe her.

Frankly I have a hard time believing that she was so ashamed that it kept her from reporting this to the police. She seemed to be comfortable in talking to her employer about it…never the police mind you, but Harrah’s was OK.

The whole thing is sad. If Ben is exonerated, where does he go to get his reputation back? I am afraid that this is a troubled woman who has possibly slandered a man forever.

by Mick Kraut on Jul 21, 2009 11:46 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

wow

Reading all of this, I feel far more inclined to weigh in. I don’t differ too much from maryroses statement, but I do have some opinions on the subject of reputation.

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by Blitzburgh on Jul 21, 2009 10:08 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

I don't get it

So many of you seem to make BB a criminal. You don’t have all the facts. You have the claim of a woman and that’s it. So what. If you can jump to conclusions and believe her then it is equally easy to jump to conclusions about BB’s innocence.

BB has a clean criminal record as far as I know and based on the BB we see, which is a nice and respectful guy, you have at least hold off judgment till ALL the facts are in.

One side does not make a whole case. If that were so, criminal “justice” would be a total farce.

Just take a deep breath….

by Ragnar808 on Jul 21, 2009 11:23 PM EDT via mobile reply actions   0 recs

i read the lawsuit filed by woman

http://www.rgj.com/assets/pdf/J7138957721.PDF
a couple of observations about her claims
1) She did handle the situation poorly by not going to the authorities immediately & instead depended on the hotel to handle the situation. she claims she went to the hotel security head about the situation the day afterward she expected them to take care of it and begin and investigation. about a month later, she claims it was stressed to her that she would probably be fired from her job if she went to the authorities and hurt ben’s reputation. She also claims that the hotel administrators made up the claims about the fake soldier to explain her depression to her parents, which the woman wouldn’t tell her parents why she was depressed.

2) She had many visits with medical professionals that diagnosed her as dealing with depression. I think they could be asked to testify to see why they felt she was depressed. They may be able to shed light on whether she spoke of this fictitious soldier or this roethlisberger incident.

this is just my guess, but i have a feeling this will turn into a situation of whether it was sexual assault or one where the girl regrets her actions the day afterward & were consensual at the time

by t1mmy10 on Jul 21, 2009 11:43 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Still

all so much worthless nonsense.

Ben is guilty of nothing. Period. Nada. Zero.

“Accusation” is nothing more or less than a claim.

Why so many people who claim to be Steelers fans are already so totally sympathetic to a girl who very likely could be lying to get attention or money is totally beyond me. Just because a woman or girl you know was raped(or claims to have been) DOES NOT make Ben guilty. Geesh….

Some women thrive on playing the role of The Victim. Everything about this situation implies that she is one of those women. NOTHING she has said or done supports her allegations in the least.

Jerome Bettis was accused of something similar a few years ago and it was proved to be baseless.

How will the turncoats and finger-pointers feel WHEN Ben is cleared of all this?

by tobiathan on Jul 22, 2009 1:12 AM EDT reply actions   0 recs

i can be sympathetic towards a possible rape victim while hoping the event isnt true and know it isnt proven as true. i think the only ppl on here who are pretty much ready to hand out a verdict in favor of the woman are fans of other teams. most of steelers fans trying to get ppl to take a kinder view of the situation are just trying to educate other fans that rape can have more than just physical effects…and they arent taking a side

by t1mmy10 on Jul 22, 2009 11:38 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Yeah, I think it is really terrible to let your fandom of a certain team color your feelings about something as serious as this. Either a woman has been raped or man’s life could be ruined… whatever the truth is, football is trivial in comparison.

by JasonB on Jul 22, 2009 11:54 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

agreed

This is bigger than football obviously. This isn’t about Ben the Steeler, its about Ben the person.

by Mechem on Jul 22, 2009 2:41 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

re: I read the lawsuit...

…ditto on your take!

I noticed Ben’s lawyer said, “My client never sexually assaulted anyone.” He did NOT say, “My client never had sex with Andrea McNulty.” It’s only a shot it the dark (as is 90% of this thread) but I suspect the allegations have a measure of truth. For example, if any well-off celebrity just had sex with a virtual stranger and that person started mentioning hidden cameras, it’s possible the celebrity might pop a cork and evict their recent ‘lover.’ In turn, how would the evicted party react…especially if they thought the encounter might lead to a long term relationship or hoped from the outset to turn it into cash?

Does anyone know whether lie detector results are admissible in NV civil or criminal court? As others have suggested, there’s a reason why this suit was filed within days of the one year aniversary of the event (and no criminal charges were sought). Learn the truth behind these inconsistencies and you’ll understand the reality here…and BTW, I’ve personally known and grieved with two wonderful ladies who’ve been subjected to rape by human beasts. If Ben is guilty of these charges, then he’s a first class S.O.B. If he is NOT, his accuser is no less disgusting.

This is not “about” male attitudes towards woman and rape. Nor is it about gold-digging women out to defame and rob naive jocks whose guilt lay in thinking with the head nature intended for other uses. It’s about allegations that may or may not be true (either in part or completely), regarding one man, one woman, and one event. Regardless of the outcome, I hope the truth emerges and justice is served.

by workingon7 on Jul 22, 2009 1:27 AM EDT reply actions   0 recs

just a friendly pointer, you can the little reply link at the end of specific comment to write directly underneath the comment you are responding to…and it’ll give it the little indented thing. : – )

by t1mmy10 on Jul 22, 2009 11:41 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

a freindly pointer...

Thanks t1mmy10! Hopefully it’ll make me a better poster. W-o-7

by workingon7 on Jul 22, 2009 12:03 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Does anyone know whether lie detector results are admissible in NV civil or criminal court?

Lie detectors don’t work…never have…they’re a scare tactic only, that’s why they’re not valid/allowed in court. The scientists who developed them for the CIA (of FBI, whatever) acknowledge this openly.

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by NoCal-SteelCity on Jul 22, 2009 3:57 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

My 2 cents on the subject

Unfortunately, and im doing my best to not sound sexist whilst saying this, but it is incredibly hard to ever prove that there was consent in sex.

I take every accusation of rape or sexual assault very very seriously, as it happens a lot in the worse way, and i know a couple people my own age who have been victims of rape and they have been shattered by it.

The fact it took a year for this story to come out puzzles me a little, as even in the cases of the people i know, the longest it took for them to seek help from friends or police was at most a month.

I hate saying this but as a male, it is incredibly hard to manage these sort of situation, especially as a sports professional. These guys are always going to have the females who seek money, attention, or even a self esteem boost from bedding someone of high stature, and often you see these sorts of accusations come around, rape especially, so that they can fulfill these needs of theirs. ONCE AGAIN I AM NOT saying that I think this woman is full of shit, every rape allegation should be taken seriously.

I refuse to make any judgements on this situation before more information is revealed, and i pray like hell that Big Ben is innocent of the accusation.

Sometimes people crash into each other for no good reason, just to feel alive again.

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by Steeler_ on Jul 22, 2009 4:30 AM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Coverup

The only thing I find strange is that the 8-10 other people named in the lawsuit managed to cover up the situation (I just read the complaint quickly, but that’s what I gathered from it). And I say strange because, as the posts on this board show, a significant amount of people would immediately hunt down any man accused of rape (and everyone would take it seriously and get to the bottom of the matter). So did it just so happen that everyone at working at Harrah’s at the time was nonchalant about rape?

I guess you could say that they were trying to protect a VIP guest. However, Ben was only there because he was invited to that golf event and could easily be replaced by another high profile athlete in the coming years. So did Harrah’s have to go as far as protect him from a rape charge in order to keep his business?

Overall, that isn’t enough to sway anyone’s opinion…but it is one thing I found somewhat hard to believe.

by HoustonPA on Jul 22, 2009 12:04 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Fishy to me also

I think if we surveyed 10 people off the street, they would probably not all agree to cover up a RAPE.

Thats my thing. I actually think these 10 people could be the thing that sinks this girls story. Because I highly doubt 10 people will admit to covering up a rape. So, irregardless of whether it happened or not, I betcha these 10 are gonna say either “she never said it” or something to that effect. Then it will be 10 peoples word against her’s.

by Mechem on Jul 22, 2009 2:40 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I can see it happening though.

After working for a company that catered to V.I.P.‘s I can believe it would happen, especially if a decent number didn’t believe her.

That said, it is so hard to prove.

This is my take on what she is reporting, in my words with some generalities taken and thrown in. Just for people who want an idea of what looks to be the story.

Reading the document this woman was thrilled to have the job of dealing with the VIP’s simply because it was a good step for promotion. Trying not to screw that up she probably acted toward Ben in a very friendly manner. A bit of flirtatious behavior goes on, Ben misreads, she is tin a bad spot with her opportunity and the suddenness and Ben being twice her size. . .

So like many girls who later accuse rape she doesn’t fight, she says no then takes it. Only the aftereffects are worse than she expects, she talks to someone about it, he doesn’t want to rock the boat and doesn’t Really believe her, so he doesn’t do anything, she doesn’t talk about it again so he does nothing. She meanwhile is trying to hold together her career while falling apart. She goes back to check on what happened, and finds out nothing is or will be done. She plummets. Ends up in hospital, gathers debts and her career is shot. So then she files this suit to try to reclaim some of her life, and make Ben pay for what she suffered.

As for most of the employees mentioned, cover ups happen. Not just for this stuff, but grievances get hushed, complaints get turned on the complainer, it happens all the time. Especially in business dealing with V.I.P.’s, perception and image are everything.

From Ben’s side, it’s probably happened before with no problems, he’s probably had girls say no when they didn’t mean it, and he likes parties with drunk girls, so he is probably used to getting what he wants.

That said, seriously don’t debate when a girl says no, stop. Kick her out , send her home, call a Taxi, whatever, just cut it off immediately. If she’s playing around and wants to say no and still do it, kick her out. I can’t believe guys mess around like that. Your life can be ruined so easily, and hers too if you are reading the situation wrong.

Is there something seriously wrong with this situation, yes. I just hope both Ben and this woman receive justice and move on.

by Phantaskippy on Jul 22, 2009 3:33 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Good poast

I agree wholeheartedly about your next to last paragraph. If a chick is on the fence, push her off and get out of that situation.

Cover ups DO happen I wont deny that. But I think the stars are gonna have to align pretty well for this large group of people to come clean if they did cover something up.

by Mechem on Jul 22, 2009 4:37 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

The success rate of a cover up goes down exponentially with the number of people involved. And it starts low.

Guns don't kill people. Lamar Woodley kills people.

by BostonWahoo on Jul 22, 2009 4:41 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I agree, and that’s the one saving thing for Ben, one of those 9 will screw up if it’s a cover up. If they all can hold a story together it’s probably legit.

by Phantaskippy on Jul 22, 2009 7:24 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

i agree. the fact that it she claims that it was covered up by so many is very unusual, but if it isnt true should help to make it easier to prove her description of the events wrong. but you have to understand these ppl DID have things to gain (again according to her) and thats why they were against her. the top guy claimed he had the in with a great superstar and so would want to protect him for that reason. if she really felt she wouldve lost her job over crossing ben, maybe others did too. she claimed one was romantically involved with the head. another was up for promotion. there can be a lot of reasons these ppl saw if the ignored/didnt believe her gain they’d gain personally (again if its true)

by t1mmy10 on Jul 22, 2009 3:58 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I see your points.

And it very well may be true that no one listened to her. If I were her and trying to prove a case of this nature, I wouldn’t have brought in the cover up aspect b/c it requires you to produce and prove so many facts (why each person chose not to help you). Facts that, if later contradicted, cast doubt on your entire case. So not only does she have to prove that Ben raped her, but also that all of these other people were complicit for reasons I don’t know that anyone could prove…like hoping to get a promotion.

by HoustonPA on Jul 22, 2009 6:08 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

What I meant was...

I would have discussed the cover up but not brought in everyone involved as a defendant.

by HoustonPA on Jul 22, 2009 6:10 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Two possibilities

I really see only two possibilities. The decision to involve all the people that were named as defendants had to have been made by the lawyer representing her. You would think he would have very good reasons for including them in the suit.

A lawyers job, first and foremost, is to win the case. Purposely including people who would not be beneficial to the case would defeat that purpose. If the primary intention of this filing is to see this thing through to the end due to a strong belief in the guilty actions of the defendants then inclusion of any that could disprove or cast significant doubt on the allegations is counterproductive and detrimental to that goal and would not be included for that reason. The fact that they are named implies that there IS substantial evidence as to their guilt with regards to this matter

On the other hand, there is also the distinct possibility that the suit was filed with no intention of going to court and that the primary purpose of naming so many defendants is that it increases the likelihood that at least one will settle out of court. If the sole purpose for the filing was or is nothing more than an attempt to extort money then I can see this as valid reasoning for including so many defendants. Both Roethlisberger and Harrah’s, have deep pockets and, you would think, an interest in shutting down the negative publicity caused by these accusations as quickly as possible. If the sole intention of the suit is monetary gain then inclusion of so many defendants makes more sense. Some of the defendants may want to see the thing through to the end in order to attempt to regain their reputations and prove their innoncence. Others, however, might want this situation to end and would be more than willing to do whatever it takes to make this story go away as soon as possible.

As a fan of Ben and the Steelers I wholeheartedly hope that the latter is the case. If it is the former, then the likelihood of guilt on the part of Ben becomes much more likely. I personally can’t judge who is right or wrong. It has nothing to do with being politically correct either. Common sense dictates that there are just too many unknowns at this point in time to form any kind of an honest assessment of the situation. In fact, it is quite likely, that we will never know for sure all of the actual facts of the case. That is just the harsh reality of our current legal system.

by King Coebra on Jul 23, 2009 2:15 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Some legal issues to clear up....

Working on 7 asks if lie detector tests are admissible as evidence in civil or criminal court in Nevada. The answer is no. Nor can the results of those tests be even referred to in testimony. (If a defendant says offhand, “I passed the lie detector test,” that remark is stricken from the testimony.)

As to his comment, "I noticed Ben’s lawyer said, "My client never sexually assaulted anyone." He did NOT say, "My client never had sex with Andrea McNulty.": NOR SHOULD HE – AS A LAWYER – HAVE GONE ONE INCH BEYOND WHAT SHE CLAIMS IN HER SUIT. I would not read anything what he didn’t say. He flatly denied her specific claim without opening any other avenue. If someone accuses your client of X, you deny X and say no more.

Does anyone know anything about the law firm this woman has hired? I know that Dunlap and Laxalt has been representing the Governor’s wife in the extremely messy divorce case of Gibbons v Gibbons. That case also involves casinos, cameras, and god only knows what else. It’s very public, and very scandalous, even by Nevada standards.

And the Laxalt in the firm is Monique (Nicki) Laxalt, the daughter of a beloved Navada writer and the niece of the late Senator Paul Laxalt. Paul Laxalt was perhaps Ronald Reagan’s closest friend in Washington. I assume they are a firm of some reputation and substance out there in Nevada, although those qualities can be hard to find in a state where gambling and prostitution are major legal industries.

As to Maryrose’s comment about the William Kennedy Smith/Patricia Bowman case in Palm Beach, I kept a faxed copy of the police report in my desk for at least a decade. The reason was because the investigating officer states in the report that he was lied to about the whereabouts of the Senator when he came to the front door of the Kennedy home, and therefore was unable to question Ted at that time. He was told by the household employee answering the door that Ted had gone back to Washington. In fact, the police detective reports, Ted left the next day. One might infer that the Hon. Kennedy didn’t want to talk until everybody got their facts straight. Or so it might seem.
I’ve never felt sorry for William Kennedy Smith after reading the report. But that’s another issue for another day.

by Homer J. on Jul 22, 2009 10:02 AM EDT reply actions   0 recs

legal issues...

Thanks for explaining this! These are all good points and make perfect sense. w-o-7

by workingon7 on Jul 22, 2009 12:06 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

a note on the lawsuit

I don’t know much about how professional lawsuits are supposed to be (as I’m not a lawyer) but this bit caught my attention -

163. Koster knew of the devastating impact this would have on Plaintiff, but chose, nonetheless, to send a message to Plaintiff that he, Koster, was supportive of his friend Roethlisberger, continued to admire this rapist, would not tolerate any but the most laudatory view and comments regarding Roethlisberger and would not investigate in any way the assault which had taken place during the 2008 Celebrity Tournament.

I didn’t know lawsuits were allowed to apply labels like that, before the case has been even tried. Couldn’t that be considered libel and if so, what business does it have being in a lawsuit? Especially under the heading “FACTS”

by Jeebas on Jul 22, 2009 12:06 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

the deposition or lawsuit or whatever

the whole thing reads like a textbook delusional fantasy. Any psycologists out there? Seriously, it sounds like a load of BS. I can just see the plaintiff sitting there with those two bloodsucking leaches and their scribe furiously writing down the crazy story. “Oh we need to add detail there to make it more believable… saying that will help establish damages.”

I SWEAR I would say the same thing if the name Benjamin Roethlisberger was exchanged to Thomas Brady on the document. It’s total nonsense.

Does anyone know if other court filings from other people appear so delusional?

We need to read up on this Gibbons v Gibbons case so we know what to expect from these lawyers.

"It was an attrition football game and you know we like that."

by showtime on Jul 22, 2009 7:01 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I wonder if Roethlisberger will counter sue for defamation of character.

I'll drink your Milkshake, I'll drink it up!

by drinkyourmilkshake on Jul 22, 2009 12:21 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

He can’t. If she accused him in a newspaper or on TV he could… but not because she filed a lawsuit.

by JasonB on Jul 22, 2009 1:21 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

thanks….

I'll drink your Milkshake, I'll drink it up!

by drinkyourmilkshake on Jul 22, 2009 1:32 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I’m surprised Bennigans actually knew which hole to stick it in.

You have to hate losing more than you love winning.

by Mr MaLoR on Jul 22, 2009 12:30 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Not today sir.

He’s able to find the holes in your defense, so I think he can manage in a one on one.

by Mechem on Jul 22, 2009 2:38 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

live it up

You now officially have one decent comeback when we rag on the ravens. And it was gifted to you.

"It was an attrition football game and you know we like that."

by showtime on Jul 22, 2009 7:02 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Thought...

Before I start, I am by no means saying this happened in this situation…it’s just a general observation.

If you were seeking make your case harder to disprove (and you were lying), wouldn’t your strategy be to include all the potential witnesses as co-defendants. Doing so would thereby taint any of their testimony against you. For example, if someone out there knows that your account of the incident is false and could hurt you in court…a good way to counter their testimony would be to claim that person was involved in the incident as well (a defendant), which automatically casts doubt on their testimony.

Again, I’m not saying this is what happened. I’m just thinking of what I might say if I were on the other side of a similar complaint (and I was innocent of course).

P.S. – Grow the F up Ben. If you are innocent, this should be the last wake up call you ever need to receive. If you are guilty, you should have taken your last wake up call (i.e., the motorcycle accident).

by HoustonPA on Jul 22, 2009 12:39 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

IF he is innocent

what exactly did he do wrong here? I fail to see how he needs to grow up if in fact he is innocent.

by Johnny_S on Jul 22, 2009 12:52 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Well, I guess if he is wholly innocent and never even met the woman, then I’m wrong. But if she is just lying about her consent, then he should refrain from putting himself in such situations. I just mean to give him advice. Advice that is motivated by my selfish desire to see the Steelers remain on top…the same thing that should motivate you to tell him the same thing. I think everyone would much rather Ben be on his best behavior for their own self-benefit. Now that said, he by no means has to listen to me or anyone else.

And he shouldn’t be subjected to more scrutiny than those who aren’t famous. But he is, which is a fact of his life. So my advice would be to take steps to avoid the negative spotlight (where a helmet, know a little about someone before you interact with them). I think that is worthwhile advice, but he is free to take it or leave it.

by HoustonPA on Jul 22, 2009 1:00 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I suppose you are right

But I mean, nobody is perfect. He would make these ‘mistakes’ whether he was a pro football QB or a mechanic at Bob’s Car Shop. To think he is going to go through his entire career untarnished is silly thinking. You would just hope when those mistakes occur that it is not something to lead to this magnitude.

PS-All these statements are based on IF he is innocent. I don’t want anyone yelling at me saying I equated rape with a simple mistake.

by Johnny_S on Jul 22, 2009 1:14 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I agree.

A young guy with money is never going to get through his career unscathed. If he is innocent and she is lying, I guess the lesson he should learn is that people do lie to get money out of athletes. And he can probably do some things to minimize that risk…but it will always be there.

DISCLAIMER: ASSUMING HE IS INNOCENT.

by HoustonPA on Jul 22, 2009 1:18 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Correct

You need to still be mindful of who you put around you. And not trust people so freely..

by Mechem on Jul 22, 2009 2:36 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

to elaborate

I have no problem with a person hooking up with a girl he barely knows. Problem is when you barely know somebody, that person can turn out to be a psycho (which this girl seems to be) and that isn’t good.

Discretion needs to be used and sometimes a little bit of precaution. I’m not going to say “grow up Ben” because I dont think he needs to. This happens to a lot of mature athletes.

by Mechem on Jul 22, 2009 2:37 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Refrain from putting himself in such situations

But woman can give consent to the highest degree, and later still claim the man raped her, and unless he has that consent on video tape, then the situation will be taken as seriously as this. Hell even if consent is videotaped, it can still be strung up to say that the man in question forced her to do so.

It is one of the most serious allegations one can lay on another. I am refusing to say whether i think Ben is guilty or not, or that I believe this woman is spinning yarns or not…..

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by Steeler_ on Jul 22, 2009 6:37 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Well...

you’re right no one can ever be 100% safe. But you have to admit that athletes can take steps (that Ben, even if he is innocent, did not take here) to minimize their risk. Like talk ing to the girls you sleep with for a couple of hours to try and weed out those that might hamstring you or being seen in a public place so witnesses can atest to her being into you.

by HoustonPA on Jul 22, 2009 7:00 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Very true

No doubt being a pro athlete makes the need to take safer measures a lot more important, but cant blame him for just trying to live like everyone else does, in a carefree manner

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by Steeler_ on Jul 22, 2009 7:34 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

If he let that young woman into his room at 2 in the morning by herself he does need to make better decisions.

I'll drink your Milkshake, I'll drink it up!

by drinkyourmilkshake on Jul 22, 2009 1:00 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

You guys sound like Falcon fans during the Mike Vick fiasco.

Defend Big Ben too the bloody end. if it’s true, I hope he gets hanged…if its false then I hope the dumb broad gets hanged. Either way I want a hangin’!

Verbose in style, dispersion of thought, procrastination in life.

by Tim Lynch on Jul 22, 2009 1:21 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Yeah, it’s just like the mike vike fiasco…minus all of the evidence.

by PensFan024 on Jul 22, 2009 3:04 PM EDT up reply actions   1 recs

About ben's rep

I’m probably done talking about the case itself. I feel how I feel, I want to wait and see. But this case doesnt seem like it holds water too well. However I could be wrong.

But now I’d like to focus on Ben’s rep. My observations from user comments in yahoo pages, PFT pages, ESPN pages, etc… all see to be backing Roethlisberger. And not even from all Steelers fans. Most people nowadays are starting to see these types of lawsuits more and more often. And given that this woman is following the classic “golddigger” pattern, people seem to have quickly gone against her side.

This is good to me. I dont want Ben’s name brought down, unless its proven true somehow. I’m glad to see that they haven’t all jumped on Roethlisberger and immediately beheaded him.

by Mechem on Jul 22, 2009 2:35 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

It might have been stated previously...

But the reason the victim came forward is probably not because of any sudden courage to confront her attacker, but rather a rule in the law that says she has a year from the date of the incident to file a claim. If she fails to file a claim within that time limit then the “victim” forfeits her right to any civil claim. Obviously she did this under the direction of her attorney who wants to ensure her options are kept open. The strategy is pretty normal (as a cop whose been sued and won knows). They’re hoping for a settlement and will go away with a little spending money and no admission of guilt on Ben’s behalf. Fight it based on the facts/evidence (like I did) and there’s a strong chance this girl folds up shop and goes away.

On the other hand, I love Ben as an athlete and a public personality but I don’t want to confuse that with his off the field personality. Athletes are often not the people we percieve them to be and I don’t want to discount this woman’s story until more facts are known. At this point there are more questions than answers…but as they say in law enforcement, follow the money trail and it’ll usually lead you to the crook.

by Steev1705 on Jul 22, 2009 3:25 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

There is no statue of limitations on civil matters of sexual harassment/assault in the State of Nevada. IANAL.

Guns don't kill people. Lamar Woodley kills people.

by BostonWahoo on Jul 22, 2009 4:04 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

My Opinion

The alleged victim is in it for the $$$. Ben Roethlisberger does not have to rape any woman regardless of the color,creed or background. He is a successful NFL Player,has a boatload of $$$ and he can pick and choose the type of woman he wants.

by Steelersfan77 on Jul 22, 2009 5:22 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

Idiotic opinion

Maybe she is in it for the money. Maybe not. This type of thing has happened to many an athlete all over the world, she could just be attention seeking.

You make Ben sound like an asshole by saying you think he can get any kind of woman blah blah, he does not get to pick and choose, you insult him by saying so. He doesnt get to decide if a woman is to have sex with him, he has to earn the right to, just like the rest of us

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by Steeler_ on Jul 22, 2009 6:42 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

You don't make sense

or are very naive:

 Ben, and anyone with great wealth and/or fame, DOES get to choose from a great number of very, very willing partners at any given moment.

 Clearly, you assume that the other poster was saying that Ben thought he could randomly point at women on the street and decide that they would sleep with him. That’s ridiculous, and idiotic opinion.

 So: don’t be the pot who calls the kettle a moron, huh? :-)

by tobiathan on Jul 22, 2009 7:24 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

After re-reading my comment I see your point

I mean to say that just because Big Ben is a successful NFL player doesnt get anyone he wants as SteelersFan77 implied just because he is successful. The pool of fish is bigger sure like you say, but not endless.

I may have taken what he said wrong, but I refuse to believe Ben is guilty OR innocent at this point in time….i want some facts

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by Steeler_ on Jul 22, 2009 7:32 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

This whole thing

is causing a sh*tstorm and makes me sad.

Our Ben is totally innocent of anything criminal even if he lost this suit because it’s just a civil suit. It’s like Judge Judy- he’s still not guilty of any crime even if a jury found that he might have done what she accuses him of. The whole thing is stoopid.

AND- TMZ.com posted a video today of her SMILING as she drove past the paparazzi. Do rape victims smile at the media??? No.

And this is still tearing SteelerNation apart at the seams- just like all the haters want.

Sad.

by tobiathan on Jul 22, 2009 8:40 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

She is not conducting herself as a rape victim

Its been a year sure…but most victims who get the media in their face hide, avoid cameras, through embarassment, and not wanting to feel pitied

Im glad neither NFL.com or ESPN are taking this too seriously….more details need to come to light before any big players can get themselves in the mix

Bleeding Black and Gold.....forever

by Steeler_ on Jul 22, 2009 8:48 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Great job.

Let’s hope the truth really does come out, and that it doesn’t just turn into a dirt flinging contest between the lawyers.

I can’t imagine this getting settled out of court, Ben would lose more than he’d gain from that, unless the NFL tells him to do it to avoid punishment.

by Phantaskippy on Jul 22, 2009 7:32 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Good summary

I agree totally with SteelerBuddha. In a previous post I suggested this matter is not about us, rape, or our attitudes towards scamming celebrities for cash. On the other hand, taken as a tool for introspection, our responses to this and other issues equally divisive can say very much about what we believe and who we are.

For example: how did you initially react when you heard that Ben was accused of a sexual attack? How did you react when you heard of a similar accusation against Jerome Bettis? And finally, how did you react when you heard the same about Kobe Bryant? I realize the details were unique in each case. But was your inital “gut” response the same for each? Mine was not, which gave me cause for serious self-reflection.

by workingon7 on Jul 22, 2009 8:22 PM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Thank You Buddha

You seem to be the only person making any sense. Good perspective.

Red Wings-1 Max Talbot-2

by Mr.BrettKeisel on Jul 23, 2009 4:42 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

I dont know why anyone hasn't considered these facts in the discussion.

I like what SteelerBhudda has written. But I also want to point out a few things people don’t seem to have mentioned…

I will first disclose that while I am biased in favor of Ben, it is more because of the moral disgust and outrage I will feel for having supported someone all these years should he end up being convicted. In addition, I will also feel incredibly sad for this woman, not because I know her, but because of the media frenzy and the fact that a face has been put to the story.

We always hear about rape and murder, but more often than not it is a statistic, a faceless issue that comes quickly on the news and then passes away. This story is different, and in that sense, it frightens me and saddens me.

I am frightened that such seemingly trustworthy people could potentially do harm and I am saddened that I may end up having my own values and ‘bubble’ of security shattered. Who wouldn’t feel uncomfortable after knowing that someone they may have looked up to or admired turns out to be a deplorable person?

That being said, I do have some issues with the case. This woman seems to have covered her bases very well.

ONE.

She claims she did not go to the cops because she felt she would lose her job. As many have said, women dont go to the cops out of fear that they won’t be believed or the pain will be exacerbated. If that is the case, why would she then inform the Harrah’s employees immediately?

Employers CANNOT FIRE an employee because of rape allegations no matter how frivolous sounding. In any case, in order to further her claim she could have gathered far more evidence. Which begs the question, why did she not get a rape kit? A hospital is required to follow the wishes of a patient due to confidentiality laws. had she had a rape kit done no one needed to know least of all the cops. She could have easily then informed her bosses of the situation. And then gone to the cops.

TWO.

It is very important that information and evidence, such as photographs of the two together, or personal letters regarding the case be presented to the court of law should she wish to pursue a rape charge. How convinient does it seem that whatever evidence she did have was systematically removed by employee security personnel who entered her home and then decided to remove all of the data. This way there is no need for her to present the data to the court. Indeed, all her lawyers need to claim is that such evidence may have existed, to place in the minds of the public that the evidence was there. A sort of rabbit’s foot. Not really there, but just enough in our minds to cast doubt on the plaintiff.

THREE.

Everyone has gotten on the bandwagon about the one year issue. Sure she waited a year, but more importantly why did she decide to give the Harrahs Employee the key to her home?

The actual document states that several months after the situation blew up and after she had seeked psychiatric treatment because she felt that the employees HAD NOT HELPED HER IN ANYWAY AT ALL AND HAD ALREADY THREATENED, INTIMIDATED, AND HUMILIATED HER due to the situation she still TRUSTED the harrahs employee with her key and because he wanted to be her friend?

Also apparantly he had already gained the trust of her family by making LIES about the situation about her having lost communication with someone else. He basically told the family that was why she was depressed(making no mention of Ben). did her family NOT DISCUSS THIS with her? Did she basically not hear about these ALLEGED LIES told by the employee before she ENTRUSTED HIM with her key to the home?

A lot of what I read in the report is really fishy and makes me really concerned about what happened.

by surag238 on Jul 22, 2009 8:28 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

  1. is a good point. she was, no doubt, not thinking clearly in her decision making since the incident (and possibly before). i’m sure her “view” of the situation will be called into question as a possible continuation of her illogical thinking. i guess only time will tell.

by t1mmy10 on Jul 23, 2009 12:26 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

lol and i have no clue why it just put a 1. i had a number sign 3

by t1mmy10 on Jul 23, 2009 12:27 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

good points.

Good observations, surag238. I’d suggest two more:

1) According to the allegations, Ben supposedly first called her attention to his TV’s audio problem as he walked away from the plaintiff and a group of fellow employees. What’s the point of making this stipulation. From her perspective, it can be made to look like Ben wanted to hit on her without her co-workers hearing his pitch. However, the knife cuts both ways. It also provides her with a detail (if out of the earshot of others) that cannot verified; i.e., perhaps the employees can attest that Ben said something to the woman, but was it “My audio is broke and I want you to fix it.” Or might it have been, “Good luck the next time you go fly fishing.”

2) (And this is my biggest problem with the allegations) Supposedly Ben called and insisted that she have the TV fixed…that she even try fix it. (We only have her word for this.) She then tried to reach the proper repair people but failed to find them (We only have her word for this.) Because she was instructed by management to make sure Ben “had a good time,” she decided to see if she could fix the TV herself…STOP!

Back up.

She decided to see if she could fix the TV herself.

I worked for twenty years fixing digital and analog electronics on deisel locomotives. Was this woman a trained TV repairperson? How many people on this site would have a go at the inside of their TV (or remote) if it suddenly failed? I wouldn’t, and I’m a professional electrician. Of course, if Ben had said, “My TV or remote won’t work,” I might have taken a couple AA batteries for the remote. But he didn’t say that. He supposedly said the audio doesn’t work.

Now we have a young woman with a supposed excuse to visit Ben’s room that no one can verify except her and Ben, and for what? To purportedly do a technical job she was unqualified to do (Btw, did she happen to mention whether she took tools with her? Not!) Had she said “As a member of the hospitality staff it was my job to calm a valued guest and assure him that we’d address his problem asap” I wouldn’t have batted an eye. But to say she thought she’d see if she could fix a modern widescreen digital set?

When the facts all come out, perhaps we’ll learn that he’s guilty, in which case he should pay like anyone else. On the other hand, if the truth is never absolutely verified, I would have no compunction against letting him date my sister.

By the way Ben, her name is Joan and she lives in New Brighton. She’s old enough to be your mother – at least – and she’s built like Casey “Big Snack” Hampton after a month-long Ben & Jerry’s sale at Krogers. On the plus side, you wouldn’t have any trouble running around on her because the last time I saw her she was slow on her feet. Slower than me even and I’m in a wheelchair. (Picture Casey trying to run in bedroom slippers while holding a jumbo bag of Snyder’s Potato Chips in one hand and a quart bottle of Iron City in the other.) On the other hand, just like Casey, you wouldn’t want her to catch you. Oh, I forgot. She’s a redhead.

by workingon7 on Jul 23, 2009 1:17 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

An interesting fact...

…would be whether they have service records on that particular TV. If the TV was indeed fixed at some point during or after Ben’s stay, then he was not using the “broken TV” line to get her to come to his room.

by HoustonPA on Jul 23, 2009 11:21 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

Ravens Fan here defending big ben

Look i may ‘hate" the Steelers but I respect them. And this sure seems like nothing more than an attempt to extort money, after all why not file criminal charges? And why wait a year? Maybe she"lawyer shopped" to find one sleazy enough to take the case.. I feel bad for ben, especially with the timing of right before training camp! he doesn’t need this. Lord knows I wanna beat you guys this year, but i wanna do it against one of the best, big ben, not a ben who might have his mind elsewhere. You never know if that might impact his head. After all the reason charges weren’t filed is she didn’t cooperate with prosecutors, well if her lawyer says you have a much better chance to win if you press charges… who knows. I’m hope this goes away for you ben. Hopefully we have 3 more great battles this year! See ya all in November at M&T..

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by phillybmore on Jul 22, 2009 10:59 PM EDT reply actions   0 recs

unfortunately while she may have ‘lawyer shopped’ she certainly did not settle for a sleazy lawyer. Her attorneys are high powered in Nevada and work for a big firm…

by surag238 on Jul 23, 2009 12:18 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs

didn't know that

we’ll see what happens. read more in the sun today and it says she didn’t file a criminal complaint for fear of being fired, apparently bens friends with the harrahs boss.Allegedly she got paid time off too when be went back for this years tourney.. Who knows if thats true, we’ll see, i still think its a chance to grab money. And I bet that firm saw that too.

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by phillybmore on Jul 23, 2009 7:20 AM EDT up reply actions   0 recs


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