When You're a Die-hard Steelers Fan, it's More than "Just a Game"
Of all the places to have to sit through a game as emotionally draining as the Steelers heartbreaking overtime loss in Denver Sunday night, a bowling alley would rank up there as one of the last places I'd want to view such a contest.
Well, unfortunately, because of my love for bowling as well as my loyalty to my bowling team, there I was trying to concentrate on helping my team win, while at the same time, rushing over to the television in-between turns to see if the Steelers could pull out a pulsating victory in a game I thought they would have had in the bag by the time I rolled my first ball at 7pm.
When Tim Tebow continued his improbable 2011 season with an 80-yard touchdown pass on the first play in overtime, and the harsh reality had set in for me, I looked like I had lost my best friend. The reason why I know this is because my bowling teammates kept reminding me of it time and time again as they tried to get me to "snap out of it." I wasn't in any hurry to snap out of it. I wanted to wallow in my misery. I had just witnessed one of the most disappointing losses in my team's history. My teammates were sort of making light of my demeanor, and of course, said what a lot of people who don't really "get it" say in that situation--"it's only a game, Tony."
I really enjoy bowling, and my teammates are some of my favorite people that I know, but Sunday night, sitting there with them as I tried to finish out my three games, I wasn't very happy with them at all.
I knew where they were coming from on a rational level, don't be me wrong, and at the end of the day I do realize that it's "just a game," and there are way more important things in the world than worrying about the win/loss record of a team that I have no real association with, but that doesn't mean that it's not important, at least to me.
Our very own Maryrose has said on more than one occasion that the Pittsburgh Steelers may not be necessary to our everyday lives, but that doesn't mean they're not important to the people that follow and care about them.
If you've ever been a die-hard fan of any team from any sport, you get what Steelers fans will be feeling for the next few days, and maybe even weeks.
As a lifelong Steelers fan, I can sympathize with fans of other teams when they experience the same feelings. As irritating as I think Mr. Malor can be at times, I knew how hard it must have been for him last year when he came over to BTSC and congratulated the Steelers fans for their team's exciting playoff victory over his Ravens that night. I could sympathize with the numbness and disbelief that he was probably feeling at that moment, because I've been there as a fan; all die-hard fans know what it's like. The teams and sports that we follow may be different, but the feelings are the same. If you have a vested interest in a team, you "get it." If you don't care about sports, you never really will.
Pittsburgh sports personality Stan Savran "gets it," and that's why he's always been one of my favorites. He, too, understands that sports teams aren't exactly necessary, but they sure are important, and the shows he does following a heartbreaking loss are always great. Back in 1992, the day after the Pirates lost the NLCS in a very gut-wrenching way to the Atlanta Braves in Game 7, his Sportsbeat call-in show that he co-hosted with Guy Junker was an hour-long therapy session, and heartbroken fans like me needed every second of it. And his radio show yesterday morning, dedicated totally to the Steelers loss Sunday night, was no exception. As I listened to Steelers fans call in to express their anger and sorrow, it brought me a little comfort.
Losing in any round of the playoffs is just so final, but the first round is especially hard to take, and that's why I don't get the sentiment that so many people have that they'd rather not see the Steelers make the Super Bowl if they're going to make it and lose. Sitting here right now, knowing how the 2011 season just ended, that Super Bowl XLV loss looks a lot better.
And that's why I think a playoff run is so important, regardless of the ultimate outcome. Sunday night, after Hampton, Keisel and Starks added to the season-long epidemic and left the Denver game with serious injuries, there was no logical reason to expect that a win over the Broncos would mean anything more than delaying the disappointment for another week until the team got destroyed in New England next Saturday night. But a playoff win would have brought another week of anticipation and hope. Another week to celebrate and cheer on the Steelers. Like my very dejected brother told me Sunday night, "hey, the 8-8 Broncos beat us, didn't they? Who's to say we couldn't have defeated the Patriots, even with all of our injuries? As we just found out, you never know what can happen."
Playoff runs are very important for the fans, regardless of the odds that our teams face. That's why we all celebrate the '89 Steelers team so much. Looking back on it, that wasn't a Super Bowl team, but the joy everyone felt when they defeated the Oilers in overtime was very real and has lasted for over two-decades.
I don't know why we're so emotionally invested in our teams, but I've talked to enough sane and rational people to know that there is nothing wrong with it, at least for a little while. If I'm sitting here a month from now still feeling depressed over the Steelers overtime loss, maybe I should seek some counseling and reevaluate my priorities. but I know I won't be. As silly as it sounds, I just need a little time to grieve.
I'm kind of glad I feel the way I do right now. There's a saying that without villains in the world, there would be no heroes. Well, as a die-hard sports fan, you need to experience the ultimate lows because it makes the ultimate highs that much sweeter.
That's why I went nuts when the Steelers came from behind and defeated the Ravens in the playoffs last year. If I didn't know how the alternative would feel, it wouldn't have meant as much. Sunday night, unfortunately, I got a huge dose of the alternative.
So, with all due respect to my bowling teammates who simply did not "get it," allow me to borrow another Maryrose phrase and give it a negative twist: Right now, the air doesn't smell as fresh, my food doesn't taste as good, and I could care less about how well I bowled Sunday evening.
I would trade a night's worth of gutter balls for a Steelers playoff victory any day of the week.
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Aces.
It’s like you read my mind Tony! (please don’t compose all of the other stuff you saw when you were doing it… lol)
HERE WE GO STEELERS!
"Our Father, who art in Pittsburgh, Football be thy game. Thy Kingdom come, thy will be done, at Heinz Field as it is in Heaven. Give us this day, a stellar D and forgive us our bogus fines, as we (sorta) forgive Goodell who trespasses against us. And lead us not into defeat, but deliver us a Victory. For thine is The Steelers, the power and glory of climbing the STAIRWAY TO 7."
I'll try not to. That could be scary. :)
by Anthony Defeo on Jan 10, 2012 7:57 AM EST up reply actions
That’s true…lol
HERE WE GO STEELERS!
"Our Father, who art in Pittsburgh, Football be thy game. Thy Kingdom come, thy will be done, at Heinz Field as it is in Heaven. Give us this day, a stellar D and forgive us our bogus fines, as we (sorta) forgive Goodell who trespasses against us. And lead us not into defeat, but deliver us a Victory. For thine is The Steelers, the power and glory of climbing the STAIRWAY TO 7."
I will say this though
Losing any game is a traumatic experience for the diehards of Steeler Nation. It physically, spiritually and emotionally hurts, especially in the playoffs. It literally took me 2 weeks to even begin to recover from the SB loss last year. It took time and effort to see anything as “half full”.
This year though and especially in the last 4 games of the regular season, I found myself more concerned for safety for my Steelers than I was with posting the W. I listened to all of the bobble-heads talk about the Steelers “limping into the home-stretch” and did they have enough to even get through the regular season. Well limp they did and all the while, never giving up. Grit, guts and sheer determination.
Yes, we lost a playoff game to the 8-8 Broncos. Somehow, I don’t feel as badly about them losing as I am grateful for putting out there for the world to see, exactly WHY Steeler Nation and its’ conglomerate of fans from all walks of life and all corners of the globe back this team. Their heart and belief in each other. Team.
I heart the Steelers and I ain’t afraid to show it.
HERE WE GO STEELERS!
"Our Father, who art in Pittsburgh, Football be thy game. Thy Kingdom come, thy will be done, at Heinz Field as it is in Heaven. Give us this day, a stellar D and forgive us our bogus fines, as we (sorta) forgive Goodell who trespasses against us. And lead us not into defeat, but deliver us a Victory. For thine is The Steelers, the power and glory of climbing the STAIRWAY TO 7."
This.
I was incredibly grateful for the heart and determination the guys brought, but I was afraid of what might happen if they kept going. Is there anybody on the team at this point that won’t be having surgery in the near future? About the time that Keisel had to come out of the game I started to feel like “just make it stop.” I want them healed up, rested up, and ready to go next fall, because this just wasn’t our year in the end.
"If you're not getting better, I don't care what business you're in, you're a dead man. I try to look critically at the mistakes that I make and try to learn from them, like our team does." - Mike Tomlin
by Rebecca Rollett on Jan 10, 2012 8:18 AM EST up reply actions
That is what I was thinking also
Just wanted nothing major to happen to anyone else that would exclude them from training camp. Let everyone get their injuries corrected and healed up for mini camps, or at the latest training camp and come back healthy and strong this upcoming season. Maybe the whole team plays with a bigger chip on its shoulder and shows the NFL what a healthy Steelers team can do.
Things can always be worse....
That is why
I have been saying that the conditioning of these players needs to be addressed. There is something very wrong when the only position that didn’t miss time was the place kicker.
For all of the good that did.
Agree with Rebecca Rollett
I was just numb during the game. I could not get excited or angry. I just didn’t feel that we were ever in the game. That was not the Ben that we know. I think that we totally misused him this year by playing him when he physically could not perform up to standard. As an older man, I can tell him that when he reaches the age of 40+, he will start to feel the effects of those injuries – especially in his joints. I am not happy with Tomlin and Management for doing that. I had stated before the Houston game that we should have been preparing our backups (especially) Dixon to be “game ready”. I received a lot of flack for that. Ben had been taking a beating early into the season. We prepared a lot of our DB’s and LB’s, but did not do the same for our QB’s. If we felt that Dixon was not the man, we should have cut him (if the salary cap could handle it) and picked up one of the many veterans who were available. If not, then we should have found some way to infuse him into the offense to keep him game ready. I also think that a lot of the players did not prepare themselves while the “lockout” was in effect. We also kept a few vets (for sentimental reasons) when we knew that they had nothing left in the tank (Smith, Casey, Hoke). In my opinion Charley did not have too much to offer either. My critics can opine as much as they want, but the proof is right in their face after all was said and done. Management made a lot of mistakes this season as well as the poor play of our Offensive line. And yes, coach LeBeau can also be added to that list because he failed to adapt to many offenses who “ate us alive” with medium range passes and tight ends who dominated us. Hood was ineffective on many occasions and Casey was ineffective as well as out of shape the entire year.
I felt we were in it for the first two series
but the wheels started to fall off when Casey and Keisel got injured.
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by Cold_Old_Steelers_Fan on Jan 11, 2012 12:03 AM EST up reply actions
Lots of good points, Allen.
The entire Steeler organization has made plenty of mistakes during the past year, starting with last February’s SB, where our own gaffes handed Green Bay enough points to beat us. But when your team isn’t prepared to compete at playoff time (as the Steelers clearly were not in Denver), that’s a major failure.
I feel bad for the team because of how dismally their season ended. But on the other hand, we made our own beds by failing to do the things necessary for a realistic shot at a championship. This is a transition point where the FO’s mettle will be tested again. There have been clear signs this season that this team is starting to stray from its core principles. Hopefully, a major dose of Rooney activism during the off-season will get us back on track. After all, the main reason we’ve had such a great team to support for so many years is because of the Rooneys and how they operate their organization.
Thanks
I would like to say that Keisel gave his all this season – in every game. Harrison despite his suspension (and injury) played well. They pushed him into hitting low and he still disabled an opposition receiver in the Denver game. He is a beast. Hope that he adapts to the new rules. He can be effective without hitting because it usually takes 2 men to keep him from the QB. He was held so many times this year that it was ridiculous. I thought that Troy played well also. Sometimes he was out of position because he had to compensate for the weaknesses of our DB’s. I do think that the DB’s improved a lot this year. With the right draft choices and maybe 1 FA OL (and QB if we cut Dixon) signing this team has enough talent to go all the way next year. We badly need an OG and NT. But the players will have to stay focused and in shape during the off season.
You're right about Keisel, he was exceptional.
And Deebo was very good considering the back issue and the broken eye socket. I truly believe that Ike was trying to overcompensate for the absence of Ryan Clark and the altitude in Denver probably didn’t help either. Taylor was rock solid all year; this game was just a very weird fiasco.
well said
People don't ever seem to realize that doing what's right is no guarantee against misfortune.
- William McFee
by stillergorillar on Jan 10, 2012 10:28 AM EST via iPhone app up reply actions
TOLD YA THESE BUMS WOULD BLOW IT..
IM SHOCKED THEY WON MORE THAN THREE GAMES THIS YEAR. OVERPAID PATHETIC POSERS.
In Communist China and Russia, you have 1 choice of "Kool Aid": RED
In America, you have 2 choices of "Kool Aid": RED (republican), AND BLUE (democrat)
The difference is, in China and Russia THEY KNOW IT’S KOOL AID.
You don't judge a team by the outcome of one season (or one game).
I’m old enough to remember the 1960s Steeler teams, and I know that the word “bums” shouldn’t be thrown around casually, but reserved for teams that truly suck as the ‘60s Steelers did. Anyway, no team goes from earning a SB berth to bums" in one year’s time.
Thank You
for putting into words what i cant explain to my wife, friends and co-workers. People expect to be able to talk to me about the game on the day after, and dont understand why i dont want to talk about it.
by indianasteelers on Jan 10, 2012 9:18 AM EST reply actions
Emotional roller coaster
Leading up to the game I was so excited, Isaac Redman was getting his first NFL start, and it was in a playoff game! Was so looking forward to him doing well.
Denver wins the game on the first play in overtime. I’m sitting there in semi-shock, as the abrupt realization that our season has just ended, seemed to drain everything except the essence, right out of my body.
Life go on though. Apparently Max and Casey tore their ACLs. Better add a tackle to our draft needs.
If it weren’t for the bitter, you wouldn’t recognize the sweet.
"They timed it perfectly, they just went too soon." - Darrell Waltrip commenting on an illegal restart.
on an up note...
Redman manned up and had a great game running the ball….happy he got a chance to shine
We've got heads on sticks...
by Kid-A on Jan 10, 2012 10:00 AM EST via mobile up reply actions
There's that silver lining
but the clouds still really suck.
Bound to cover just a little more ground.
Hampton
He has always battled weight and conditioning issues. The ACL surgery on a body like that often means they will need a full year, and he may never be the player he was. I know this sounds blunt, but if I’m the Steelers, I move on from Hampton, just as we need to do with Smith.
At tackle we still have Gilbert, Scott, and Colon, so that need doesn’t seem any worse than Guard.
by ballparkfranks on Jan 10, 2012 12:27 PM EST up reply actions
Colon
is fragile and not really that good anyway.
Our entire O-line is fragile
Wouldn’t it be nice to have a few of those guys that play 3 or 4 seasons without missing a game. I hear about them on other teams, but the Steelers should haven’t had them.
by ballparkfranks on Jan 10, 2012 4:37 PM EST up reply actions
Colon is hurt too damn much.
Could it be that he is not getting proper conditioning in the off season. We need to renegotiate his contract if possible. Two years in a row, he did not play
We could make a pretty nice list of "hurt too much" players.
Overall player conditioning has declined in recent years—particularly among the younger players.
yeap
and part of this has to do with the new contract and what these guys do in the preseason and during the season. I have a friend who is on the medical staff and I go to camp almost every year. They dont half the drills they used to do and dont even do Oklahoma’s anymore.
I think Hampton injury is going to be a major factor in the drafting of the steelers. I think they almost have to draft a top NT in the first or second round,. Hoke is done, and Hampton will take a full year to recover, especially with his weight.
Good post
This loss hurt, but it wasn’t completely unexpected as the game played out. During the first quarter, when Hampton and Keisel went out and the offense should have produced more than a 6-0 lead, I had an ominous feeling. Never thought the Broncos would put up a 20 spot and Tebow would hit on so many long passes. As I’ve said before, the mounting injuries topped off after the final game, felt like it would be a tremendous uphill climb. The 2005 Steelers were a much healthier team compared with this group.
Gut wrenching losses are tough in the playoffs, and the ones which stand out to me are the following: 1976 versus Oakland, 1982 & 1995 versus San Diego, 2001& 2004 versus New England, 2002 versus Tennessee, and 2007 versus Jacksonville.
One thing which tempers the disappointment is all the incredible success this franchise has had over the last 40 years. If the Steelers were like 90% of the rest of the NFL it would hurt more. If you’re a Steelers fan which has experienced the winning since 1972, I think it helps in terms of the big picture. If you know the Steelers struggled big time for decades before the 70s, it helps as well. I’m very optimistic about the future, teams like Denver, you just don’t know. Inconsistent passers have a tough time making a Super Bowl.
The Pirates are kind of like the reverse of the Steelers. 90% of the 20th century saw many successful teams, and several world titles. If you experienced the great decade of the 70s, that makes it a little easier to get through the post-1992 losing. Many current MLB franchises historically still haven’t achieved what the Bucs did in that decade. You couldn’t pay me enough to be a Rangers, Astros, or Brewers fan. For me, the 1972 NLCS loss to Cincinnati hurt more than 1992, since the Bucs were defending World Champs.
Penguins mostly struggled until the late 80s, but it’s been mostly successful since then.
If you’re a Pens fan who experienced the 1975 & 1982 Islander and 1981 St. Louis gut wrenching playoff defeats, that made the back to back Cups even more satisfying.
MORE THAN JUST A GAME
Well its day two i guess it has soaked in we are out of the playoffs my heart goes out to steeler nation and the MEN who played in the game hold your head up nation after everything we went through this season we still went 12-4 just wasnt in the cards for us this year so now its time to get healthy in the off season we are STEELER NATION and i will wear my BLACK N GOLD with pride the loss hurts but it just gives us fire to come back next year and show them wat its all about to be STEELER NATION
Steeler Nation is a Religion
Some people do not get it. My boss asked me on Monday, now that the Steelers are out, “who is my B team to root for?”
What, Steeler Fans do not have a 2nd team. Only those teams that play the Pats, Cowboys and 49ers and possibly the Packers. Do not want them to win another SB.
If you were a diehard Democrat or Republican would you switch parties, because your candidate lost, no. Would you change religions, no.
There are 2 types of seasons, either the Steelers win the Super Bowl or you are rebuilding to win another. We set high expectations and we get there more often than others.
The Standard is the Standard.
by Steeler Nation VA on Jan 10, 2012 10:53 AM EST reply actions
1981
Slightly Steelers related topic here. At Midnight, NFL Network is replaying a three hour game version of the 1981 49ers-Cowboys NFC Title Game. Dwaine Board was a key defensive lineman for the Niners, who was strangely waived by the Steelers.
by SteelStealth on Jan 10, 2012 11:42 AM EST up reply actions
Great Piece
I think this piece is the best I have ever read in capturing the emotions (not fully rational admittedly) that are attached to being a serious Steelers fan. This loss for me was the hardest since the Pats playoff loss in the year Pitt was 15-1 in the regular season. That said, I sent Ike Taylor’s website an encouraging email and that made me feel somewhat better and I suspect that I will be a completely normal (more or less) person again within a few days.
BTW-Pitt should be in the serious hunt for Super Bowl runs for at least the next 3-5 years. Thanks again for a fantastic article!
Agreed
The reality is the Steelers should be continue to be serious contenders, while making the adjustments all consistent winners have to do.
If you’re a fan of a team like Denver, they’ve been mediocre the last several years, so this season is like catching magic in a bottle. Tebow’s long term future is unknown, the Pats are capable of blowing out the Broncos again this week. Steelers get another shot at the Broncos next season at Heinz Field.
by SteelStealth on Jan 10, 2012 11:31 AM EST up reply actions
Only Disagree on one thing...
I would not call Sunday’s game one of the most disappointing losses in our team’s history. I don’t know if it makes the top 10 for me and I’ve only been watching since 1991. Embarrassing? Maybe, but it wasn’t an AFC Title game or Super Bowl. It was also a road game, which are always tough. For me, the worst losses I’ve had to endure were 94 AFCCG, 01 AFCCG, 04 AFCCG, 95 SB, 10 SB. I would also put 97 AFCCG, 93 WC (at KC), 92 DIV (vs. Buf) and that debacle in Tennessee (02 DIV). I don’t know…I didn’t have huge expectations with how our season ended. Still hurts but I didn’t think we were on our way to winning a title.
~Tommy~
Tough Tough Tough
I have yet to turn on ESPN bcuz i cannot even imagine the tebow madness that is going on there right now and my favorite show first take is not even possible for me to watch because skip bayless probably dedicated the whole show to flipping tebow. It’s just frustrating to me who yes i have no affiliation with the pittsburgh steelers personally, but my mood in a lot of ways is devoted to how the team is doing and how theyve been playing. I wouldve been in a fantastic mood all week if we couldve won but when people look at me i probably look like i just lost a grandparent or my best friend. I know we had a lot of injuries and thats not an excuse either but i just didnt think OUR beloved steelers would lose in the first round. I have a lot of respect for that kid tebow but man does it still make me sick to my stomach thinking about that stiff arm to ike. Im suprised my phone still works after as hard as i threw it at the ground. ( Thanks Otterbox)
This ranks up there as one of the worst losses in my young 21 year old life. The others being the super bowl last year, 2004 to NEW ENGLAND and that flipping bullshit game in OT to Air Mcnair in 2002. when they called that roughing the kicker penalty and that asshole kicker Del greco( i believe) bragged about his acting job in the press conference.
Being a fan has its ups and downs and maybe i get “into” it too much but i love my steelers just as much as i love anything. And this one was definitely a hard one to swallow.
In Myron we Trust
by SteelTownKid08 on Jan 10, 2012 12:32 PM EST reply actions
Thank you for this Tony
you do a great job of capturing a feel and you are very astute in your assertion that we need time to grieve. I will be over it soon, but for now I am a bit grumpy and don’t feel like having Browns fans tell me how I ought to feel right now. Like any of them can even remember the playoffs…
Good thing I have Skyrim to keep me busy, 165hrs in and still just putting a dent in it. Talk about your entertainment dollar, this was worth the cash! ;-)
"My mentality is singular in that I want to be world champs each and every year, so that's what we work toward. I have a tough time acknowledging levels of success short of that. That's just how I'm wired." - Mike Tomlin
I haven't been playing much lately
Just before Xmas I picked up the KOTOR online and Paradox was selling their entire catalog for $75 so I got that as well (Paradox is great for grognard style games). To make things worse my kids have been on the gaming pc most of the time. The older PC (4.5yr old) can’t handle the games I play. The gaming PC barely manages some of them (big number crunchers) so I have to wait for my openings.
anyone trying to contact me via my yahoo account should be aware it has been hacked
by Cold_Old_Steelers_Fan on Jan 11, 2012 12:11 AM EST up reply actions
LOL, damn kids!
I have been thinking about that lately. My home computer is about 6 years old and I upgraded everything I could and it runs fine, but is way outdated. Been thinking my next one may be Alien Ware, but for the most part I am a console player, not a PC gamer, so I am not sure I will use all that power if I buy it. Delimas, delimas. My son is 5.5yo right now, so he is just getting into things with his DS, but he does want to participate on the PS3, so my days are numbered…
"My mentality is singular in that I want to be world champs each and every year, so that's what we work toward. I have a tough time acknowledging levels of success short of that. That's just how I'm wired." - Mike Tomlin
by MDSTEELERSFAN on Jan 11, 2012 8:42 AM EST up reply actions
Alien Ware are good computers...
…but waaaay over priced. Look around for a (non-chain) computer shop and see what kind of deals you can get for a gaming computer. Over here on the other side of the Potomac, I went to Pegasus Computers.
I did that last spring, got a gaming capable PC (Crysis 2, Skyrim run like a dream on it) for under $700; spent $160 on an HD monitor, and loving every minute of it.
United we Stand, melded like Steel
To Roger Goodell, We'll never Yield.
That is some damn good pricing PaVa!
"My mentality is singular in that I want to be world champs each and every year, so that's what we work toward. I have a tough time acknowledging levels of success short of that. That's just how I'm wired." - Mike Tomlin
by MDSTEELERSFAN on Jan 11, 2012 9:45 AM EST up reply actions
My gaming pc was from a local outlet as well
PC prices in Winnipeg are outrageous compared to places like Toronto or Vancouver. It is too far to just drive over to the nearest big city (Mpls/St Paul) to look for a better deal (not to mention the hassle of crossing the border these days).
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by Cold_Old_Steelers_Fan on Jan 11, 2012 9:56 AM EST up reply actions
excellent post
I especially love this:
“I’m kind of glad I feel the way I do right now. There’s a saying that without villains in the world, there would be no heroes. Well, as a die-hard sports fan, you need to experience the ultimate lows because it makes the ultimate highs that much sweeter.”
Thank you Steelers for a great season, I wish there could’ve been more, but I’m looking forward to next year.
Get a life people!
Though I love football, I find it silly to attach ones self worth based on whether your team wins or not.
All too often, sports fans project their own identity on their teams.
The get real..how many Steelers are hometown boys? The Steelers are just a corporate brand based in Pittsburgh, If losing a football game sends you into a spiral of depression, than maybe you should find a hobby or something.
I think the gist is that it means something to us as fans. We feel the loss, physically and emotionally. No, most of us aren’t in some “depression” or unable to cope. But it sucks when we lose (and yes I used the term “we”). Also, for a lot of us real life can be extremely difficult and having sports as an outlet is a huge release.
~Tommy~
Speaking of getting a life, troll...
You sign up for BTSC just to make this comment?? . This is the best you have going for you? What a sad & hypocritical life you must lead…I truly feel sorry for you.
"We have met the enemy and he is us" - Pogo (1970)
+92
HERE WE GO STEELERS!
"Our Father, who art in Pittsburgh, Football be thy game. Thy Kingdom come, thy will be done, at Heinz Field as it is in Heaven. Give us this day, a stellar D and forgive us our bogus fines, as we (sorta) forgive Goodell who trespasses against us. And lead us not into defeat, but deliver us a Victory. For thine is The Steelers, the power and glory of climbing the STAIRWAY TO 7."
Nah, doesn't have quite the same ring to it - lol
United we Stand, melded like Steel
To Roger Goodell, We'll never Yield.
Just as true though
HERE WE GO STEELERS!
"Our Father, who art in Pittsburgh, Football be thy game. Thy Kingdom come, thy will be done, at Heinz Field as it is in Heaven. Give us this day, a stellar D and forgive us our bogus fines, as we (sorta) forgive Goodell who trespasses against us. And lead us not into defeat, but deliver us a Victory. For thine is The Steelers, the power and glory of climbing the STAIRWAY TO 7."
Rusty Trombone, now he is such an ass.
"Leave the gun. Bring the Canolis."
Imagine that - this is your one and only post
Must be nice to be you, being God and all. Do you have any more commandments dear lord?
"My mentality is singular in that I want to be world champs each and every year, so that's what we work toward. I have a tough time acknowledging levels of success short of that. That's just how I'm wired." - Mike Tomlin
by MDSTEELERSFAN on Jan 11, 2012 8:44 AM EST up reply actions
My bad
For intruding on your group therapy session.
I think many of you set yourselves up for this bummer by ASSuming that the Steelers were just gonna waltz into Denver and make them a mere speedbump for your road to New England. Unfortunately for you, Tebow and Co. ad other plans.
.
What strikes me here is how Steelers fans here seem to think their fandom is on a deeper level than fans of other NFL teams..more “special”. No doubt the Steelers “storied” history is the root of this perception.
Hopefully y’all will just buck up and move on instead of doing the “woe is me” dance like some school girl who got jilted on prom night.
by Rusty Fluke on Jan 11, 2012 11:27 AM EST up reply actions
You're right, regardless of how our team and their team has performed over the year, we should have been assuming a loss going into this game, where do we get off?
The reason we seem to think our fandom is deeper is because of well – You. Steeler haters are so passionately against us that they have to share their sorry state and come tracking their drivel though our living rooms – you prove to us why we have a higher standard and why we love our team. You just reinforce all that you are here to try and denigrate, showing just how foolish you are. We are all fools for caring about the wins and losses, yet here you are – the “who” that just can’t walk past without getting in a kick to the guy on the floor. Trust me, we will take all of your fabulous insight and look to lead more productive lives, for you have shown us the light. Thank you for illuminating the error of our ways exalted one. What would we have done with our miserable lives had you not shown up? How was I ever going to find my way out of the darkness? Thanks for all you have done for us Rusty, really, from the heart of my bottom.
"My mentality is singular in that I want to be world champs each and every year, so that's what we work toward. I have a tough time acknowledging levels of success short of that. That's just how I'm wired." - Mike Tomlin
by MDSTEELERSFAN on Jan 11, 2012 12:52 PM EST up reply actions
So, your fandom includes a persecution complex.
Fandom in many ways is like infatuation, and those under that particular spell often feel that their feelings are on a deeper level than anyone else. Much like the “nobody has ever loved anyone like I love you” sentiment heard in soft rock ballads. But at the end of the day, such odes are self indulgent pap.
I hate to bust your bubble, Hoss…but Steeler fans are no more special than the fans of the other NFL teams. When someone is in pain over some disappointment, the impulse is to think that their pain is exceptional in the realm of human experience.
Here is a dose of reality. Last weekend, there were fans of three other teams who felt as bad as you and your homies after losing..this upcoming week, there will be fans of four teams who will feel just like you do now.
The best part
is that you felt such a strong urge to join the blog just to share your “wisdom” and “knowledge” Thanks!
This is the problem with the Flacco hate, people don’t really know who he is as a person. - Mr. Malor. Crazy Raven fan/possible stalker.
oh, to be clear, the reason that’s the best part, is because you mentioned “self indulgent pap”
Surely someone as wise as you can see the humor in that.
This is the problem with the Flacco hate, people don’t really know who he is as a person. - Mr. Malor. Crazy Raven fan/possible stalker.
Wait.. you mean
Steeler fans aren’t better than everyone?? Oh I don’t know… I have a picture that says “Steeler Nation: We’re better than you.” I think I’m gonna go ahead and believe that. Hasn’t been wrong for 47 years… I don’t anticipate it being wrong for the next 47.
HERE WE GO STEELERS!
"Our Father, who art in Pittsburgh, Football be thy game. Thy Kingdom come, thy will be done, at Heinz Field as it is in Heaven. Give us this day, a stellar D and forgive us our bogus fines, as we (sorta) forgive Goodell who trespasses against us. And lead us not into defeat, but deliver us a Victory. For thine is The Steelers, the power and glory of climbing the STAIRWAY TO 7."
Rusty...
…you might have a point.
On a micro level, between two individuals, or on a macro level, being part of a family, when the person feels deep emotion, is ensconsed within an enviornment of mutual love, respect, interests and desires, that person feels special. When everyone in such a state of emotion, be it the couple, or the many in a family, feel special themselves, they project that feeling of specialness to everone involved. They think their relationship, or their family is special because it makes them, the individual, feel that way. Of course, other couples, or families, feel the same for their situation, and more power to them. Their happiness and feeling of uniquieness in no way diminishes ours, nor ours, theirs.
Steeler Nation is such a family, and we don’t derive our pleasure at the expense of other fan bases, nor do we bedgrudge their feelings of uniquieness.
Its the out-liers, the outsiders if you will, those with no group or affliliation, that experience jealousy of those who do belong to a group, that feel the emptiness within them from not being involved in something that is greather than the sum of its parts. And carrying around such emptiness makes them bitter, and the only way to live with themselves is for that person to demean those that have what that person wants.
Which is what you are doing here. You’re welcome to visit, and to comment as you wish, within the bounds of civility. But we know what drives you, and if we care, its only to the level of pitying you for your misery. If you joined because you are seeking comradery, welcome. If you joined because you wish to feel better about yourself by trying to tear us down, don’t bother, for nothing you can say will change what we feel about ourselves, our team, or Steeler Nation.
United we Stand, melded like Steel
To Roger Goodell, We'll never Yield.
Well said PVS
"My mentality is singular in that I want to be world champs each and every year, so that's what we work toward. I have a tough time acknowledging levels of success short of that. That's just how I'm wired." - Mike Tomlin
by MDSTEELERSFAN on Jan 12, 2012 9:52 AM EST up reply actions
You just don't get it
We are all fine here, not living in special little snow domes in LaLa land. We are from all walks of life and have a common thread here. We think, read, share, argue, compliment, strive, suggest, support, pretty much all of the things you do in an extended family. I make no apologies for making you uncomfortable in your skin, because we are all fine here.
Do you really think we believe at our core that we have a different NFL experience from other fans? Who is in LaLa land now? But there is one thing that we have different from all the other fans, we are STEELER fans, and that IS a unique experience. Just as tailgating and eating BBQ at Arrowhead would be unique to the Chiefs, or tailgating with Jim Kelly is unique to the Bills. We have our own unique experiences as Steeler fans and part of that is “know it all’s” like you that feel the need to stop by on the rare occasion that our team falters. You just can’t see the forest for the trees, you are reaching way to hard. You being here says a lot more about you than it does us – think about it.
"My mentality is singular in that I want to be world champs each and every year, so that's what we work toward. I have a tough time acknowledging levels of success short of that. That's just how I'm wired." - Mike Tomlin
by MDSTEELERSFAN on Jan 12, 2012 10:11 AM EST up reply actions
Just holding up a mirror
no attempts at anything else. Move along now, nothing to see here…
"My mentality is singular in that I want to be world champs each and every year, so that's what we work toward. I have a tough time acknowledging levels of success short of that. That's just how I'm wired." - Mike Tomlin
by MDSTEELERSFAN on Jan 13, 2012 9:14 AM EST up reply actions
Rusty, maybe we just think we're special because we've had way more special moments throughout the last four decades than most NFL fans.
The Steelers have been special moment capable for a very long time.
Anyway, I have a lot of good things going on in my life, so I think a healthy love for a football team is not the worst habit one can have.
by Anthony Defeo on Jan 12, 2012 5:54 PM EST up reply actions
Special moments
Indeed, the Steelers did have a “special moment” in last weeks game..being on the ass end of a play that will go down on NFL lore as one of the greats ( Tebow to Thomas for 80 yards in the opening play of OT)..a play that all week has been dissected and analyzed by commentators and will be spoke of in reverent tones in NFL films…the stuff of gridiron legend.
When a man resorts to immature insults...
it means he has little else of import to say..
We may have witnessed a watershed moment for Tim Tebow
Like Joe Montana winning against the Cowboys in 1981 with “the Catch”
History, my dear fellows.
by Rusty Fluke on Jan 13, 2012 12:18 PM EST up reply actions
Given the thread of conversation....
…you instigated, and continued, and its lack of content therein, you are correct; there is little else of import to say.
United we Stand, melded like Steel
To Roger Goodell, We'll never Yield.
If that is truly the case..
Then why have you and your fellow Steel heads have spent so much time replying to my post.?
That's comical
Things like that only matter en route to a SB… The Bronco’s have taken their last step in that direction.
"My mentality is singular in that I want to be world champs each and every year, so that's what we work toward. I have a tough time acknowledging levels of success short of that. That's just how I'm wired." - Mike Tomlin
by MDSTEELERSFAN on Jan 13, 2012 6:14 PM EST up reply actions
Who
is this mysterious “they” you speak of?
by Rusty Fluke on Jan 13, 2012 12:18 PM EST up reply actions
This is precisely on point.
My love for the Steelers is illogical and hard for some of the people in my life to understand, even the other Steelers fans. To be honest, I don’t really understand it myself.
I’m not a sports guy at all. I don’t follow any other sport and I only halfheartedly follow one or two other teams in the NFL. Living in New York at the moment, I’ve tried to fall in with the Giants or the Jets, but it just doesn’t hold the same sway. There is simply something about this team that speaks to me and it goes beyond the players or the coaches or the ownership (as exemplary as it is). There is some x factor at the very core of this astonishing team. Perhaps its the blue collar work ethic or the storied pedigree and larger than life figures (I’m looking at you Jack Lambert). But, this… this is a special team. And I don’t simply mean this particular year’s iteration. The Steelers are truly something special and that is why this loss, and usually every other to varying degrees, hurts.
Thanks for the post, Anthony. I needed that.
Your display of emotion is real and starkly different ...
From my own. I was destroyed for my post on this blog yesterday.
I said they “sucked” and it was ok to say so. I also said I acted like a lunatic watching the game and I know some of you have as well. So I was yelling and complaining about BA, hideous defense and ther refs. Who didn’t!?!
All of you did the same. You all said or screamed something irrational during the game. It’s ok to admit it.
I wanted Tomlin fired and bunch of other completely irrational things done. IRRATIONAL.
I made the point that my emotion, like your temporary depression, is on its face irrational.
Yet my level of pure emotion was judged and considered insulting. Why? Because I had the audacity to criticize my team?
Here’s what I know. You want me next to you in Baltimore or NY or wherever a road game takes you.
Trust me.
I’m running a tailgate for Steelers Giants next year. I’ll be flying the black and gold flag amongst angry NY fans.
Come seek the emotion if you dare to step away from the cover of a blog.
Come see me cheer and jeer at will for a team I’ve loved since I was 5.
You’re all invited.
I posted a response to you yesterday,
and I do apologize if you thought or it seemed that I was insulting you. I wasn’t. I was only saying that it didn’t fit with the context of that particular post. It’s more appropriate here. Cheers and if possible it’d be great to join you for the Steelers/Giants game.
Thanks
I fully admit that it was off. That was the point I was trying to make I guess. I was not in the nood for a rational recap of the game.
I was wearing emotion on my sleeve and said silly things. I can’t explain the pain, anger and sadness of playoff loss.
I can’t read a sports column or watch a highlight. Not yet anyway.
by delisixburgh on Jan 10, 2012 1:47 PM EST up reply actions
I'm write their with you
I’m avoiding all NFL related news for the foreseeable future, well except this site.
Neither can I...
…this is the only sports related media site I can stomach for a while.
United we Stand, melded like Steel
To Roger Goodell, We'll never Yield.
This loss sucks
because I cant listen to ESPN radio anymore on my hour-long commute every morning….
"Leave the gun. Bring the Canolis."
Instead of firing Tomlin
I fired my wife Sunday night. She said I was an idiot when I threw my cooler off the back deck. Monday morning came and she was right but steel fired.
"you will hardly know who I am or what I mean"-Walt Whitman
by Pittsblitz56 on Jan 10, 2012 7:40 PM EST up reply actions
Other 2012 non-divisional road opponents
San Diego, Oakland, Dallas, and Tennessee. Home non-divisional games will be Denver, Kansas City, Philadelphia, Washington and the Jets
I'll be
at the Titans game at LP Field and one home game in Pittsburgh. I can hardly wait to get the dates and begin the logistical effort of securing 30 seats, all together behind the Steelers bench in LP.
HERE WE GO STEELERS!
"Our Father, who art in Pittsburgh, Football be thy game. Thy Kingdom come, thy will be done, at Heinz Field as it is in Heaven. Give us this day, a stellar D and forgive us our bogus fines, as we (sorta) forgive Goodell who trespasses against us. And lead us not into defeat, but deliver us a Victory. For thine is The Steelers, the power and glory of climbing the STAIRWAY TO 7."
schedule
I cannot see them going better than 8-8 next year without significant changes and upgrades!!
C'mon man, climb off that ledge...
we’ll be fine next year.
schedule looks very managable . . .
but they do need to put some serious effort into the offensive line . . . and a new OC!
That's just what they said about the Steelers this year.
HERE WE GO STEELERS!
"Our Father, who art in Pittsburgh, Football be thy game. Thy Kingdom come, thy will be done, at Heinz Field as it is in Heaven. Give us this day, a stellar D and forgive us our bogus fines, as we (sorta) forgive Goodell who trespasses against us. And lead us not into defeat, but deliver us a Victory. For thine is The Steelers, the power and glory of climbing the STAIRWAY TO 7."
12-4, and but for one mistake...13-3...
…and you’re calling for
significant changes and upgrades??? Who do you think we are, the Browns?
United we Stand, melded like Steel
To Roger Goodell, We'll never Yield.
by PaVaSteeler on Jan 10, 2012 2:36 PM EST up reply actions 2 recs
LMAO! This really did make me laugh. Thank you kindly
HERE WE GO STEELERS!
"Our Father, who art in Pittsburgh, Football be thy game. Thy Kingdom come, thy will be done, at Heinz Field as it is in Heaven. Give us this day, a stellar D and forgive us our bogus fines, as we (sorta) forgive Goodell who trespasses against us. And lead us not into defeat, but deliver us a Victory. For thine is The Steelers, the power and glory of climbing the STAIRWAY TO 7."
exactly... be very careful what you wish for.....
" I think this is probably the best team ever assembled. They talk about the Vince Lombardi Era, but I think the Chuck Noll Era is even greater. " - Mel Blount
Changes?
Yes there will always be changes. Each and every off season there are changes and some are even significant. That’s what the off season is for. Time to get healthy and Reload. There’s unfinished business that needs addressed in the fall of 2012. Go Steelers
come on...
Harrison, Troy, LT, Wood, Wallace, AB, Big B, Mendy, Pouncey, Diesel, Swag, Ziggy, Cam, Heath, Clark, Gilbert, Wes….and a host of others locked and loaded?
Plus a second place schedule?
We will be fine
We've got heads on sticks...
by Kid-A on Jan 10, 2012 2:44 PM EST via mobile up reply actions
There’s a nice free agent DE from TN that I’d like the Steelers to look at. He has the potential to be a beast… in the right organization of course.
HERE WE GO STEELERS!
"Our Father, who art in Pittsburgh, Football be thy game. Thy Kingdom come, thy will be done, at Heinz Field as it is in Heaven. Give us this day, a stellar D and forgive us our bogus fines, as we (sorta) forgive Goodell who trespasses against us. And lead us not into defeat, but deliver us a Victory. For thine is The Steelers, the power and glory of climbing the STAIRWAY TO 7."
I'm sure you say that every year...
"If you havin' dragon problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 arrows but my knee took one."
Sooo true
I could not agree with you more Anthony. The Steelers are an integral part of my life. It started with Andy russel and the loss to Miami in the playoffs. It carried my as a young boy during a period when I had to adjust to a new environment. Their resilience, ability to overcome personal and professional issues as well as the integrity of the team from top to bottom registered with me and permeated my very being. I truly identified with the team on so many levels. There teams are studded with personas that exuded leadership, excellence in what they have done and the integrity that the Rooneys cast upon their organization.
I remember watching the steelers win the super owl with my dad while he was dying in a hospital bed. We spoke occasionally through the game but the ties that bound us that afternoon will be carried with me for life.
So, they are right it’s only a game, but to me it’s more. Thank God my wife and 2girls appreciate this as do my friends. To me the Steelers are part of the fabric of my life, it has it’s proper place but is meaningful none the less.
Impose your will.
Sigh
I still cannot believe we lost to the Denver Tebows. I know our Steelers were too stubborn in our approach, but I am still scratching my head over this…
Perspective
I’ve been a die hard fan since 1966 (yeah, I’m old). I do remember when the team was bad… all of you screaming for drastic changes and firing everyone truly, truly have no idea. I still distinctly remember the immaculate reception; I vividly recall where I was, what I was doing, and the satisfaction from being a Steeler fan living in the Bay Area and listening to all the Raider fans cry. I’ve watched all the ups and downs (mostly ups) since then, and I know as fans we are both blessed and spoiled by the continued success of this team; there is no other team in a salary-capped sport like it. But still, I take tough playoff loses hard like everyone else; I can still see Dennis Gibson poking O’Donnell’s pass away, and David Garrards run during the “tackle the nearest defensive player fest”.
But the best perspective I got was last year, when my 16 yr. old son & I watched the super bowl from his hospital room 2 days after his having his spleen removed after a snow-boarding accident. We were both really bummed at the loss, but there are more important things in life.
The Steelers are not a perfect team; such a thing is not possible. But I do trust they have some of the best ownership and management in all of sports. Yes, they should have won Sunday, but I look at it this way: even with the injuries, if the Steelers played the Broncos in Denver they’d beat them an average of 7 to 8 times out of 10. That does not mean they’d beat them everytime; Denver is not a high school or college team.
So step away from the ledge, get ready for next season,make a hella lot of noise when the opposing QB steps behind center, and be thankfull that we can expect a strong and competitive team for the next few decades.
" I think this is probably the best team ever assembled. They talk about the Vince Lombardi Era, but I think the Chuck Noll Era is even greater. " - Mel Blount
I’ve been a fan since the early forgettable 80s. While I am blessed to witness four Super Bowl appearances in 1996 and in the 2000s (winning two of those), I am still on the edge of my seat cheering the Black and Gold on.
We are in for a HUGE makeover this offseason. We are old as hell on defense and are $22.2 mil over the cap for next season.
FINALLY...
…a fan older than me!
All those losses you mentioned, they hurt then, they stick in my throat now. But I think this last one will be the worst. Not because it was a loss, for as others have mentioned, come the end of the game, had we won, we would have been hard pressed to find enough healthy bodies for the next game.
No, for me it was because so many Broncos fans (as classy as they were all week, and after the game), looked at their win as an Immaculate Reception type moment. I don’t think it even compares, but what is worse is that if that perception gains traction, we’ll have to endure what you know the Raiders have endured all these years; being the goat in another teams’ “moment of history”.
Oh, and +7 on your screen quote by Blount.
United we Stand, melded like Steel
To Roger Goodell, We'll never Yield.
Mel Blount is my “all time favorite”. To me as a youngster watching, he WAS the Steelers. I loved everything about him. When people talk about defense and Rod Woodson is the highlight; I think “man… you should have been around for Mel Blount.”
I understand your “bronco mania” disappointment but I’m giving them time to come to their collective senses: The gravitational pull will bring them down quickly and with a terrible “thump”. Keep in mind, it has been a very long time since they’ve had a playoff win to celebrate.
HERE WE GO STEELERS!
"Our Father, who art in Pittsburgh, Football be thy game. Thy Kingdom come, thy will be done, at Heinz Field as it is in Heaven. Give us this day, a stellar D and forgive us our bogus fines, as we (sorta) forgive Goodell who trespasses against us. And lead us not into defeat, but deliver us a Victory. For thine is The Steelers, the power and glory of climbing the STAIRWAY TO 7."
Immaculate Reception
Yes, I remember listening to the IM on radio in the Pittsburgh area-back then, the NFL TV blackout rules were different. The nature of the IM play was so unusual, we may never see it again in those circumstances.Some Broncos fans are getting too excited, and they lose perspective about what happened. Unless the Broncos go on a 70s Steelers-type of roll, I don’t see the national traction it terms of that game. I feel that game will go down as a Denver exciting playoff win, but nothing more.
by SteelStealth on Jan 10, 2012 4:39 PM EST up reply actions
I'm even older
I go back to the Buddy Parker days. I remember that when I was playing Air Force football in England, Andy Russell (Steelers) was playing service football for the 24th Infantry in Germany. He was on the same team with Clarence Childs (the Giants). NFL players to avoid being drafted were placed on Special Service (Army) teams in the military. There were others also, but I cannot recall the names. They were in Germany and France because there was no tackle football Stateside in the military. Elvis Presley was in Germany at that time inSpecial Services. They would have afforded the same status to Muhammad Ali had he elected to serve. Just thought I would add a little nostagia to the conversation.
cool info... Thanks !
" I think this is probably the best team ever assembled. They talk about the Vince Lombardi Era, but I think the Chuck Noll Era is even greater. " - Mel Blount
Those teams would have possibly beaten some of the top college teams
Possibly some of the pro teams. At that time Andy Russell was All Pro material and Clarence Childs was one of the top returners in the league. Our Air Force teams got a lot of the guys who did not make pro rosters. One of the teams in Germany that I played against was the Hahn Hawks. Two of their top Offensive players were Richie Mayo who was (I believe had been an All American QB candidate) and his main receiver Quinlan (don’t remember his first name) was honorable mention. they were both from the Air Force Academy. The championship game (matching the German USAF team against the English USAF team) that year was played in London at White City Stadium. Unfortunately my team was only the runner-up in England. That is probably why we established the NFL Europe league. Football was big there in the 60’s because of all of the military installations there. We also played teams from France and Spain.
you are older than me as well
anyone trying to contact me via my yahoo account should be aware it has been hacked
by Cold_Old_Steelers_Fan on Jan 11, 2012 12:18 AM EST up reply actions
We are not old farts
Just well seasoned veterans.
anyone trying to contact me via my yahoo account should be aware it has been hacked
by Cold_Old_Steelers_Fan on Jan 11, 2012 1:10 AM EST up reply actions
Immaculate Reception
When the Immaculate Reception took place, the Steelers were a perennial NFL doormat – in their 37-year history they’d been in the playoffs once, and only finished above .500 seven times (including two 6-5-1 seasons). The only way the Broncos’ playoff win could be an “Immaculate Reception type moment” was if the Broncos had been unable to reach the playoffs after their ’77 Super Bowl loss.
Coaching Failure
I don’t understand why no one is giving the Steelers coaching staff some grief over this loss. Let’s completely forget that they called a run D on that play because, well, it actually makes sense considering Denver had never passed on first down the entire game.
The bigger problem is that the coaches did not prepare the team for the new overtime rules. When Ike decided to go up high when trying to tackle Thomas, there’s little doubt in my mind that he was thinking the old overtime rules applied. All he had to do was TACKLE HIM before he crossed the goal line. Instead he tries to go up high and get the ball, thinking Prater would come in and kick a field goal to win the game. This was NOT THE CASE. If they held Denver to a field goal then the Steelers would have got another series to at least equal or best the field goal. Total failure on the Steelers coaching staff and it’s infuriating.
And why not at least try the long field goal at the end? In Denver. There were three stinking seconds left. What are the chances of the Broncos blocking it and returning it for a TD? How many times does that happen in a season even when the kicking team ISN’T prepared for it? Total Steelers coaching failure. Ugh.
Right on all counts
All of the Coaches. Head Coach, OC and DC. Also give Tebow his props. He played his heart out. He wanted this game more than we did. But there is no doubt in my mind that a healthy Ben could have won this game easily. Blame the Coaches again, for trying to make a Superman out of him instead of resting him the last 3 games. We were already in the playoffs. A healthy Steeler team can win away from home as well as at home.
Black and Gold (and blue) In Texas
I live in a dallas cowboy (lowercase intentional) state no matter what their record, no matter what the Texans, previously Oilers, do or did. The sun rises and sets in Arlington, Texas according to the media here. Without subscribing to the NFL network, I don’t even get to see all STEELER games.
That said, I wear STEELER gear: shirts, hats, coats and scarves on our few really cold days whenever I can fit the occasion. As I type this post, I sit in my home office surrounded by walls painted gold and type on a PC that had to be black to coordinate with all the STEELER paraphernalia.
I have never set foot in Pittsburgh. I never got to see a game in Three Rivers Stadium, yet cried like a baby when I watched the last game played there on TV. I can remember wanting Turkey Joe Jones to go straight to a very hot place when he broke Terry Bradshaw’s neck during a sack/suplex. Many years later in Austin, Texas, I almost got into a fight with Hollywood Henderson, ostensibly because he hit on my date but really because he was such a hated member of my most hated opponents.
For me there is NO team like the PITTSBURGH STEELERS and no game like a STEELER game. When they win, even bad weekends get better. When they lose, everything else is not quite as good as it could be.
This loss may not have been quite as bad as the Superbowl defeat but it hurt more than a playoff loss normally would, because it came at the hands of Tim Tebow and the Broncos. Now we have to hear the “God wanted him to win” and “Roethlisberger is evil so God willed him to lose” crap forever. Yeah, you get that stuff if you live in the buckle of the ‘Bible Belt’.
Anthony, I am right there with you on this. I didn’t watch TV at all on Monday and have no desire to even now. Football is just a game but the STEELERS are family and this one hurt.
Felt the same way
when Pitt loss to Nova in the Elite Eight in the 09’ NCAA tourny. The loss was so heartbreaking that it was the only thing I could think about for two weeks. “Heartbreak” would not even describe it. At-least the Steelers have Super Bowl victories. Eventually, I did get over it and it slipped into history, but even to this day, it’s difficult to think about.
But ya, great post here. I especially liked your comment about how the dejection fuels the thrill of a big time victory, because you know what the alternative would be. And, the only team that really gets the thrill is the team that wins the championship. All other n – 1 teams (where n is the number of teams in the sport) have to feel dejected at the end of the year, but that is why the one team who wins the championship can be so thrilled. They know how all the other n – 1 teams feel.
Ravens fan here...
and this is a great post and well written. I’m glad you wrote it because it DOES express the way I felt in our loss to Pittsburgh. Another bad one was the Sunday night Troy Polomalu strip fumble game. I was at that game and having a great time. All night I felt great thinking “we got this one!” There were seated terrible towel toters all around me for most of the night while purple clad fans were standing up and cheering . Until….that play.
Then it shifted to seated purple fans and cheering black and gold fans waving terrible towels as we filed out of M&T with our heads hung low.
If it doesn’t sound to strange, I was of the mindset that I wanted the Steelers to beat Denver in the last game with the logic being that in any case, we would be afforded the best case scenario for getting to the big dance. But as a Ravens fan, I must admit that that feeling lasted about 30 seconds after the kickoff. Of course I’m glad that Denver won, and that’s not rubbing it in, its just me being honest. I was as amazed by that td pass as you guys were shocked by it. I’m sure you would feel the same way if the reverse were true.
This post though, shows the commonality between sports fans and makes great points.
These rivalries that we have are a result of these things being important to us while not really important in fact, and I can’t really explain it either but I “get it” too.
I really thought that the result of that game would have been the typical 4th quarter comeback by the Steelers but it just didn’t happen that time and I was surprised. I thought almost for sure that we would see each other again in the playoffs and was honestly looking forward to it as I’ve stated on here many times throughout the season even when you guys were down on yourselves.
The reason I state all of this is to convey that yes, I do take pleasure in a Steelers loss, but more than that, I LOVE the fact that the Steelers exist, especially in my division. The truth is that I wouldn’t want it any other way. We make each other better through our tough brand of football that is typical of the toughest division if not thye best in the NFL!
I’m very proud to be an AFC North team. On any given sunday we can beat any team. Even the Browns played tough this season in spite of their record as we can attest to through our experience with them. On another note, watch out for the up and coming Bengals in the years to come.
So from a Ravens fan, trying not to be cliche’, don’t take it too hard …
You’ll be back.
mirror image here
thanks for the thoughts; feel the same way. Ravens-Steelers games get us all pumped up, and that’s a good thing. We enjoy the rivalry (as long as we win most of them); If the Steelers can’t go the big game, I’d prefer the Ravens to the Pats
" I think this is probably the best team ever assembled. They talk about the Vince Lombardi Era, but I think the Chuck Noll Era is even greater. " - Mel Blount
"(as long as we win most of them)"
Thats exactly how I feel. I always say, “Good luck, but just a little less than us..”
Thanks for sharing that
I am already looking forward to seeing the Steelers playing the Ravens next season. Here’s hoping we will be better prepared the next time our teams meet.
anyone trying to contact me via my yahoo account should be aware it has been hacked
by Cold_Old_Steelers_Fan on Jan 11, 2012 12:24 AM EST up reply actions
Thank you 88keys...
…for reminding me that, beyond a lot of the blog-to-blog name calling, trolling, vitriol that goes on between BTSC and Baltimore Beatdown, there is the commonality of football, and the appreciation for the rivalry that exists. And that you, for one, recognize that what makes our (respective) teams so great, is the quality of their opponents.
We make each other better through our tough brand of football that is typical of the toughest division if not thye best in the NFL!
I’m very proud to be an AFC North team.
Classy post, and you’ve restored my faith in the quality of our opponents fan base.
United we Stand, melded like Steel
To Roger Goodell, We'll never Yield.
I appreciate that
see, we can be rivals with respect.
Thanks for the level headed heartfelt reply
It is very refreshing to have folks come by who aren’t looking to start a fight. I share many of your sentiments and will be rooting for the Raven’s to win it all from this point on – because… Well – it is the closest thing to my brand of football, I HATE the Pats (don’t hate the Ravens) and don’t really care about any of the other teams, so at least if you guys win I can hang my hat on us losing twice to the Super Bowl champs. ;-) Good Luck.
"My mentality is singular in that I want to be world champs each and every year, so that's what we work toward. I have a tough time acknowledging levels of success short of that. That's just how I'm wired." - Mike Tomlin
by MDSTEELERSFAN on Jan 11, 2012 9:07 AM EST up reply actions
Thanks so much for that
It’s nice that some folks in both Baltimore and Pittsburgh can appreciate the nature of the rivalry. We have a real shot here and I think we can make it to the dance
Agree With a Raven???
I can’t believe I’m saying it but I am grateful that the Ravens are in our division. They are a perfect gauge of how good we really are from year to year. If we can beat them convincingly in any given season, then we can probably win the Superbowl. They are consistently that good. I will always hate them (especially Suggs) but I will always respect them. The same will never be true of the Patriots. Good luck to you in beating them if and when you meet.
Farrior in the overtime coin flip
Was that wierd or what. He casually calls tails. At first I thought the ref said “tails”. RIght after the call, Farrior is seemingly looking at the camera , smiling, and winks with the sneakiest of looks. I thought it was wierd, but I thought he was just being a little silly and smug.
Then I realized they had actually lost the coin flip. Why the wink? Seemed a bit odd.
Stay thirsty my friends.
by SteelerMessican on Jan 10, 2012 10:28 PM EST reply actions
I missed the wink. But my guess is that it had some reference to the Bettis coin toss call, on 11/26/1998.
"They timed it perfectly, they just went too soon." - Darrell Waltrip commenting on an illegal restart.
had to go and bring that up huh?
"My mentality is singular in that I want to be world champs each and every year, so that's what we work toward. I have a tough time acknowledging levels of success short of that. That's just how I'm wired." - Mike Tomlin
by MDSTEELERSFAN on Jan 11, 2012 1:01 PM EST up reply actions
When it comes to a weird coin toss, really it’s the only thing that comes to mind.
"They timed it perfectly, they just went too soon." - Darrell Waltrip commenting on an illegal restart.
I wonder what the Ref thinks when he sees the tape of that
"My mentality is singular in that I want to be world champs each and every year, so that's what we work toward. I have a tough time acknowledging levels of success short of that. That's just how I'm wired." - Mike Tomlin
by MDSTEELERSFAN on Jan 12, 2012 9:49 AM EST up reply actions
He thinks he made the right call
The referee microphone only picked up Pittsburgh captain Jerome Bettis calling “tails.”2 The toss was “tails”, and Luckett called the Lions as the coin toss winners. Bettis insisted that he had called “tails”, and Luckett insisted that Bettis had called “heads-tails,” meaning that Bettis said “heads” first. The Steelers argued the call to no avail and Bettis denied Luckett’s claim. The Lions scored a field goal on their first possession of the overtime to win the game.
Within a week, the game tape was enhanced, and Bettis is clearly heard saying “hea-tails.” A sideline microphone enhancement also clearly had Bettis telling Coach Bill Cowher that (Bettis) had said “hea-tails.”2 According to NFL rules, a team’s first call is the one the referee will use.
Following this incident, the captain’s choice of heads or tails is now called before the coin is flipped, and the referee will generally state it over his microphone so that there is no dispute.
Quoted from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phil_Luckett
"They timed it perfectly, they just went too soon." - Darrell Waltrip commenting on an illegal restart.
Wow, good info fresco!
"My mentality is singular in that I want to be world champs each and every year, so that's what we work toward. I have a tough time acknowledging levels of success short of that. That's just how I'm wired." - Mike Tomlin
by MDSTEELERSFAN on Jan 13, 2012 9:10 AM EST up reply actions
I don’t know how valuable wiki info is, but it sure is handy!
Please, you can call me Al.
"They timed it perfectly, they just went too soon." - Darrell Waltrip commenting on an illegal restart.
you can call me Al.
But only if you can call him Betty?
This is the problem with the Flacco hate, people don’t really know who he is as a person. - Mr. Malor. Crazy Raven fan/possible stalker.
You may be on to something there. I tried to call him the other day, and someone answered the phone: “Customer service, this is Betty.”
"They timed it perfectly, they just went too soon." - Darrell Waltrip commenting on an illegal restart.
I was referring to the song by Paul Simon. Sorry.
This is the problem with the Flacco hate, people don’t really know who he is as a person. - Mr. Malor. Crazy Raven fan/possible stalker.
No problem Al
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uq-gYOrU8bA
"My mentality is singular in that I want to be world champs each and every year, so that's what we work toward. I have a tough time acknowledging levels of success short of that. That's just how I'm wired." - Mike Tomlin
by MDSTEELERSFAN on Jan 13, 2012 12:43 PM EST up reply actions
Totally missed that
"My mentality is singular in that I want to be world champs each and every year, so that's what we work toward. I have a tough time acknowledging levels of success short of that. That's just how I'm wired." - Mike Tomlin
by MDSTEELERSFAN on Jan 11, 2012 1:01 PM EST up reply actions
IT ALWAYS HURTS
when we lose. and we do love our team more than most. we have a winning tradition here, that frankly ive grown accustomed to. ive been a fanatic for 35 years, and will be forever my kids are fanatics, my ex wife is a fanatic, my grandkids are or will be fanatics. i bleed black and gold my heart was sad, now im numb. ill be ok though. got the nation behind me
CRUSHED
Life is not the same when you anticpate them in a win situation…and I could care not a damn for what goes on now in the rest of the playoffs…maybe ripping Brady’s head off and getting fined like poor old Harrison..maybe a new NFL commish, who does not hate the Steelers, thus stopping all the penalities we get called for and the other team skates,,or maybe some other team having more injuries than us…or maybe a better conditioning coach thta makes sue we don’t have half the team sidelined due to HAMSTRING injuries..or etc or etc…so now I sulk until draft day and hope for CB’s and BIG LINEMEN in our Black and Gold future,,,,and maybe a QB to replace Batch
Lessons from Vince Lombardi
“Show me a good loser and I’ll show you a loser.”
by SantaCruzSteelers on Jan 12, 2012 11:09 PM EST reply actions

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