Character (Ac)Counts: RB Le'Veon Bell

Aaron Doster-USA TODAY Sports

Let's get this out of the way first. Before August 20th, 2014, a day which lives in a certain amount of infamy in Pittsburgh, Le'Veon Bell had given Steeler Nation no cause to worry about character concerns.

As reports of his arrest on marijuana possession and DUI leaked out, some of us began to have more concerns about his intelligence, since it's difficult to imagine a really smart person would: a) not know that driving high was considered "Driving Under the Influence," and: b) would think it was a good idea to be smoking dope on your way to the airport for a game, whether driving or not. Perhaps we can add to this: c) would think it was a good idea to hang-out with LeGarrette Blount.

Whatever the case, I believe we can all put this behind us, as Bell has entered a program for first-time offenders which will, when completed, expunge his record. And I think there's good reason to be confident. Last summer, two months before the arrest, I spoke with a person who was on the Michigan State committee in charge of drug-related matters for athletes, and this person told me Bell's name had never, during his time at Michigan State, come across said faculty member's desk.

I'm quite sure the majority of those who are considered high-character individuals could tell a story of something stupid they did in their early 20s. The trick is to learn from your mistakes before they completely derail your life.

Bell's story, like a great many of the young men who make up the NFL teams, is one of being raised by a single mother and being fortunate enough to have encountered someone as a teenager who helped to keep them on the path to achievement and success. Thus, the two people Bell credits with his success are his mother and his high school principal, Donis Toler Jr.

In an NFL network video, "A Running Backstory," Toler, a former running back himself who had a cup of coffee or so in the NFL, introduced himself to Bell on his first day of high school:

Bell: He said "You're not the man here. I'm the man here." My mom would always come at me, but I didn't really have like a father figure to say "don't do this, don't do that." He kind of took that over.

The host, Steve Cyphers, recounts Toler's receipt of a hand-written letter from Bell during his final year at Michigan State. The part which touched Toler the most?

"I truly appreciate everything you have done for me these past six years—for being a father figure and really keeping me focused on school and football."

For his mother, he chose a different route. This Thanksgiving he posted a letter to her on Cauldron titled "My Vote for MVP:" I hope he (and you all) will forgive me for extensive quotes from this letter, as it reveals his heart in such a beautiful way. [All bolded text represents italicized text in the original.]

As a running back in the National Football League, my instinct is to always be moving forward. No matter what the defense throws at me, no matter how successful our offensive game plan is, it's always full steam ahead. In some ways, that's why Thanksgiving is my favorite time of year—it gives me the chance to look back, to consider not just where I am going, but where I've been.

Now in my second year in the league, I'm building something wonderful in Pittsburgh, but I know that nothing can be built without a solid foundation; without the right materials. For me, that all starts with my mother —and her unwavering belief that despite life's twists and turns, its highs and lows, it's important to maintain balance and perspective. Get stuffed at the line for no gain? Get right back up. Break off a 70-yard TD run? Get ready for the next series.

My mother was my first and strongest offensive line. Raising my two brothers and me as a single, working mom, her résumé is far more remarkable than any 200-yard game on mine. She was our family's great protector. Looking back on things now, we never knew struggle, even though we struggled. There were countless times when we didn't have, I just didn't know we didn't have. It wasn't just things and stuff, either; we never lived in the best neighborhoods, but she made sure we weren't in the worst ones, either. I was always in the right schools, with the right resources at my disposal. She saw to it that I had the sports equipment I needed, and even now, I have no idea how she came up with the money for it. The irony is, when people now compliment my ability to make something out of nothing on the football field, my mom is the one who's been doing so in real life all along.

Of all the lessons my mom taught me, though, the one that still resonates the most was to treat every loss as a learning experience. I didn't always win at everything —Lord knows I tried! —but that wasn't the point. The point was to be the best I could possibly be...It wasn't about how bad I had played earlier, it was about how good I aspired to be going forward. I wish all children could grasp how important it is to strive to improve themselves. Especially the ones who grow up in difficult circumstances...

...My mom likes to think I learned my moves from dodging our German Shepherd Z in our backyard. That’s partly true, but I also honed my juking skills from watching how she handled her business — if there was an obstacle in our way, she was going to find a way over, around, and past it...

...When I was at Michigan State, she traveled to our bowl game against TCU and cooked in the hotel's kitchen; she actually brought her own roasters and crockpots because the hotel didn't have an oven. She's always had everything covered, which is funny, because as amazing as it's been learning from Coach Tomlin the last two seasons, my mother was the first one to show me how valuable a tight game plan really is.

But there's lots more, and this is for us:

As a Pittsburgh Steeler, I'm thankful for the unconditional love this city has shown me. My entire family were Steelers fans long before I was drafted by the franchise, so when people around here say that they live and die with this team, I know they aren't kidding. That's part of the reason why Pittsburgh is the perfect fit for me, as a player and as a person...

...Like the other 65,000+ members of Steeler Nation who attend home games, my mom sits in the stands, too, living and dying during each and every play. She also comes to road games within a reasonable drive of our family home in Ohio —and she never misses our games in Baltimore or Cleveland. That kind of support is invaluable. It makes me want to do better as an athlete and a person.

The support his mom gives has a cost:

One year ago today, on national television, while trying to dive across the goal line for a game-tying touchdown against our rival Baltimore Ravens, I took a helmet-to-helmet hit, and my helmet came flying off. Thankfully, the concussion I suffered on the play was mild, and not career-threatening, and I continue to run now as aggressively and powerfully as I always have. A running back can't be effective if he lets fear creep into his mind.

I know moments like those are not easy for my mom. Sure, she always puts on a brave face for me, but she can't completely hide her worry from me...

...All kidding aside, when I step time out on that field, I pray. Every single time. Yes, I pray because I know exactly how dangerous my line of work can be, but I also pray because I am so truly thankful to be doing what I do. I have scripture tattooed on my left arm: John, 3:15. It reads, "That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life." I recite it before I play. It's important to believe in something bigger than yourself. And not only in terms of your God, but in life in general. There's strength in humility. Just like your glory is just a small part of God's glory, your individual success is just a small part of your team's success.

Along the same lines, my success is just a small part of my family's success. I'm thankful my hard work has earned me a job that allows me to help my mother finally retire. Even though I have my dream job, I haven't forgotten the pinky-promise I made to go back and get my degree from Michigan State. In our family, a pinky-promise is a big deal— you're only as good as your word. And I'll have my degree soon enough, because my mother taught me the importance of finishing strong—on and off the field.

Believe it or not, there's a lot more in the letter. But I think this gives a good portrait of the very special running back the Steelers drafted a year and a half ago. It's such a joy to know he isn't just special on the field but off of it as well. Stay humble, Le'Veon, just like Principal Toler told you, and you'll be able to handle not only opposing defenses but what life throws at you as well.

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Nice to be able to root for someone

because of more than their ability. Could this be the beginning of something really big? Its certainly possible.

this guy could be huge

We’ve had some great players on this team and we’ve had some great guys play for this team. The one’s who are both great guys AND great players are the ones who will be forever remembered by the Steeler faithful

Beautiful.

Thanks, Momma, for finding this.

Very nice

Loved Bell before. Love him a whole lot more now.

Great Article

seems like a good, hard working kid.

Does anybody remember Ben calling out Bell last year?

I remember there being some kind of minor controversy but I can’t remember much more than it involving Ben talking about Bell.

Yeah, when Bell had been hurt early on, Ben said he needed him out there and needed to see more from him.

Right now, they seem so tight they must finish each other’s sentences.

Bell’s ability as a runner, receiver, and blocker could extend Ben’s career a couple of years, and Ben certainly knows that.

26 jersey for xmas please

Bell is the kind of person and player to root for. Keep blazing bro. It’s no character concern of mine. Cheers to you, Le’veon. Since when does smoking marijuana mean you have some sort of "character problem"? Hog wash. Go Steelers and go 26!

Well said

Ditto. Bell is a good kid. His press conferences show what kind of guy he is-nice, laid back, friendly and a team player. No character concerns from me either. Go Bell! Have a great game Sunday!

Surely

when your team depends on you and your job depends on meeting certain criteria, it’s a character concern when you blow it off. Ask the Browns whether Josh Gordon’s weed problems are a character concern. Whether you think marijuana ought to be legal or not, it isn’t in most states, but more to the point the league has an issue with it. So you may want to consider that if Bell "keeps blazing" he’s going to fail a drug test, which he has to take on a regular basis as part of the league’s mandated drug protocol. And if he does fail one, now he’s a repeat offender, and the suspension is going to be that much longer. Gordon was out for half the season, and it was originally supposed to be the whole season – a BIG problem for the team who took a big chance on him.

Absolutely agree. Rules are rules and you’re either on the right side or the wrong side of them.

Shamarko Thomas had an interesting posting on his Facebook page recently. The picture was of a man (seemingly) smoking a joint… The caption read: "One night I prayed to God. I asked could he please remove the enemies from my life & before you know it I started losing friends."

I couldn’t help but think of LeGarrette Blount.

pre- flight blazing should be optional

Should be smoking rooms in every airport.

Maybe

We should also teach meth making in 8th grade. After all we wouldn't want the chemistry challenged to accidentally blow up the daycare they're making it at.

sarcasism font...

Seriously, people get high off of tobacco smoke every day. Difference is it takes a pack of 20 to satisfy the craving and for some insane reason tobacco is legal- explain that one- kills millions of people, raises health care, costs us a fortune every year to care for sick and dying of cancer, heart disease, and lung related health problems, yet its ok and weed is "wrong, bad, illegal, and against the rules", what a joke.
The last flight I took I spent a few minutes in the bathroom wishing I had medication. Guess throwing up and being nauseous was something I should have just "dealt with". Wouldn’t want to "break laws"

Or

You could have contacted your PCP and asked for an anti-anxiety medication Rx…. Sometimes Dramamine OTC is effective as well.

I’ve never once gotten ‘high’ from a cigarette, but certainly acted a bit under the influence in my much, much younger days when I, like many teens ‘tried’ pot.

We could debate this all day and never accomplish anything. So that being said, I wish you well and am happy to agree to disagree with you.

Merry Christmas, btw!

You’re right, its a subject that could go on forever I guess. Tried dramamine, even had a gold plated electronic wrist device when I spent the week on a cruise ship with the devil-reincarnate.
Happy holidays to you as well.

Never travel with the devil. Soar with the angels instead lol

Seriously, it’s no fun traveling when you get sick. I feel for ya.

If Bell and Blount didn’t get caught, the entire weed thing would have never been publicized and we would have never found out about it. They would have continued to do it and we would have never known, just like so many players continue to do now.
Quite certain the NFL wouldn’t exist if every player was tested on a regular basis. The tests are easy to cover up anyways, so the biggest bonehead move was getting caught.

Got mine for xmas last year :) hopped aboard the bandwagon way early.

Told my friends he would be a top 5 rb in the next couple years and they laughed at me. Now he is #1 and just a year later… Some crazy sh**

This guy is the epitome of Steelers ball

After reading such a well crafted letter that demonstrates such admiration for those who helped guide him in life and such humility, I can only say that this guy is beyond special. Character counts within the Steelers organization and I am thankful we have found a player that represents that character with such dignity.
I was always thankful that I had parents that forgave the idiocy of my youth and helped guide me in life. This is the most valuable thing, even beyond money, that a parent can pass to their children.

Beautifully said, KY...

Thank you Miss Rollett

I always enjoy your comments as at least you seem to have faith in the Steelers.

I traveled to Pittsburgh today.

As I was in the waiting room for my neurologist, there were two older gentlemen, both in their 60’s or 70’s, who started talking about the Steelers. One man turned to the other and said "That Bell kid is really special. It makes me think of when I watched Franco in Three Rivers." The other agreed.

That conversation really hit hard for me. Knowing that the fans who grew up watching Franco are praising Bell’s ability and his sportsmanship is something truly special.

One bad decision can affect people's perception for ages.

No matter how you slice it, he made a bad decision for which he apologized for and (hopefully) learned a valuable life’s lesson from.

I really find this young man to be very sincere and kind hearted, albeit a bit of a follower …. But I guess that comes with the territory when you follow blockers for a living.

The slate is clean for him now, after all, just like in the holiday classic The Grinch Who Stole Christmas, "he said he was sorry."

Big Ben is a GREAT example of that!

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