Losing the Faith: One Man's Migration Away From the Steelers and NFL
The NFL is stronger than ever. Higher ratings, record paraphanelia sales, and fantasy football until your eyes bleed. As the NFL cements its place in our culture (not just the sport culture), it is losing one of the members of its flock. CarlWeathersMustache is losing interest in the game, The League, and even his beloved Steelers. Following are some reasons why I am losing my love for each.
*I apologize for the length, but I have been posting here less frequently and will post even less frequently in the future for some of the reasons outlined below. It all evens out.
The game: The NFL has always had its rule problems: ridiculous OT rules, constantly metamorphosing PI rules, and incessant commercials. But the recent trend toward changing the game to a less forceful, more pass heavy game has rubbed this man the wrong way. If the game gets pass heavy because QBs are getting better, great. The last thing I want is Roger Goodell, and Tagliabue before him, legislating pass heavy offenses with less holding, more late hits, penalties for hits above the shoulders and below the knees on QBs, and defenseless receiver rules.
Concussions are a serious problem for players, but there is a certain amount of risk that comes with the territory. They get paid big bucks to take that risk. I am an attorney, and I get paid big bucks for certain risks. My occupation leads all others in rates of suicide, depression, divorce, and hair loss. You want the big money, you take the big risks. Same with doctors: high stress, life and death, big rewards. Safety is great until you lose that which makes the sport what it is.
The League: I am sick of hearing about the NFL so I won't talk about it much here. The NFL is a black hole whose uber powerful marketing machine will grow so large it will one day suck itself into oblivion. Before that day comes, the NFL Commissioner may pass the Prez as the most powerful man in the world. The entire freaking combine is on TV. A bunch of 21 year olds running around in gym shorts while old dudes watch. It's worse for our culture than reality TV. It tells people that they don't have to actually succeed at their craft, just appear as if you can succeed.
The Steelers: Even as I have boycotted purchasing NFL products and reduced my viewing of other NFL teams, I did not reduce my passion for the Steelers. I was raised in Pittsburgh and grew up on a hearty diet of Steel City. I even worked for the Steelers for a brief period. I've always harbored this belief that the Steelers were somehow better than other franchises because of their winning ways and "character." If only that were true.
Four of the Steelers Super Bowls are tainted with the possible "cheating" of steroids. I don't buy it, just as I don't buy that New England's are tainted. It ain't cheating if you don't get caught, and neither franchise was caught until after the fact. Way to go. So the Super Bowls, four of which took place before I was born, may be questionable. For most of my life, 83-06, the Steelers had no Super Bowl wins and only one appearance.
Names such as Harrison, Holmes, Reed, Spaeth, Davenport, and Roethlisberger have sullied the Steelers good reputation, as well. Whether Ben is innocent or not, he is not the kind of person for which I can root. I do not want to bash anyone I don't know personally, but everything Ben does (motorcycle without a license, sloppiness, ill treatment of women, snubbing a terminally ill young girl, bringing cops to your Georgia lake vacation, etc.) makes me think that there are more people more deserving of my support. Drew Brees comes to mind, as does new Cleveland Brown Scott Fujita, recently departed Deshea Townsend and third stringer Charlie Batch, etc. Yes, the Steelers have some "good guys" on the lower rungs of the depth chart, but they, like any other team, will feed their stars regardless of character. Only when character starts to mess with the bottom line (suspensions or advertising losses) will a franchise make a change. Now, the only reason I have to root for the Steelers is that I was born in Pittsburgh.
Thank you for indulging me. On to hockey season. Maybe I'll feel different next season.
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Losing the faith
Nice post. I too lament the role of money and bad decisions and the direction of the NFL. Give a twenty-something 100 million dollars and of course some will make bad decisions (Ben R).
But this is life. Every profession has good people and bad people – Wall Street, Lawyers, Doctors, Senators, Janitors, whatever…
Nothing will change how I feel when the Steelers take the field and totally annihilate the Ravens on MNF, or winning a Superbowl, or watching former Steelers honored at halftime, or Troy making another out-of-this-world defense play. For many of us who have blood colored Black and Gold, this will never change despite the business side of the NFL, overtime rules, deebo getting held on every play, or the endless smack coming out of Baltimore. I live in Canada, and I routinely meet people from the ’Burgh who display their Steelers gear proudly.
Not all is bad in Steeler Nation, and nothing Ben or anyone else does will change my opinion of the Steelers. I’ve been watching them for 30 years and I’ve seen a lot of good and bad, but tell me that you’d rather have Al Davis than Dan/Art Rooney!
GO STEELERS!
by EdmontonSteel on Mar 12, 2010 9:34 AM EST reply actions 1 recs
Pittsburgh Is Not The Vatican
and Art Rooney II ain’t the Pope Carl. Sorry you feel names such as Harrison and Holmes have sullied the Steelers reputation. But as reported yesterday, and as I remember guys like Ernie Holmes, who shot at the police, were taken in by the organization and coddled because they could produce. (I have no problem with that) Also, let’s not forget who built this franchise. I know you watched The Godfather Trilogy. Remember Luca Brazzi? That was Art Rooney Sr. A tough street thug who grew up in the 20s and was a golden gloves boxer. Rooney earned his keep in the 20s and early 30s for the NY crime families so the legend says. Rooney collected the familia’s share of track winnings all over the midwest. How do you think he earned the Steelers? With a lucky day at the track per Dan Rooney? LOL. The other Rooney’s still own all the horse and dog tracks Art built/stole.
I hear what you are saying regarding the rules and the changing game. Some for the good and most for the worst. (See Leatherheads. Great flick) Kind of like America. Ever changing. Some for the good and some for the worse. It’s called progress. My momma used to always tell me how much better it was in her day. The food, relationships, the music etc. Until she got sick with cancer. Then I told her “Now you should be glad it’s 2000 Mum. Medicine is much better now than in your day.” Things change Carl. I choose to embrace change not run from it.
In conclusion, I am an NFL fan and I am a Steelers fan. Born and bred to be part of the Steelers Nation. The game can change. The team can change. The players and the philosophy can change. But I am a Steelers fan always. Win or lose. I have always enjoyed conversing with you on these pages Carl. I have enjoyed your posts and commentary. I hope this wonderful post filled with your heartfelt thoughts is only in the moment. Come July when the smell of the freshly cut grass is in the air and the players are reporting to Latrobe and the #1 pick is looking good you will forget about Goodell, the Roethlisberger case, roughing the QB etc and come home to your Nation. Until then, we will miss you and leave a light on.
When You Run The Ball Good Things Happen
by 5020 on Mar 12, 2010 9:34 AM EST reply actions 11 recs
Nicely said, 50...
Golf is a contact sport. Football is a collision sport.
by cliff harris is still a punk! on Mar 12, 2010 10:54 AM EST up reply actions 1 recs
Good points
I really enjoyed your recollection of the old Art Rooney days! And that Luca Brazzi image is a real powerful one…
Just one thing : I don’t buy the “it’s called progress” line. If you admit that some things change for the better and some for the worse, then you can hardly invoke progress in the next sentence. Don’t want to sound too picky, but the notion of progress, that we continuously move towards better and better times, was very popular in the 19th century but took a backseat after the horrors that technology brought us in WW I and WW II. Things change and we must live with our times, but we have to be wary of bad changes and try our best to make the best of what we have…
Consider it unleashed!
It seems counter-intuitive
but a smaller percentage of people in the world are dying in/because of armed conflicts. In the 19th century 6.5 million died in the Napoleonic wars and 25 million in the Taiping rebellion alone and this from a world population of 1.3 billion. There has been a huge improvement since the end of the cold war. It seems to be a fairly steady trend. Our media coverage of these conflicts has grown enormously making things seem far worse.
This though is getting off topic.
I may be old but I... oh d*mn, I forgot what I was going to say.
by Cold_Old_Steelers_Fan on Mar 12, 2010 11:31 AM EST up reply actions
Grazie Frog
My definition of progress;
the forward course of action, events, time, etc.
When You Run The Ball Good Things Happen
Fair enough
Didn’t mean to be nitpicking, by the way, I really liked your perspective…
Consider it unleashed!
Art Rooney Sr. =Luca Brasi?
Granted the rules have changed in football but so have the players. These guys are huge and there is a lot of money at stake so I have no problem with most of the rule changes.
Also, I’m sure there were just as many character issues with football players back then as there are now. The only difference is we now have cell phones, paparazzi and the internet so news travels faster to a wider audience. I think we will all start to feel better about our team once training camp starts.
Now I gotta spend my entire weekend watching the Godfather Trilogy….Thanks a lot 50! :o)
"In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women."
Tony Montana- Scarface
III kinda sucked but Andy Garcia was really hot back then so that makes up for the horrible acting and storyline
"In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women."
Tony Montana- Scarface
Cool Andy
Don’t know Andy. But, I always see him at Staples Center’s during Lakers games. Whenever he walks past I say “Hi Andy” and he always smiles and waves back. Seems like a cool, down to earth guy.
And I kinda liked III just not as much as the first two. It was cool how Andy was the illegitimate son of Sonny who was always screwing around in GF1. Also that Sophia Coppola actually appeared in GF2 as the same character except at 2 years old.
When You Run The Ball Good Things Happen
Thanks For All The Rec's
It’s much appreciated and I meant every word above…PS Watching Godfather 1 this weekend!
When You Run The Ball Good Things Happen
Me too
I’m a fan when we;re winng, or losing Superbowls, or dragging through 6-10 years or being accused of having a QB with poor character or loosing AFCCG’s.
Through it all I’m a fan.
Yesterday, today AND tomorrow: I’m a Steelers fan.
A member of a proud, loyal Nation.
+1 as usual 50
With the 18th pick of the 2010 NFL Draft the Pittsburgh Steelers select Florida QB Tim Tebow. (not a RB!)
by John Stephens on Mar 16, 2010 11:30 AM EDT up reply actions
A man's gotta do
what a man’s gotta do. /cliche
There are many things far more important to me than NFL football and the Steelers. Football is a diversion, a pastime, not an obsession. I know the game pretty well, and the Steelers in particular. I enjoy the history and sense of place inherent in rooting for a team. I enjoy the memories the black and gold conjure.
But I hold the NFL, and the Steelers in particular, to no higher standards than pre-bust Worldcom, Lehman Brothers, Enron or any of the other tarnished corporate nameplates proven unworthy of our trust and worthy only of prison time and massive shame. It’s a bidness, and a big one, and if it fouls itself I’ll look elsewhere for my leisure entertainment.
Extend that to professional sports in general. If you want to talk about love and respect of a game, please give me lower division college sports that don’t lead to ridiculously lucrative careers, huge returns to the schools, and ignorance of education.
My heros have always been Steelers...
My faith has never been in a sport
Maybe that’s why I’m not disappointed.
"A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." - Winston Churchill
by PixburghArn on Mar 12, 2010 9:52 AM EST reply actions 4 recs
You are a wise one Arn
With the 18th pick of the 2010 NFL Draft the Pittsburgh Steelers select Florida QB Tim Tebow. (not a RB!)
by John Stephens on Mar 16, 2010 11:30 AM EDT up reply actions
I listen to the Oracle
"A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." - Winston Churchill
by PixburghArn on Mar 16, 2010 11:34 AM EDT up reply actions
Can you get me some of those fresh baked cookies?
With the 18th pick of the 2010 NFL Draft the Pittsburgh Steelers select Florida QB Tim Tebow. (not a RB!)
by John Stephens on Mar 16, 2010 11:53 AM EDT up reply actions
That's funny she made you some already....
"A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." - Winston Churchill
by PixburghArn on Mar 16, 2010 12:16 PM EDT up reply actions
Because I'm not The One?
With the 18th pick of the 2010 NFL Draft the Pittsburgh Steelers select Florida QB Tim Tebow. (not a RB!)
by John Stephens on Mar 16, 2010 12:22 PM EDT up reply actions
No because she knew you wanted some
"A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." - Winston Churchill
by PixburghArn on Mar 16, 2010 12:31 PM EDT up reply actions
On to hockey season.
I guess the NHL isn’t trying to be like the NFL……..
Steelers football is 60 mins.
NHL
I gave up on the NHL when Winnipeg lost it’s franchise. Moving a small market team because it didn’t fit the NHL overall marketing schemes didn’t do a lot for the fan base here. Now I will cheer for our national teams during the olympic games but that is about it.
NHL players are just as spoiled and protected as those in the NFL.
I may be old but I... oh d*mn, I forgot what I was going to say.
by Cold_Old_Steelers_Fan on Mar 12, 2010 11:12 AM EST up reply actions
I don't want to say what I really feel
lol
Steelers football is 60 mins.
by tannofsteel84 on Mar 12, 2010 2:43 PM EST up reply actions
A matter of perspective
Interesting post. I agree with a lot of what you’ve said. Sometimes I find myself bored with the NFL game, as most teams run similar schemes and the made-for-TV format takes so much of the flow away. The college game is so much more exciting, from both a scheme and purity perspective (I know the college game is not “pure;” I’m just comparing it to the NFL), and I’ve even thought that if there is no NFL in 2011 I’ll just throw myself into watching college ball, go fishing with my son on Sundays and be none the worse for it.
But then I think about how much a part of my life the Steelers are, and of how, since I was 7 years old, my mood on every Sunday in the fall has been determined by whether they won or not, or at least by how well they played, and although it’s probably irrational to stake that much of my sense of happiness on something I have no control over, I’ve come to accept it as part of my reality. The NFL has changed so much over the years but what hasn’t changed is the passion of fan bases, ours in particular, and rational or not I’m infected with that passion. So yes, there are things that have disappointed me about both the NFL and the Steelers, but my advice to you, Carl, is to stay focused on the bigger picture. There will always be some selfish guys who sully the franchise, but the franchise will outlast them. As long as the Rooneys are in control, the Steelers will be a great team and a great franchise to root for. That’s the big-picture truth. The rest is just details. And if you get too caught up in the details you’re bound to be disappointed.
Golf is a contact sport. Football is a collision sport.
by cliff harris is still a punk! on Mar 12, 2010 10:53 AM EST reply actions
So NFL players are supposed to be perfect?
Can I ask if anyone on this board is perfect? Has anyone on this board not been in trouble before in their life?
You’re going to sit up here and tell me that in your entire life you’ve done everything by the book?
If not, then would you expect pro athletes to be this way? And if you think it’s limited to football, you’re just short-sided. It’s in all sports. The society we live in shapes these athletes. It’s not the 70’s or the 80’s anymore.
Everyone on this board listens to music artists who, I guarantee you, have done VERY questionable things in their lives. We watch television shows that are full of people that are truthfully a waste of sperm. But yet athletes are supposed to be better than all of these people. How hypocritical of us.
Don’t take this the wrong way, but I think that’s just a load of bullsh*t.
by StoneColdSteel on Mar 12, 2010 12:12 PM EST reply actions
Where I understand your general league frustrations
I’ll never lose interest in the Steelers. Period.
Bad Andy, Good Pizza.
BAWWWWWWWW
Don’t let the door hit you in the ass on the way out.
Go Steelers! I hate Goodell too but my team is my team till they put me in the cold, hard ground.
wow, the lack of compassion is telling
I feel you, CWM. I think it’s awesome that we have a place like the internet to come and vent our frustrations, in this day and age we need it. I find it hard to disagree with the things you’ve said in this thread. And it’s not just football, the entire world is getting worse (by the second), while many people just continue to make excuses about it. My friends and I have had many a discussion lately regarding these kinds of matters. We are sick to death with the way the world has become (and the attitudes of most of the young, misguided people in it) and all of the police/government corruption, overmarketing of sex and violence, and the community’s virtual acceptance of it. The sad fact is, there’s not much we can do about it. I wish there were, I’d volunteer to help in any way I could. I already counsel young people (as a volunteer through my employer), work with the youth in my church, coach youth baseball, basketball, football and soccer and treat people with respect as much as possible (hard to do on the internet, with all of the trashy potty-mouths – my screen name conveys my feelings about the people on the internet).
All we can do is keep on trying to change the world one person at a time. I keep hoping that all the good things will someday again be important.
Keep the faith, brother.
by CaptainSpaulding on Mar 12, 2010 7:10 PM EST reply actions
+1
tooty f’n fruity
Bad Andy, Good Pizza.
by count'em_six on Mar 12, 2010 9:07 PM EST up reply actions
youre putting too much thought into this
not one of the reasons you mentioned makes it so you can’t enjoy the game anymore. the game is changing now just like it always has. and it will continue to change. just accept it, and you’ll be happy. people often put themselves under the illusion that something needs to change for them to be happy, and that the way it used to be was better. really accepting the present moment is the only way youre going to enjoy something.
I still love the Steelers and even the NFL
But, as the title suggests, I’m migrating away from it. No one expects athletes to be perfect, but with all of our imperfections most of us are not criminals. The Steelers were never a perfect franchise, but I always thought they were just a teensy bit more respectable than most other franchises.
In fact, the wonderful folks here at BTSC have done a lot to keep me interested: despite the anonymity of the internet, most posters here are intelligent, respectful, and passionate about the sport and the team. I would like to include myself in that group, and my only point is to say that recent events (last several years) are lessening that third component.
by CarlWeathersMustache on Mar 13, 2010 11:01 AM EST reply actions
I Think
the Steelers are a teensy bit more respectable than the others Carl. Great post and we look forward to hearing from you once in a while until July.
When You Run The Ball Good Things Happen
Agreed
There’s still things that separate the Steelers from other franchises, but I’d agree that sometimes I get irritated wishing that football was “pure” again.
But I have a feeling it never was. Just nostalgia being more powerful as time goes on. The rules do have to change to protect players because they are becoming more powerful. For as mean and ruthless as some of the 70’s defenders were they did not have the same power and athletic ability that we’re seeing these days. Sometimes Goodell goes way to far in his judgements but protection is a good thing.
Also for all that we worry about the offensive trends of the league we seem to forget that just last year the Steelers defense was near legendary. Just outstanding and most offenses were unable to do anything against them. There’s still space in this league for great defense.
All in all though I totally get your feelings CarlWeathers. Sometimes I wish I could step back and be a more casual fan again. That way I don’t get so aggravated by Ben’s idiocy or the leagues silly decisions. But, I’m currently hooked. We’ll see if that changes as my life progresses.
by Chicago Steeler on Mar 14, 2010 12:48 PM EDT up reply actions
If you lose the faith in your team,
then I have to question just how much of a fan you were in the first place.
Just my humble opinion.
Self-praise is for losers. Be a winner. Stand for something. Always have class, and be humble.-- John Madden
by steelcitysweetheart on Mar 13, 2010 11:50 AM EST reply actions
yeah that is what i thought in the first place.
probably some old cleveland fan.. jumped on the steelers bandwagon.. and now cleveland is starting to look respectable with all their decent signings and new bosses. still same old poop brown though.
Staying a Steeler Fan. Not 1 player is going to change that. Steeler name will outlast Ben’s. No one is indispensible. If you dont work hard, play hard on the field on Sunday. you’ll be gone
It's OK to admit that the NFL has begun to seriously suck.
I love the Steelers but I’m wondering how much longer it will take before pro football has about as much consistency as the 75-cent bread at Wal-Mart.
I'm alright with you wanting to stand on your principles and stop watching
But where the hell did this come from?
Four of the Steelers Super Bowls are tainted with the possible “cheating” of steroidsHonestly you just sound like some guy who thinks he’s better than everyone else.
by SteelerFan Ben on Mar 16, 2010 1:01 PM EDT reply actions 1 recs
Excellent
"A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." - Winston Churchill
Yeah really
That sounds exactly like what cheatriots fans say whenever a Steeler fan brings up spygate.
“No competitive advantage was gained!” That is their chief argument, but followed up with “The Steelers cheated all through the ’70’s with steroids.” They deny, and justify in two sentences…F**kers…
"OOH! A piece of candy. OOH! A piece of candy."
-James Woods

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